Small. And blessed.

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday, Twenty-Third Week in Ordinary Time, Year II
Feast of the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, 08 September 2026
Micah 5:1-4 ><]]]]*> + ><]]]]*> + ><]]]]*> Matthew 1:18-23
“The Birth of the Blessed Virgin Mary”, a 1305 painting by Renaissance artist Giotto in the Scrovegni Chapel in Padua, Italy. The two babies depicted are both the Virgin Mary: below is Mary upon birth wrapped in swaddling cloth and washed by attendants and then above being handed to St. Anne her mother. Photo from en.wikipedia.org.

Feasts of saints are often based on the date of their death when they enter eternal life; sometimes it may also be the date when their remains were transferred for proper burial.

There are only three birthdays we celebrate in our liturgy, two are of the highest order as a Solemnity, our Lord Jesus Christ on December 25 and his precursor St. John the Baptist on June 24; the third is that of the Blessed Virgin Mary which is a rank lower as a Feast, falling on this date, eighth of September which is nine months after her Immaculate Conception.

In this age of social media when every platform has its unique way of alerting everyone of someone’s birthday so that nobody can no longer hide to celebrate silently one’s birthday, the Blessed Mother’s nativity offers us a beautiful opportunity to reflect on the significance of a birthday always seen in relation with Jesus Christ’s birth and coming. St. John Paul II perfectly expressed this in his 1995 Encyclical Evangelium Vitae (The Gospel of Life), declaring that “Every birthday is a small Christmas because with the birth of every person comes Jesus Christ” (sorry I can’t recall the citation).

What makes that so true with every birthday beginning with the Blessed Virgin Mary is God’s great mystery of becoming small, of being “insignificant” in the birth of his Son Jesus Christ which we find even in his birthplace prophesied by Micah:

“You, Bethlehem-Ephrathah too small to be among the clans of Judah, from you shall come forth for me one who is to be ruler in Israel; whose origin is from of old, from ancient times” (Micah 5:1).

Photo by Ar. Philip Santiago, Angels’ Field Chapel in Bethlehem, October 2025.

And if we go further, this true greatness of Jesus Christ in being small is found also in his Mother, the Blessed Virgin Mary who came from the obscure town of Nazareth, the only place in the New Testament never mentioned in the Old Testament.

Recall how Nathanael or Bartholomew the Apostle belittled the Lord’s hometown after being told by Philip that they have found the Messiah from Nazareth, saying, “Can anything good come from Nazareth?” (Jn.1:46) because Nazareth was totally unknown during that time.

And so was Mary!

That is why it is so disappointing and sad when many Catholics unfortunately led by some priests have the misimpression of portraying Mary as a “beauty queen” with flawless skin and Western features when she is clearly Middle Eastern woman. Worst of all is the pomp and pageantries we have in the recent fads of processions and coronations in many dioceses and parishes.

Photo by author, St. Paul Spiritual & Renewal Center, Bgy. Tanyawak, Alfonso, Cavite, 19 August 2026.

How sad we have missed the Blessed Virgin Mary as the model disciple of Jesus was the first to embody his teaching of being small like little children with her simplicity and humility so very well expressed in her 20th century apparitions in Fatima, Portugal and Banneux, Belgium.

Enough with the extravagant sometimes imeldific celebrations of Marian feasts and events that have become egregious display of wealth and power.

Being simple and small like Mary, both as a child and as an adult, enable us to see again the value of life and of every person.

Aside from the lack of any account on the birth of Mary, we heard proclaimed today the birth of Jesus to teach us that truth expressed by St. John Paul II that in every person Jesus actually comes. The more simple and true we are like Mary and Joseph, the more Jesus is seen and experienced in us!

That is why when we greet somebody a “happy birthday”, what we really mean telling him/her is “I love you, I thank you for making me who I am today.” Through one’s simplicity and littleness in Christ, we are transformed into better persons because we are able to have glimpse of God’s love and kindness.

The true joy of celebrating a birthday is not found in the externalities of gifts and parties and guests with all the fun that come along but in the silent, prayerful reflection of our life’s beginning and direction into eternal life. See how there are still people who only celebrate Mass on two occasions each year – on their birthday and on Christmas, a clear recognition of our origin and direction in Christ in life.

Photo by author, Sacred Heart Novitiate, Novaliches, QC, March 2023.

In the birth of Jesus Christ, we are reminded by every birthday that life is precious because it is so fragile – any infant and every person can be easily hurt and harmed, be sick and eventually die.

Like Mary and Joseph, the little Child born in Bethlehem asks us, even begs us to take care of him found in everyone among us.

Let us be more loving and kind, understanding and caring, even merciful and forgiving with one another especially in this time of calamities.

Such is the wisdom of God in making life small and fragile so that we may care and value it because there lies also its greatness. The best birthday greeting we can express to the Blessed Mother Mary today is to start being small and simple like her to share Jesus with everyone. Not with those many cakes we buy and “offer” – tayo rin naman kakain! Amen.

Only Jesus, always Jesus

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday, Twenty-Second Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 31 August 2026
1 Corinthians 2:1-5 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Luke 4:16-30
Photo by author, St. Paul Spiritual & Renewal Center, Bgy. Tanyawak, Alfonso, Cavite, 19 August 2026.
Teach me Lord
to "know nothing except
Jesus Christ crucified" like St. Paul,
not just "looked intently at you"
like your folks in Nazareth
when you preached in your synagogue;
it is not enough to just look
intently at you,
imitating you and your manners
and style but not your life,
your self-sacrifice on the Cross;
what a shame in this age of social media
we speak and preach about you
merely to chase clout for ourselves
using sublimity of words
or persuasive words of wisdom
used by demagogues and
influencers for followers
and shameful profits.
Help us realize,
Jesus, that our faith
rests on the power of God
best shown in your Crucifixion,
not in our personality
nor eloquence in speech
nor being savvy with new
technologies that blind us from
the realities of life
like love and sacrifice,
kindness and patience,
justice and truth.
Amen.
Photo by author, St. Michael Retreat House, Antipolo City, 16 June 2026.

Stay with us, Lord… it’s getting dark

Quiet Storm by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, 20 August 2026
How amazing,
O Lord Jesus
that when it is already
evening, when darkness is
all around us,
that is when you are
actually inside us,
if we could just open
our hearts and eyes of faith
then we shall see you
truly our Light
glowing within,
bringing warmth and
joy.
Many times in our darkness
we lose sight
not only of you,
Lord Jesus but also
of our self
that away from you
we lose our identity
and let our job
and tasks define us
or worst,
our possessions and achievements
as well as pains and hurts;
we cave into our darkness
within not seeing
your wounded handed
touching me
holding me
unmindful of your
holding me,
loving me.
When things get dark
and we can’t see anything
teach me Jesus
to listen to your
silence
to feel your presence
sense your movements
follow your steps
waiting
trusting
self-emptying.
Most of all,
Jesus,
help me emulate your Mother
our Mother too,
Mary most holy,
to remain focused on you
cusping you in my palms
when all is dark
holding on to your words
believing they shall be
fulfilled when I remain
and stay with you
there on the Cross.
Amen.

Coming home

Quiet Storm by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, 20 August 2026
Photo by author, Anvaya Resort, Bataan, 21 July 2026.
Let me come home to you, Lord God:
to gaze in your loving eyes anew,
be wrapped around with your tight embrace
without being judged nor blamed.
Let me come home to you, Lord God:
with nothing at all,
to be poor of material wealth and
rich in Spirit and virtues,
empty of pride,
filled with your humility and
simplicity
so scarce of everything
abundant in you and your love.
Let me come home to you, Lord God:
no longer afraid of the dark and
everything not yet known and seen,
nor terrified of great waves of tasks
and duties,
of strong winds like what people think
and say about me because in you alone
is my certainty as well as safety and security.
Photo by author, Pundaquit, San Antonio, Zambales, 15 May 2025.
Let me come home to you, Lord God:
to be nourished by your words
that give life and meaning,
to be quenched of my thirst with your
living water that restores my being,
cleanses me of my sins and shame.
Let me come home to you, Lord God:
to rest in you,
be at home in you
because you are my origin,
my root
my home
my peace
my destination in this long journey
in life for you are
my Lord
and my God.
Amen.
Photo by author, San Juan, La Union, 09 January 2026.

Our strained relationships

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday, Nineteenth Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 12 August 2026
Ezekiel 9:1-7; 10:18-19, 22 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Matthew 18:15-20
Photo by author, Tam-Awan Village, Baguio City, January 2019.
"If your brother 
sins against you...."
I feel you speaking to me
directly today,
Lord Jesus;
you know so well how
often my brothers
and sisters sin against me;
let's not included those times
I am the one who sinned against
them but why is it,
Lord,
it is different when a brother
or a sister sins against me?
There is the deep hurt
because he is a brother
or a sister - there is
a relationship,
a bond,
a trust
that is broken;
sometimes unintentionally
that they seemed to have not
minded at all,
or overlooked that makes it
more painful actually;
but, how shall I approach
him or her?

So often it becomes
the source of more problems
because,
simply,
they would claim they have
no intentions of hurting us
or never thought what they
did to us or say to us was
wrong;
and when we approach them,
they do not seems to care at all.
With so much platforms
in expressing our thoughts and
feelings,
the more
we have become detached
from each other,
the more we are fragmented,
the more our relationships
are strained.
Give us the courage
and wisdom,
and tact as well
to speak with a brother
or sister who sins against us;
more than restoring our ties,
may you dwell anew
dear Jesus amid us
so that more than seeing each
other, may we see you
and share you
to create a sacred ground
between us because,
"For where two or three
are gathered together
in my name,
there am I
in the midst of them"
(Matthew 18:20).
Amen.
Photo by author, Sonnen Berg Mountain View, Davao City, August 2018.

Life as a daily Exodus

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday in the Thirteenth Week of Ordinary Time, Year II
Solemnity of Sts. Peter and Paul, Apostles, 29 June 2026
Acts 12:1-11 ><}}}}*> 2 Timothy 4:6-8, 17-18 ><}}}}*> Matthew 16:13-19
Photo by Dra. Mylene A. Santos, MD, in Ericeira, Portugal, 16 June 2026.

Our readings today are a parable of the Church, of what we should be as the Body of Christ celebrating the Solemnity of St. Peter and St. Paul, the pillars of the Church. Most of all, both speak of that reality in our lives that life is a daily exodus from our selfish self.

We celebrate St. Peter and St. Paul together as pillars of the Church because they were able to overcome their great differences in personalities as well as their diverse cultural and social backgrounds to be won over by Jesus Christ in proclaiming his good news of salvation. Both eventually died as martyrs like Jesus.

Photo by author, Our Lady of Fatima University, Valenzuela City, 10 June 2026.

They displayed deep trust in the Lord whom they have come to know on a personal basis following a series of deep personal exodus through their daily conversion. Saints Peter and Paul did not become saints overnight; they went through a series of personal conversions, of abandonment of selves to God.

The churches in Europe need a lot of this exodus process like in Germany where some clergymen and laypeople refuse to accept the Vatican decision that homily is reserved only for the ordained ministers while a traditionalist group are threatening to ordain bishops and priests without Vatican approval. These are so unlike in the Church before when men and women who eventually became saints chose to suffer in silence than defy Church decisions that eventually through time were accepted.

There is always darkness and uncertainties in the Church, a kind of exodus we need to cross like in the experiences of Sts. Peter and Paul we heard in our first two readings today.

On the very night before Herod was to bring him to trial, Peter, secured by double chains, was sleeping between two soldiers, while outside the door guards kept watch on the prison. Suddenly the angel of the Lord stood by him and a light shone in the cell. He tapped Peter on the side and awakened him, saying, “Get up quickly.” The chains fell from his wrists. The angel said to him, “Put on your belt and your sandals.” He did so. Then he said to him, “Put on your cloak and follow me.” So he followed him out, not realizing that what was happening through the angel was real; he thought he was seeing a vision (Acts 12:6-9).

Photo by Mr. Lorenzo Atienza of the bass relief of St. Peter by artist Nick Lugue at the Malolos Cathedral, 12 June 2019.

How could Peter sleep soundly after being arrested and thrown into prison with two soldiers sandwiching him inside his cell while a host of other guards secured the area outside?

It is a very amusing story about our “prince of the Apostles” sleeping soundly so similar with St. Joseph who slept soundly too in a similar critical situation when he decided to silently leave Mary who was found pregnant with a child before they were married.

Both Joseph and Peter slept soundly under critical situations because of their complete trust and faith in God, of their abandonment of selves to God. We find it difficult to sleep when we have problems because we cannot decide decisively as we lack trust and faith in God, unlike Peter and Joseph.

But, Peter shows us another dimension of his trust in God – his total trust also in the Church, believing that they were all praying for him.

It is a beautiful imagery of the Church then and now, always in darkness during night time when Peter was imprisoned. And that is the parable of this scene: it is always a time of Exodus for us in the Church, of passing over from every trials and difficulties, always trusting our leaders, trusting our faithful and most of all, entrusting everything to God!

If there is one thing most needed these days in our Church especially in the Philippines is this attitude of being in an Exodus, of exiting from our imprisonment in partisan politics so that we can go back to our true mission and mandate of preaching Jesus Christ not only with our words but with our lives. We in the Church can be political without being partisan; the moment we become partisan, most likely we are no longer preaching Christ because we are already rooting for somebody else instead of God.

May we imitate Peter by abandoning everything to God in deep prayers, following God not our plans as symbolized by his putting on his belt and sandals as commanded by the angel.

Photo by Mr. Lorenzo Atienza of the bass relief of St. Paul by artist Nick Lugue at the Malolos Cathedral, 12 June 2019.

Life can only become a daily exodus when we learn to trust and abandon ourselves to God like St. Peter and St. Paul as we see also in his letter to Timothy:

I, Paul, am already being poured out like a libation, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith. The Lord stood by me and gave me strength, so that through me the proclamation might be completed and all the Gentiles might hear it. The Lord will rescue me from every evil threat and will bring me safe to his heavenly kingdom. To him be glory forever and ever. Amen. (2 Timothy 4:6-7, 17, 18)

Imagine the stress of being in prison but without any hint of duress on Paul while awaiting death as seen with his incomparable eloquence in writing, something very evident in all his letters where he always expressed his total abandonment of self to Christ, of his faith in God.

In this beautiful portion of his letter to Timothy, Paul reminds us that life as a daily exodus is to live our lives as a worship to God expressed in that opening line am already being poured out like a libation. A libation is a drink offered to gods in ancient Greece and Rome; as he approached death, Paul summarized here his entire life as an offering to God that we also see in his other writings.

That is the challenge of this solemnity to us, that we live our lives as a form of worship to God.
Our very lives in itself are a prayer, always centered on God, something so foolish when we go by the standards of the world today that is all show – palabas – with nothing substantial inside because only money and fame matter. Paul was very much like Peter who lived their lives as prayers that like Christ in the end, both offered the highest offering of all, martyrdom.

Second thing we find in this excerpt from Paul’s letter to Timothy is the deeper meaning of death as a passage to heaven, an exodus: “The Lord will rescue me from every evil threat and will bring me safe to his heavenly kingdom” (v.18). Paul freely accepts his death, making it a blessing for others that we must emulate. Instead of having those bucket lists of things to do before dying, Paul is teaching us death comes in every present moment that we must always prepare for its happening so that the next generation may continue the good things we have started.

The lithography of Sts. Peter and Paul in Missale Romanum by unknown artist with initials F.M.S (19. cent.) printed by Typis Friderici Pustet. (Renáta Sedmáková | us.fotolia.com)

The key to unlocking how Peter and Paul achieved so much for God and for the Church lies in their personal relationship with Jesus Christ mirrored in their lives.

Many Christians are losing their faith and interest in the Church, leaving in great numbers because of the mixed signals we give them on what do we say who Jesus is. The Church grew in leaps and bounds during the time of Peter and Paul because both apostles shared the true Jesus Christ not only in their words but also in their deeds. They trustingly and humbly went through daily exodus beginning in their very selves in knowing Jesus Christ more clearly, loving him dearly, following him closely and witnessing him daily. May your Monday lead you a fulfilling exodus. Amen.

When God seems so far away

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday, Tenth Week in Ordinary Time, 08 June 2026
1 Kings 17:1-6 ><))))*> + ><))))*> + ><))))*> Matthew 5:1-12
Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, D’Alta Tagaytay, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.
Today we begin to listen anew
to your wonderful story of love for
your people Israel during the time
of your great prophet Elijah,
during the reign of your unfaithful King Ahab
who married the pagan Jezebel;
on this gloomy Monday,
the setting is so unsettling even
for us as you pronounced a severe
drought over Israel for turning away
from you, in worshipping Baal.
God, our Father,
it is a story we keep on repeating:
we have so many baals these days -
from gadgets to every kind of foreign beliefs
to celebrities and people we idolize
down to our very selves with ego
so bloated by social media;
forgive us for turning away from you.
Many times,
when troubles happen,
we easily blame you, Lord
for being too far from us
when in fact we are the ones
who always turn away from you.
Make these drought
and dryness in our lives as grace-filled
moments; lead us back to you
even if we have to go through a desert
like Elijah; most of all, lead us back
to your word like a stream quenching
our thirst, washing away our dirt,
filling us with life.

Elijah the Tishbite, from Tishbe in Gilead, said to Ahab, “As the Lord, the god of Israel, lives, whom I serve, during these years there shall be no dew or rain except at my word” (1 Kings 17:1).

Let us re + member you always,
Lord:
inasmuch as you have made us back
as your part in Christ Jesus,
let us not forget to make you
a part also of our lives;
give us the "be attitude"
to be poor and open
for you, Lord
so that we may find life
and fulfillment anew.
Let us be near to you
again, Lord.
Amen.
Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, D’Alta Tagaytay, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

Husband & Wife, “suitable partners” in life

Lord My Chef Wedding Recipe by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Homily for the Wedding of Luiz & Jana Aranda
San Antonio de Padua Chapel, Alta D' Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City
02 June 2026
Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, Alta D’Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

Congratulations, Jana and Luiz! Finally, the day has come which we all waited for two years since you announced your plans of getting married. And of all present here today in this lovely chapel, Jesus is the most joyful of all.

Yes, Jana and Luiz: Jesus set aside this date of June two, 2026 in all eternity, not last year or next year, yesterday or tomorrow. Jesus set this date apart for you Jana and Luiz to make you “part” of each other as husband and wife – magkataling puso, magkabiyak.

Our first reading from Genesis tells us how God after creating the first man said, “it is not good for man to be alone…. let us create a suitable partner for him.”

I love that word “partner” from the root “part” which we call as bahagi and kabiyak in Filipino. Every whole is made up of a part; without a part, there is no whole.

That is what marriage is all about. As a sacrament or visible sign of Christ’s saving presence, marriage is two people – a man and woman becoming one, becoming a whole in Jesus.

Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, Alta D’Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

Long before you met each other at 7-11 near Capitol Medical Center where you both worked as nurses, long before you were finally introduced to each other during a badminton game in 2017, when God created you Luiz, he said “it is not good for Luiz to be alone…let us create a suitable partner for him”.

And not just suitable partner, a very lovely one – Jana!

Of course, there are no perfect couples nor perfect marriage but every wedding like this is made in heaven because it is God who calls and brings together every man and woman to become husband and wife.

A couple becomes suitable partner for each other the moment they started dreaming of getting married, of spending one’s life someday with another person even they have not met yet. Any one who makes that vision of sharing his or her life with a beloved automatically becomes a suitable partner.

Kaya always have vision in life, Jana and Luiz.

Having a vision is looking beyond one’s self, looking beyond the present moment, and looking beyond material things. Most of all, having a vision is finding Jesus Christ in your lives always, Jana and Luiz because he was the one who really made ways for you to meet and finally become a part of each other in marriage.

Hindi ba Luiz? 

Kaya nga walang kang isinama na iba nang manood kayo ng UST-FEU game noong 2017 UAAP season kahit na usapan ay magsama ka dapat ng ibang friends kasi noon pa lang feel mo na si Jana yung hinahanap mong maging part ng iyong sarili.

Kaya maski na ikaw ay FEU graduate, ipinadama mo kaagad kay Jana na graduate ng UST na part siya ng buhay mo kaya nag-cheer ka sa Tigers, hindi sa Tamaraw. At maski panalo kayo ng FEU sa game noon, pinili mong samahan ang pagdadalamhati ni Jana at marami pang taga-USTe para ipakita mo sa kanya na lalo’t higit sa gayong pagkakataon, ikaw ay bahagi – parte – sa kanyang kalungkutan.

At na-feel mo rin iyon, Jana.

At natiyak mo na si Luiz ang part ng buhay mo nang kahit hindi mo siya kaagad sinagot noon, hindi siya nagbago ng pagtingin at respeto sa iyo. Patuloy ka niyang niligawan, sinuyo at sinamahan sa lahat ngn pagkakataon upang madama mo na bahagi ka ng buhay niya. Palagi kang kasali hindi lang sa mga jokes at kuwento ni Luiz kungdi pati sa kanyang mga baon pagkain!

Hindi nagtagal, napasuko ng Tamaraw ang Tiger at naging kayo na noong January 2, 2018 matapos ninyong mag-usap pagkapanood ng “Coco.”

Hindi na ninyo maikaila pareho na kulang kayo kapag wala ang isa’t isa.

Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, Alta D’Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

Lalo ito naging maliwanag sa inyong dalawa nang mag-COVID pandemic noong 2020: noon mo nadama Jana na nabubuo ka lang kay Luiz na tunay namang ipinadama sa iyo na ikaw ay bahagi na ng buhay niya. At pati ng kanyang pamilya nang kupkupin ka niya na bahay nila lumagi sa gitna ng maraming panganib at hirap ng panahon ng COVID.

You have always been a part of each other, Jana and Luiz. As well as your moms and siblings. Then, in God’s mysterious ways, you both got accepted to work at UK at the same time and the more you realized and felt each other as a part of each one. Most of all, that everything is a part of God’s plan.

Don’t stop in being a part of each other.

Most of all, inasmuch as you invited Jesus into your wedding today, make him a part of your daily life as husband and wife. Remember that Jesus is in your midst always – not in front, not at the back. Between the two of you so that whatever you do to each other, you do it first to Jesus.

Like in our gospel today.

Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, Alta D’Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

How lovely to think that the first miracle of Jesus happened not in a temple nor a synagogue but in a wedding feast at Cana. the Sacrament of Matrimony is not everything and I assure you Jana and Luiz, a lot of difficulties would come along your way especially when you have children, when you get old and sick.

But, do not be afraid. You always have Jesus by your side to bless you and keep your love alive as you hurdle life’s many challenges.

Luiz when you work hard and stay faithful to Jana, you first work hard and stay faithful to Jesus. Same with you Jana: when you are loving and sweet to Luiz, you are first sweet and loving to Jesus. But, the moment you hurt each other with lies and infidelities, it is Jesus whom you first hurt.

Tuwing nagkakasal ako, mayroon akong tanong: sino ang unang babati kapag nag-away ang mag-asawa?

Sabi sa akin ng iba, iyon daw may kasalanan pero, mayroon kayang aamin sa dalawa ng kasalanan? Sabi naman ng karamihan, dapat daw lalake ang unang bumati pero hindi ba palaging sinasabi, ladies first?

I don’t want to put you on the spot, Luiz and Jana.

My take on this is simple: when couples and lovers have LQ or even friends have tampuhan blues, the one with most love to give is always the first to make the move for peace and reconciliation. Ang may higit na pagmamahal ang siyang unang babati.

Photo by author, St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, Alta D’Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

That is why, let me close this homily with a simple request to you Jana and Luiz: please “delete” from your mind, from your consciousness that concept of “dasurv.”

It seems our society these days is afflicted with this disease of asserting each one of “deserving” a reward for various reasons. The moment we assert that we “dasurv” this or that because we worked hard or whatever, that is the time we become selfish, self-centered, and conceited.

When we insist on deserving something more, we forget our being a part of the whole.

When a husband or a wife claims to deserve something more, he or she then forgets his or her part-ner. We do not deserve anything at all in this life. Whatever we have is because of Jesus who made us deserving as you have realized in your life journey, Jana and Luiz.

Thank you for inviting us all to be a part of your wedding day. For our part, we promise to pray for you always that God may bless you abundantly with his grace of love and joy, kindness and mercy. Amen.

Photo by author, Taal Lake from St. Anthony de Padua Chapel, Alta D’Tagaytay Hotel, Tagaytay City, 02 June 2026.

When ordinary means extraordinarily

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday, Memorial of St. Philip Neri, Priest, 26 May 2026
1 Peter 1:18-25 ><))))*> + ><))))*> + ><))))*> Mark 10:32-45
Photo by author, somewhere in Batangas, 15 May 2022.
God our loving Father,
as we slowly move into Ordinary Time
in our Church calendar that began yesterday,
delete from our thoughts,
from our orientations,
from our consciousness
the idea of anything called "ordinary"
as something less important,
less in value because it is
usual,
plain
and simple.
Ordinary.
Make us realize the word "ordinary"
implies orderliness
and regularity,
from the Latin root that
literally means "rule."
Make us realize, 
O Lord,
that the ordinary days,
the ordinary people,
and whatever we refer to as ordinary
actually make up the bulk of our lives
with You, O God,
the Supreme Ordinary of our lives!
Make us realize that whoever
or whatever we deem as ordinary
is the rule of the day -
so, let us stop
taking them for granted
like leading our lives in You,
according to Your will,
witnessing Jesus Christ
who had come to show us
the value and dignity
of our being human
because it is the path,
the rule to fulfillment,
to life and to meaning
as St. Philip Neri
realized early in his life
in turning away from a life
of ease and comfort
by embracing
then priesthood.

Jesus said, “Amen, I say to you, there is no one who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or land for my sake and for the sake of the Gospel who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present age: houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions, and eternal life in the age to come” (Mark 10:29-30).

Photo by author, Cabo de Roca, Pundaquit, San Antonio, Zambales, 15 May 2025.
Finally,
teach me,
dear Jesus,
to have this regularity of life,
of having order in my life
that begins and ends in You
because you have come to make me
and everyone truly special
by being closer to the Father
through one another. Amen.

Peace of Jesus

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday in the Fifth Week of Easter, 05 May 2026
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Photo by author, Cabo da Roca Villas, Pundaquit, San Antonio, Zambales, 15 May 2025.
What really 
is your kind of peace,
Lord Jesus?

Jesus said to his disciples: “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid” (John 14:27).

I have told you
last Sunday, Lord,
what troubles me:
the fear of being alone,
of being left out;
even if the world
gives me money,
and people with all
kinds of relationships,
I am troubled because
everything
and everyone passes;
only you remain,
Lord.

St. Teresa said it so well:
Let nothing disturb you,
Let nothing frighten you,
All things are passing away;
God never changes.
Patience obtains all things
Whoever has God lacks nothing;
God alone suffices.
Photo by Dean Mon Macatangga, Our Lady of Fatima University-Valenzuela City, 16 May 2024.
Your peace, Lord Jesus,
is not found outside us
but within us –
right in our hearts
where we allow you to dwell,
to reign in us
amid all our trials and sufferings
so we continue to forge on
in this life.
Grant us,
dear Jesus,
the courage and wisdom
you have given
Paul and Barnabas who,
despite the physical harm
and emotional distresses
they went through,
they never wavered
in their mission of proclaiming
your Gospel
because they have you in their hearts.
That is your peace, Jesus:
not an absence of trials
and sufferings,
of storms and darkness
and other troubles
but your very presence
in our hearts
where you reign supreme,
filling us with your
humility,
justice,
and love.
Amen.
Photo by author, La Union, January 2026.