Maling habag

Lawiswis Ng Salita ni P. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Ika-26 ng Nobyembre 2025

*Larawan mula sa Catholic News Agency, 22 Nobyembre 2025.*

Tawag pansin at higit sa lahat ay nakatutuwa ang pahayag ng Santo Papa Leo XIV kamakailan mula sa Roma na mag-ingat aniya ang lahat sa maling habag at awa.

Nagtipon sa Roma noong isang linggo ang mga bumubuo sa court of appeals ng Simbahan kung tawagin ay Roman Rota na siyang humahawak sa mga kaso ng marriage annulment. Heto yung pambungad na bahagi ng balita mula sa Vatican:

In a firm call to avoid “false mercy” in marriage annulment proceedings, Pope Leo XIV reminded that compassion cannot disregard the truth.

During a Friday audience with participants in the legal-pastoral training course of the Roman Rota, the Holy See’s court of appeals, the Holy Father read a lengthy speech in which he recalled the importance of the reform of marriage annulment processes initiated by Pope Francis 10 years ago. (Mula sa ulat ni Almudena Martinez-Bordiu ng Catholic News Agency)

Noon pa mang mahalal na Santo Papa si Leo XIV, marami na siyang pahayag na nakakatawag pansin hindi sapagkat kakaiba o nakakagulat katulad ng sinundan niyang si Papa Francisco.

Pagmasdan palaging malinaw at ayon sa turo ng Simbahan at kanyang mga tradisyon ang mga pahayag ni Papa Leon. Walang malabo na nagbibigay daan sa maling pagkaunawa o interpretasyon. At sa lahat ng kanyang binitiwang salita, ito ang pinaka-nagustuhan ko dahil totoong-totoo. Hindi lamang sa larangan ng pagsusuri sa mga kaso ng annulment ng mga kasal kungdi sa ating buhay mismo.

Bagaman mahalaga ang maging mahabagin na siyang pinaka tuon ng pansin ni Pope Francis noon, niliwanag ngayon ni Papa Leon na hindi maaring puro na lang awa at habag.

Tunay naman na maraming pagkakataon lumalabis ating habag at awa habang nakakalimutan ang katotohanan. Lalo na sa ating mga Pinoy na puro na lang awa at bihira gumana ang batas kaya naman palala ng palala ang ating sitwasyon na nawawala na ang kaayusan dahil bihirang bigyang pagkakataon ang gawi ng katarungan.

Sa tuwing nasasantabi ang katotohanan at nangingibabaw ang pagkaawa, ito ay nagiging maling uri ng habag dahil hindi maaring pairalin ang awa kung walang katotohanan. Ipinaliwanag ni Papa Leon noong isang linggo na palagi sa lahat ng pagkakataon na hanapin at tingnan muna ang katotohanan sa mga bagay-bagay na kinokonsidera ukol sa mga kaso ng sa kasal. Idiniin ng Santo Papa na dapat maunang hanapin at panindigan ang katotohanan dahil ito mismo si Jesu_Kristo na nagsabing “Ako ang daan at ang katotohanan at ang buhay” (Jn. 14:6).

Gayon din sa buhay. Ang maging maawain sa gitna ng kawalan ng katotohanan lalo na namamayani ang kasinungalingan ay maling-mali sapagkat sa tuwing nauuna ang awa at habag kesa katotohanan, nasasantabi rin ang katarungan kung saan mayroong tiyak na napagkakaitan nito. Hindi nagiging patas ang kalagayan kung puro awa at walang katotohanan.

Kasalan sa binaha na simbahan ng Barasoain sa Malolos City, 22 Hulyo 2025; larawan kuha ni *Aaron Favila ng Associated Press.*

Sa tuwing nauuna ang pagkamaawain sa gitna ng kawalan ng katotohanan, lalo tayo nagiging walang awa o merciless sa dapat kaawaan habang hinahayaan natin ang pag-iral ng kasinungalingan. Balang araw, lulubha at lalala ang kamaliang ito kaya higit na marami ang mahihirapan.

Hindi maaring pairalin ang habag at awa kung mayroong mali at kasamaan. Iyan problema sa ating bansa: lahat na lang kinaawan at pinatawad maski walang pagsisisi ni pag-amin ng kasalanan kaya wala ring napaparusahan ni nakukulong! Magtataka pa ba tayo wala tayong kaayusan at higit sa lahat, wala tayong patunguhan?

Kinabukasan ng halalan noong 2019 habang almusal, nagsabi ng sorry sa akin ang aming kasambahay sa kumbento. Bakita ika ko? Kasi daw binoto niya pa rin si Bong Revilla bilang Senador sa kabila ng pagsasabi ko na huwag iboto; paliwanag niya sa akin ay “nakakaawa naman kung walang boboto kay Bong”.

Hindi ko malaman noon kung ako ay tatawa o magagalit. Sabi ko na lang sa kanya, puro ka awa kay Bong e hayun siya pa isa sa mga maraming nakuhang boto bilang senador, dinaig mga karapat-dapat! Ano nangyari mula noon hanggang ngayon? Sangkot diumano sa mga kaso ng pandarambong si Bong Revilla, hindi ba? Kasi nga binalewala ng mga botante ang katotohanan ng dati niyang kaso ng corruption kay Napoles at higit sa lahat ang kawalan niya ng kakayahan bilang mambabatas.

Ganyan nangyayari sa buhay saan man kapag isinasantabi ang katotohanan at pinaiiral palagi ang awa at habag. Kay rami nating mga mag-aaral na nakakatapos at guma-graduate na walang alam dahil kinaawaan lang ng guro. Tama nga tawag sa kanila, “pasang-awa” pero sino ang kawawa kapag bumabagsak ang tulay o lumalala ang pasyente?

*Larawan kuha ng may-akda, 20 Marso 2025, Sacred Heart Novitiate, Novaliches.*

Walang natututo ng ano mang aral sa paaralan o sa buhay man nang dahil lang sa awa. Hindi titino ang bansa kapag lalaktawan ang mga batas dahil kaaawaan palagi ang mga lumalabag.

Reklamo tayo ng reklamo na namimili ang batas o selective kung saan mayroong mga pinapaboran at hindi kasi naman mas pinipili natin palagi ang awa kesa katotohanan na mayroong mali o kulang.

Kailan natin haharapin ang katotohanan? Kaya nga sinabi ni Jesus na “ang mapagkakatiwalaan sa munting bagayay pagkakatiwalaan ng higit na malalaking bagay, ang hindi tapat sa munting bagay at hindi rin mapagkakatiwalaan sa malalaking bagay” (Lk.16:10-14).

Hindi tayo nagiging maawain o merciful bagkus ay nagiging walang awa o merciless nga tayo kapag maling awa ang umiiral sa atin dahil malayo tayo sa katotohanan. Katotohanang muna bago habag at awa. Veritas et Misericordia gaya ng motto ng aming pamantasan. Naawa ni Jesus sa mga makasalanan tulad ng babaeng nahuli sa pakikiapid, kay Maria Magdalena at kay Dimas dahil umamin silang lahat sa katotohanan na sila nga ay nagkasala. Gagana lamang ang habag at awa ng Diyos kapag mayroong pag-amin at pagtanggap sa katotohanan. Huwad ang ano mang awa kapag walang katotohanan dahil tiyak wala ring katarungan na umiiral doon.

Walang bansa ang umunlad dahil lang sa awa, lalo na sa maling awa kungdi sa pagsasaliksik at paninindigan ng katotohanan.

Higit sa lahat ay nakakabuhay ng pag-asa ang pahayag ni Pope Leo para sa Simbahang Katolika lalo na dito sa Pilipinas. Nakakahiya at nakakalungkot kaming mga pari na gayon na lang kung makapula sa mga politiko at upisyal ng gobyerno sangkot sa anomalya ngunit kapag kapwa pari ang may katiwalian at alingasngas… ano laging hiling namin maging ng mga tao?

Patawarin. Kaawaan. Hayaan na lang.

Bakit ganoon?

Bukod na ang pari ay dapat larawan ng kabutihan, kami rin siyang dapat tagapagtanghal at tagapagtanggol ng katotohanan. Hindi lang ng awa. Iyong tama na awa gaya ng sinasaad ni Papa Leon. At ng Diyos.

Ang masakit ay, palaging pakiusap at sangkalan ng mga pari ay awa kahit na mali ang ginawa o ginagawa. Kaya malaking aral sa Simbahan ang yumanig na sex scandal noon. At diyan natin makikita walang katanda-tanda ang ilang pari at obispo dito sa Pilipinas: kapag pinag-usapan kaso ng mga paring sangkot sa sex at money scams, kaagad-agad ang hiling nila ay “awa”.

Kawalan ng katarungan at isang kasinungalingan kapag mga kaparian sa pamumuno at pangunguna ng obispo ay puro awa habang winawalang bahala ang katotohanan. Nakakatawa at nakaka-inis maringgan mga pari at obispo nasisiyahan sa mga kuwentong Maritess pero kapag ang paksa ay katiwalian ng isang pari, ni hindi man lamang alamin, suriin kung totoo o hindi upang maituwid. Kaya sa kahuli-hulihan, maraming pari at obispo lumalakad may ipot sa ulo dahil kitang-kita ng iba ang kamalian at kasinungaligan na sila ang ni ayaw tumingin ni umamin.

Sa mga nangyayari ngayon sa bansa, ito rin ang hamon sa amin sa Simbahan: magpakatotoo, huwag pairalin maling awa o false mercy wika ni Pope Leo upang si Kristo ang tunay na maghari sa ating buhay upang makamit tunay na pag-unlad sa lahat ng larangan ng buhay. Ano ang iyong palagay sa sinabi ni Papa Leon ukol sa maling awa? Mag-ingat at baka mayroon ka rin niyon. Amen.

Panaghoy kay San Juan Bautista

Lawiswis ng Salita ni P. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Ika-29 ng Agosto 2025

“The Beheading of Saint John the Baptist”, tinuturing na obra maestra ng batikang pintor na si Caravaggio noong 1608 na ngayon ay nasa Co-Cathedral ni San Juan sa Valetta, Malta; mula sa commons.wikimedia.org.

Araw-araw nauulit sa ating Kristiyanong bansa ang karumal-dumal na krimen ng pagbitay kay San Juan Bautista lalo na sa larangan ng parumi ng parumi at talamak na sistema ng korapsiyon sa ating pamahalaan.

Kaya minabuti ko na isitas buong tagpo ng Ebanghelyo ng kanyang Pagpapakasakit na ginugunita natin sa Simbahan sa araw na ito.

Basahin at namnamin, managhoy at tumangis ngunit pagkaraan ay bumangon upang labanan malungkot na kinasasadlakan nating lahat ngayon;katotohanan ni Kristo ating panindigan tulad ni San Juan Bautista laban sa mga makabagong Herodes, Herodias at Salome ng ating panahon.

Noong panahong iyon, si Herodes ang nagpahuli, nagpagapos at nagpabilanggo kay Juan dahil kay Herodias. Ang babaing ito’y asawa ni Felipe na kapatid ni Herodes ngunit kinakasama niya. Laging sinasabi sa kanya ni Juan, “Hindi matuwid na kunin ninyo ang asawa ng inyong kapatid.” Kaya’t si Herodias ay nagkimkim ng galit kay Juan. Hinangad niyang ipapatay ito, ngunit hindi niya magawa, sapagkat natatakot si Herodes kay Juan. Alam niyang ito’y taong matuwid at banal, kaya’t ipinagsasanggalang niya. Gustong-gusto niyang makinig kay Juan, bagamat labis siyang nababagabag sa mga sinasabi nito.

Sa wakas ay nagkaroon ng pagkakataon si Herodias nang anyayahan ni Herodes sa kanyang kaarawan ang kanyang mga kagawad, mga pinuno ng hukbo, at ang mga pangunahing mamamayan ng Galilea. Pumasok ang anak na babae ni Herodias at nagsayaw. Labis na nasiyahan si Herodes at ang mga panauhin, kaya’t sinabi ng hari sa dalaga, “Hingin mo sa akin ang anumang ibig mo at ibibigay ko sa iyo.” At naisumpa pa niyang ibibigay kahit ang kalahati ng kanyang kaharian kung ito ang hihilingin. Lumabas ang dalaga at tinanong ang kanyang ina, “Ano ang hihingin ko?” “Ang ulo ni Juan Bautista,” sagot ng ina. Dali-daling nagbalik ang dalaga sa kinaroroonan ng hari. “Ang ibig ko po’y ibigay ninyo sa akin ngayon din, sa isang pinggan, ang ulo ni Juan Bautista,” sabi niya. Labis na nalungkot ang hari, ngunit dahil sa kanyang sumpa na narinig ng kanyang mga panauhin, hindi niya matanggihan ang dalaga. Kaagad niyang iniutos sa isang bantay na dalhin sa kanya ang ulo ni Juan. Sumunod ang bantay at pinugutan si Juan sa bilangguan, inilagay ang ulo sa isang pinggan, at ibinigay sa dalaga. Ibinigay naman iyon ng dalaga sa kanyang ina. Nang mabalitaan ito ng mga alagad ni Juan, kinuha nila ang kanyang bangkay at inilibing (Marcos 6:17-29).

*“Salome with the Head of John the Baptist” isa pang painting ni Caravaggio noong 1607-1610 na ngayon ay nasa National Gallery sa London; mula sa commons.wikimedia.org.*

Hindi ba dapat nating tangisan 
itong nangyayari sa ating kapaligiran
na akusasyon noon laban kay San Juan 
ay pagsasabi ng katotohanan? 
Hanggang ngayon
kung sino nagsasabi ng totoo
siya pang napapasama at nakukulong
habang mga gumagawa ng
kasamaan at kabuktutan
hinahangaan,
niluluklok pa sa kapangyarihan
kaya mga Herodes 
lalo pang dumarami
tumatapang, ayaw nang patinag
kapit tuko sa puwesto
pamilya ginawang dinastiya.

Kay laking kabaligtaran
noong sina Eba at Adan
Diyos ay talikuran sa kasalanan,
nagtago sa kahihiyan
katawan tinakpan 
ng dahong maselan;
pero ngayon,
buwaya man mapapahiya
kapal ng mga senador at congressman
kung magmaang-maangan 
pinagsamang Herodes at Pilato
takot na takot sa katotohanan
akala pagkakasala ay mapaparam
kung mga kamay ay hugasan
gayong kadalasa'y magkatiklop
sa pananalangin
at kung Ama Namin ang awitin
silang mga Herodes nakahawak
kamay sa mga panauhin
bilang hermano, hermana
ng pista, magkukuratsa
kunwa'y mapasaya ang parokya
lalo na ang kura 
pati obispo nila!

*“Salomé with the Head of John the Baptist” isa pa ring painting ni Caravaggio noong 1606-1607 na ngayon ay nasa Royal Palace ng Madrid; mula sa commons.wikipedia.org.*

Nakaka-iyak
nakaka-inis
nakaka-galit
sa gitna ng maraming hirap
at sakit, 
may mga Herodias
pumapayag maging kabit
sariling pagkatao winawaglit
sinasaalang-alang sa kinang 
ng pera nahahalina
pakiwari'y gumaganda
ngunit di maikaila sa mga mata
kimkim nila ay galit
sa nagsasabi ng totoo
pilit nagpapa-interview
akala lahat ay maloloko!

O Diyos ko,
kalusin mo na ang salop
bago pa dumami 
at manganak
ng mga Salome bawat
Herodes at Herodias;
labis ang kalapastanganan
pinamamayagpag kayamanang
nakaw at panlilinlang pinagmulan;
walang pakundangan sa
gastos at pagmamayabang
hari-harian sa social media
pabebe lang ang nalalaman
nitong mga Salome 
kung tawagi'y "nepo babies"
ngunit ano mang wika 
kanilang gamitin
lilitaw pa rin pinagtatakpan
nilang kababawan kailanman
di kayang bigyang katuwiran
ng mga luho at karangyaan
na pawang ka-cheapan
kahit bihisan ng ginto,
pusali pa rin ang katauhan!

Hindi mauubus
mga Herodes at Herodias 
at mga Salome 
hangga't mayroon sa kanila
ay tatangkilik na mga hunghang 
na walang alam 
at tanging pinahahalagahan
kanilang mga tiyan
at sariling kaluguran;
kaya hayaan nating muling
umalingawngaw sa ilang
panawagan at sigaw ni
Juan Bautista: tayo ay gumising
sa ating pagkakahimbing
panindigan ang katotohanan 
kay Kristo lamang makakamtan!

*Larawan kuha ng may-akda, St. Scholastica Retreat House, Baguio City, Agosto 2023.*

Jesus, our truth, our strength

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul, 29 August 2025
Friday, Passion of St. John the Baptist, Martyr
Jeremiah 1:17-19     <*{{{{>< + ><}}}}*>     Mark 6:17-29

*Photo from Fatima Tribune during the Red Wednesday Mass at the Chapel of the Angel of Peace, Our Lady of Fatima University, Valenzuela City, 27 November 2024.*

Lord Jesus Christ,
today I pray in the most
special way to free us from
lies and falsehoods,
fake news and other news
in social media masquerading 
as lifestyle especially of the filthy rich;
we have turned away from you,
Jesus, 
"the Way and 
the Truth and 
the Life";
give us the courage you gave
St. John the Baptist
your forerunner 
to speak
to stand 
to die
for what is true.

The word of the Lord came to me thus: Gird your loins; stand up and tell them all that I command you. Be not crushed on their account, as though I would have you crushed before them… They will fight against you, but not prevail over you, for I am with you to deliver you, says the Lord (Jeremiah 1:17, 19).

Like John the Baptist
and Jeremiah
and all the others
who have stood 
their ground for the Truth,
let us find our strength
in you, Jesus
in fighting for what is true:
I pray for those
involved in the ghost
projects in our country
to finally speak
and tell the truth
so that this system
of sin and evil
may finally be stopped
or at least mitigated
in our forsaken country
of so many liars,
of children acting like 
Salomes flaunting their
wealth,
of adults especially couples
and mistresses living in lies
like Herodias harboring grudge
on the honest and truthful men,
and leaders specially in politics
who are so much like Herod
so happy to listen and attend
Mass but never had the courage
to defend and stand for what is 
true.

Have mercy on us,
Lord Jesus,
for continuing to crucify you,
and for beheading others
who announce your coming
like John the Baptist.
Amen.

St. John the Baptist,
Pray for us!

Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Our Lady of Fatima University
Valenzuela City
(lordmychef@gmail.com)

Scammers & Samaritans: living in the net

Quiet Storm by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, 15 July 2025

Bless me, for I have sinned: this Father is a “dinosaur” so afraid of modern technology, so hesitant even in upgrading my cellphone and laptop. And most of all, always suspicious of messages in social media.

Generally, I am more inclined to mistrust everything in the net. But, something happened this Monday that I feel like changing this attitude.

I have celebrated Mass of the Holy Spirit in our Cabanatuan City campus before noon when I found multiple “message requests” from some people asking if I know their former boss at NEDA, Mr. Joseph T. Lalog, a first cousin we fondly called Kuya Jojo.

My initial reaction was budol. Scam.

But when I read that he was in the ER of a hospital in EDSA, I prayed and finally hit the number sent to me by a certain Byron to inquire about Kuya Jojo. After a brief introduction, I was told Kuya Jojo had just died after being rushed that morning to the Victor R. Potenciano Medical Center (VRPMC) in EDSA, Mandaluyong City.

Kuya Jojo was allegedly found by a janitress lying on the floor in one of the restrooms of Shangrila Mall morning of July 14, 2025. He was rushed by the mall’s emergency response team to the ER of VRPMC where doctors tried to revive him but later declared as dead around noon that Monday.

The people at the ER checked Kuya Jojo’s contacts in his cellphone and like my initial reaction, his former staff and colleagues at work thought it was also budol until after they have personally called the hospital with some of them going there to verify the report.

That was when Byron and his colleagues at NEDA who were under Kuya Jojo tried reaching out to us by checking his Facebook contact lists of “Lalog” and “Tobias”. And similarly, we all suspected it could be a scam because Kuya Jojo had always been healthy without any vice at all. He was a varsity of the track and field team at De La Salle University where he finished AB Political Science.

What convinced me to set aside my doubts and press that number provided by Byron was his message that my Kuya Jojo would always speak to him about my being a priest. He asked in one of his texts, “kayo po ba si Father Nick pinsan ni Sir Jojo?” With that, I finally felt deep inside this must be true. Not a scam. Or budol.

Mahirap palang maging netizen, mabuhay sa internet.

You know that daily or maybe every second of struggles just to verify and check whether those messages and information in the social media are true or not.

Baka niloloko ka lang? O, ako lang ang OC, takot at duda sa social media?

Ang hirap lalo na sa gitna ng maraming kuwento ng pangloloko at mga budol ng kung sino sino sa social media at internet na kahit kaming mga pari niloloko o ginagamit sa pangbubudol!

At ang pinakamahirap sa lahat – kapag binabanggit na pangalan ng mga taong malapit sa iyo katulad ng pinsan kong buo na si Kuya Jojo. Ang hirap at nakakatakot paniwalaan mga texts na namatay o kung napano na…

That entire stretch of travel from Cabanatuan City to EDSA, I felt being warped between reality and virtual reality, between the net and the real world. What if this is not true? Paano ako?

Aside from those things running in my mind, I was also thinking of my elder relatives. How am I going to break the news? How reliable were those people if they were really the colleagues and staff of my cousin even after I spoke to one of them on phone?

As I thought of my cousin lying on the floor of the CR of the mall, suddenly I remembered last Sunday’s gospel of the good Samaritan. It was like a modern version. My cousin almost dead or already dead on the marble floor of the restroom when a janitress had the courage and mercy to call their emergency response team.

Most of all, of the most kindred souls of Kuya Jojo’s friends and colleagues who never gave up on reaching out to us. They are all the modern good Samaritans who “treated him with mercy” (Lk.10:37).

I arrived 4:30 PM in the hospital where the ER doctor in charge briefed me of Kuya Jojo’s death. Soon Byron arrived and told the doctor my cousin’s medical condition while the funeral service sent by my uncle in Los Baños finally arrived at around 8:00 PM.

At the morgue, I gave the final blessings for Kuya Jojo before being transported to Los Baños where his wake will be held at the Heaven’s Gate Memorial Park in Bgy. Anos. After thanking and blessing Byron and the hospital staff, I booked my ride home as I had earlier sent home our university driver to rest for another trip to our Pampanga campus the following morning.

*Photo by cottonbro studio on Pexels.com*

In less than ten minutes I was on board my Grab ride to Valenzuela City, still wondering what had happened that Monday. As I scrolled on my Facebook and Instagram with its bright light filling my ride, I felt a sense of relief that Jesus is very much present in the internet, in social media. St. Paul wrote it so well more than 2000 years ago that “where sin increased, grace overflowed all the more” (Rom. 5:20).

No matter how bad we see the world including the internet these days with its many sins and evil, God assured me that night that there are still far more good people, good Samaritans than evil ones. We simply have to make the right choice always by choosing Jesus who remains “the way, the truth, and the life” (Jn. 14:6). God bless everyone!

*Thank you to the staff and colleagues of the late Joseph T. Lalog at the NEDA. We do not have yet the details of his wake and interment as his sisters are arriving only this Thursday. On behalf of our clan, thank you and may God bless you more!

Being an advocate of God

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday in the Sixth Week of Easter, 26 May 2025
Acts 16:11-15     <*[[[[><  +  ><]]]]'>     John 15:26-16:4

*Photo by author, Sacred Heart Novitiate, Novaliches, QC, 20 March 2025.*

Jesus said to his disciples: “When the Advocate comes whom I will send you from the Father, the Spirit of truth that proceeds from the Father, he will testify to me. And you also testify, because you have been with me from the beginning” (John 15:26-27).

Thank you,
dear Jesus in sending us
the Holy Spirit as our Advocate
who empowers us to speak also
of the truth he tells us;
most of all,
to abide with you
and your gospel truth.

Remind us,
Lord Jesus that being
an advocate for you,
witnessing your gospel
need not be dramatic
at all like that
chance meeting of Paul
with some women
at a river in Philippi
where he spoke about you and
your good news of salvation;
forgive us, Jesus
when in this age of instant and
widespread communications,
we balk and even feel ashamed
of speaking about you and
your teachings,
even ashamed of proudly
making the sign of the Cross.

Forgive us, Jesus
when we are inhibited
for many reasons from speaking
about our faith in you,
when even the powers of the
Advocate we doubt.

Give us a joyful heart
like that of St. Philip Neri
always opened to your
loving presence most especially
in prayerful moments in you.
Amen.

Lent is remaining true amid confusions

40 Shades of Lent by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Friday, Fourth Week in Lent, 04 April 2025
Wisdom 2:1, 12-22     + + + + +     John 7:2, 10, 25-30

*Photo by author, Sacred Heart Novitiate, Novaliches, QC, 17 March 2025.*

Life indeed is a daily Lent,
Lord Jesus: as we come to close
this fourth week in Lent while entering
its penultimate week, our readings
today show us the reality of life
that can be confusing sometimes.

Jesus moved about within Galilee; but he did not wish to travel in Judea, because the Jews were trying to kill him. But when his brothers had gone up to the feast (of the Tabernacle), he himself also went up, not openly but as it were in secret. Some of the inhabitants of Jerusalem said, “Is he not the one they are trying to kill? And look, he is speaking openly and they say nothing to him” (John 7:1, 10, 25, 26).

Of course,
you were never confused
Lord Jesus
but we your disciples
and almost everyone
including bystanders
are the ones confused:
you moved in secret but
everybody recognized you;
most of all,
threats never deterred you
from speaking what is true,
that the one who sent you
whom many do not know
is true (John 7:28).

The first reading
also gives us an impression
of confusion among peoples,
but never from God;
like what the author of the
Book of Wisdom had written,
the wicked are most confused
though pretending to know all,
plotting against the just
and the believers.

Confusions happen
in Lent
in life
when we refuse to
believe and trust in you,
Jesus;
confusions happen
in Lent
in life
when we disregard
you who is truth himself,
when we choose
not to love.

Teach us Jesus
that truth is not just
an object
an objective reality
of concurrence what is in our
mind and what is outside but
most of all
truth is a person,
when we accept you
wholly among those around
us especially the needy
and disadvantaged.
Amen.

New teaching & authority

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday, First Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 14 January 2025
Hebrews 2:5-12 <'[[[[>< + ><]]]]'> Mark 1:21-28

*Photo by author, Sakura Park, Atok, Benguet, 27 December 2024.*

"Jesus came to Capernaum
with his followers,
and on the sabbath he entered
the synagogue and taught.
The people were astonished 
at his teaching,
for he taught them as one having authority...
All were amazed and asked
one another, 'What is this?
A new teaching with authority'"
(Mark 1:21-22, 27).

When does a teaching
sound new?
When the teaching makes
an impact on me.
But how?

I have been wondering, 
Jesus, of being there with you
in the synagogue that sabbath;
what was so new with your
teaching?

It was and still is the authority,
and your authority comes not
from your power nor position,
Lord Jesus: your authority is so felt
because you are one with us,
you have always been with us.

What's new with your teaching,
Jesus, is the authority that inversely
makes us free,
liberates us from fears
and false presuppositions,
never oppressive nor
subjugating.
A teaching is new when 
there is authority that does
not impose but rather
liberates others
because 
it is the Truth (John 8:32) -
Jesus himself who claimed
"A am the way the truth and the life"
(John 14:6).

More than words and power,
teaching and authority
are felt and become liberating
in the real sense,
ever new,
so fresh  
that it is not subjugating
because 
in the final analysis
it is the person
who loves and cares,
wiling to sacrifice and suffer
for another.
Exactly like Jesus.
This new year, O Lord,
make me new
a teaching so true
as a person so loving
and caring like you.
Amen.

*Photo by authoir, Northern Blossom, Atok, Benguet, 27 December 2025.*

Led by the Holy Spirit

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday in the Twenty-eighth Week of Ordinary Time Year II, 16 October 2024
Galatians 5:18-25 ><))))*> + ><))))*> + ><))))*> Luke 11:42-46

*Photo by author, Fatima Ave., Valenzuela City, 25 July 2024.*

Lead and guide us,
O Most Holy Spirit;
set us free from "the works
of the flesh: immorality,
impurity, licentiousness,
idolatry, sorcery, hatreds,
rivalry, jealousy, outbursts of fury,
acts of selfishness, dissensions,
factions" (Galatians 5:19-20);
cleanse our nation now facing
the realities of the truth of what we
have long suspected of filth and evil
that have shrouded the past 
administration's drug war;
so many lives were lost
and destroyed not only by
the deaths but all the lies
that were glorified;
be the courage and strength,
O Holy Spirit, of those finally
given the chance to stand for what is true
so that never again such reign of
darkness and terror be repeated.

Woe to us
and everyone who continue
to overlook the good of others!

Let your Spirit, dear Jesus,
bear fruit in us with "love, joy,
peace, patience, kindness, generosity,
faithfulness, gentleness, self-control"
(Galatians 5:22-23); fills us with your
Spirit today, Jesus, so we may be
more loving, thinking always of the
good of others above all.
Amen.

To his face…

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday in the Twenty-seventh Week of Ordinary Time, Year II, 09 October 2024
Galatians 2:1-2, 7-14 ><]]]]'> + <'[[[[>< Luke 11:1-4

*Photo by author, Sacred Heart Novitiate, Novaliches, QC, 2017.*

And when Cephas came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face because he clearly was wrong… (Galatians 2:11).

For so long,
I have always wondered
how You look like,
Lord Jesus,
of what or how 
your face looks
like really;
your face deeply in pain
on the Cross has always been
the face I have known when
thinking of You;
how I wished I could see your face
moved with pity 
with that widow of Nain
or how your face looked 
full of love to the rich young man
whose face fell after You asked him
to sell his belongings, 
share them to the poor
and follow you.

Oh, how I long to see your face,
Lord!

Christ and the Widow of Nain, c.1550-55 (oil on canvas) by Caliari, Paolo (Veronese) (1528-88); 97.7×163.8 cm; Private Collection; (add.info.: Christ and the Widow of Nain. Paolo Caliari (Veronese)(1528-1588). Oil on canvas. 97.7 x 163.8cm.); Photo © Christie’s Images.

*“Christ and Rich Young Ruler” by Heinrich Hofmann from en.wikipedia.org.*

St. Paul's account of 
"opposing Cephas to his face"
invites me today 
to see face
in a more deeper sense than
something physical; 
as I immersed into the scene,
I could sense and picture
the courage and sincerity 
on St. Paul's face in telling
St. Peter into his face 
his double standards
in dealing with early Christians, 
that is, of having two faces:
one with Jewish converts
and another with Gentile converts!

**The lithography of Sts. Peter and Paul in Missale Romanum by unknown artist with initials F.M.S (19. cent.) printed by Typis Friderici Pustet. (Renáta Sedmáková | us.fotolia.com)**

How sad,
dear Jesus, 
that until now,
we your disciples 
are like St. Peter before:
many of us are not only double-faced
but even multiple-faced with
one another, never our true selves
at all!
Worst, many of us can't even
show our true face as we put on masks
that literally in Greek are called
hypokritein --- hypocrites!

Teach us, Lord Jesus,
how to pray,
that is, 
to be single-faced in our prayers:
to face up before our Father
as His children
forgiving each other's debts,
living as brothers and sisters;
teach us, Lord Jesus,
to face up our prayers,
of living out what we pray
not with many faces
nor with masks on our face;
teach us, Lord Jesus,
to face You more often
in prayers to transform our face
into your face that is truly 
an image and likeness
of God, 
radiating with your loving presence.
Amen.

*Photo by author, CAS Chapel, Our Lady of Fatima University, August 2023.*

And the greatest is love…

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday in the Twenty-fourth Week of Ordinary Time, Year II, 18 September 2024
1 Corinthians 12:31-13:13 <*{{{{>< + ><}}}}*> Luke 7:31-35

What a lovely Wednesday
today, O God our merciful Father!
Thank you for this wonderful moment,
thank you for your presence,
thank you for the gift of life.
Thank you for the love.

St. Paul tells us today
that love is the greatest
of all your gifts,
O God
because no amount of
goodness and giftedness
will ever be worthy
without love.
And what is love?

Love is.
That is,
being present always.
Never absent.

Love happens in the present moment,
never in the past nor the future.

That is why
love is patient,
love is kind,
love is not jealous,
love is not pompous,
love is not inflated,
love is not rude,
love is not self-interested,
love is not quick-tempered,
love does not brood over injury,
love does not rejoice over wrongdoing,
love rejoices with the truth,
love bears all things,
love believes all things,
love hopes all things,
love endures all things
(1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
because precisely,
love is always in present tense.

Jesus said to the crowds: “Then to what shall I compare the people of this generation? What are they like? They are the children who sit in the marketplace and call to one another, ‘We played the flute for you, but you did not dance. We sang a dirge, but you did not weep'” (Luke 7:31-32).

Forgive us, dear Jesus
for being loveless,
always missing
every moment to love,
missing every chance
to be kind to others,
for desiring and having
always the best intentions
but never having 
even the the smallest
kind deeds for anyone;
let us live in every present moment,
that thin line between 
here and now
called present
which is the other word
for gift.

Let us live, 
O Lord,
in love,
finding and cherishing
the gift of every presence
right here,
right now.
By being 
a gift too 
to others
in You.
Amen.