The heart of the disciple, the heart of discipleship

The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle C, 02 March 2025
Sirach 27:4-7 ><}}}}*> 1 Corinthians 15:54-58 ><}}}}*> Luke 6:39-45
Photo by Denniz Futalan on Pexels.com

The last time we have celebrated the eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time Cycle C was in 2001 when just like this year, the Season of Lent started late in March. In fact, the other last two Sundays of sixth and eighth in Cycle C were last celebrated in 2010 and 2007, respectively.

It is worth noting this because as Jesus delivered his Sermon on the Plain, we find that contrary to claims by many in this modern time, the teachings of Christ are actually taken directly from life as he reveals to us the truth in our hearts. Two Sundays ago, Jesus taught us the paradoxical happiness of our lives, of being poor, hungry, weeping, and maligned than rich, filled, laughing and well-spoken of; last Sunday, he taught us of the need to love truly that is rooted in God by loving without measure, loving even our enemies.

This Sunday, Jesus tells us something we often debate about as it usually puts us into a bind even a quandary on what to say and do.

Jesus told his disciples a parable, “Can a blind person guide a blind person? Will not both fall into a pit? Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me remove that splinter in your eye,’ when you do not even notice the wooden beam in your own eye? You hypocrite! Remove the wooden beam from your eye first; then you will see clearly to remove the splinter in your brother’s eye” (Luke 6:39, 41-42).

Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, Calauan, Laguna, 20 February 2025.

Very often in many instances, most of us choose to be quiet than speak out against evil and other irregularities among us and in our society because of this teaching of the Lord. Many are afraid to notice the splinter in the brother’s eye lest they too might have a wooden beam blocking their views of themselves.

And that is why, evil persists everywhere that eventually, many of us become silent partners in the many sins happening around us which is very far from the demands of Jesus for us to choose what is right and good, to always make a stand for him even on the Cross.

See the flow of the Sermon on the Plain, of how Jesus is first of all never condemning nor judgmental of anyone. We have reflected his four “woes” were actually invitations for the rich et alii to change their ways in life, to think more of things that do not pass like wealth and other material things.

Secondly, last Sunday, Jesus directed our intentions into our hearts, to probe our hearts and find his grace of supernatural or divine love poured in there so that we can love selflessly without measure like him.

This Sunday, Jesus still directs us into our hearts, to examine whether we are truly his disciple or a hypocrite as someone who says something yet does the opposite. It is not opposite his exhortation last week for us to be merciful like God our Father rather a challenge to examine what we practice, our Christian praxis.

“A good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor does a rotten tree bear a good fruit. For every tree is known by its own fruit. For people do not pick figs from thornbushes, nor do they gather grapes from brambles. A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:43-45).

Photo by Mr. Lorenzo Atienza, leftmost section of the stained glass at the National Shrine of Our lady of Fatima in Valenzuela City, 25 February 2025.

It is clearly a lesson in holiness, in integrity of every disciple! Do we walk our talk? The most basic norm of morality is that what we know in our mind and what we feel in our heart is what we say and therefore what we do.

Where are we now? Everybody is speaking about corruption while the devils celebrate everywhere as we are all entangled in all forms of corruption not only in the streets and government offices but even in our homes, in schools and offices and yes, right inside the church in many parishes.

Now we come full circle with Christ’s opening to his parable, Can a blind person guide a blind person? And this is what is now happening in the world, in our lives, in our country and in our parishes. Nobody would want to speak because nobody would want to examine one’s heart and follow the path of Jesus.

It is in our deeds that one is recognized as a true disciple. Let us not forget that. And let us not be afraid to examine constantly the value of our many ways and practices.

Photo by author, St. Paul Spirtuality Center, Pico, La Trinidad, Benguet, 05 January 2025.

One of the famous bishops and saint both recognized by the Eastern and Western Churches is St. John Chrysostom who served as Archbishop of Constantinople until the early 400’s. He is called the “golden mouthed” because of his gift in eloquence most true in his witnessing Christ, always meaning what he said like in this homily that sounds so 2025:

The Church is in an extremely critical state, and you think that all is going well. The fact is that we are plunged into countless sins, and we do not even know it!

You wonder why. We hav e churches, money, and everything else. There are places for assembly, people come there everyday; surely this is not nothing?

But it is not thus that we judge the state of the Church. Then how?, you ask.

Whether we lead a truly Christian life. Whether everyday we make ourselves spiritually more rich, bearing fruit, whether great or small; if we are not content simply with flfilling the law and expediting our religious duties.

Who is a better person, after having frequented the church all month?

This is what we must look for! After all, even what appears to be a good action is only a bad action, when one does not follow it up… If we bring nothing to fruition through it, it would be better to stay home (from Days of the Lord, vol. 6, page 62).

Photo by Mr. Lorenzo Atienza, 25 February 2025.

The kind of life we lead is the final test of our discipleship, the proof of what is in our hearts. St. Francis of Assisi used to tell his followers whenever they would preach to use only their mouth if necessary. Our actions speak louder than our words.

This is the biggest problem in the Church today: our lack of credibility as bishops and priests when our lives are far from what we say and teach.

God shared with us his power of the words. In the Bible, we find how his words and his being are always one since the story of creation into the coming of Jesus Christ who could heal with just mere words being the word who became flesh.

This is the whole point of Ben Sirach in our first reading this Sunday, reminding us that inasmuch as the potter knows the quality of his work after it has passed through fire, the same thing is most true with our words. We have to harness and master our speech, our words so that we walk what we talk.

We master our power of the words in our prayer life as St. Paul assured us in today’s second reading how in the Lord our labor is not in vain (1 Cor. 15:58). Let us pray to the Holy Spirit especially this Sunday as we approach the Season of Lent with Ash Wednesday. Let us keep our zeal for Christ not nonly for his words and teachings but most especially in his life and witnessing. Amen. See you at Ash Wednesday.

Campus Ministry, Our Lady of Fatima University, Valenzuela City.

Friends are gifts from God

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Friday, Seventh Week in Ordinary Time, Year I, 28 February 2025
Sirach 6:5-17 ><}}}}*> + ><}}}}*> + ><}}}}*> Mark10:1-12
Photo by author, Sakura Farm, Atok, Benguet, 27 December 2024.
Thank you very much
dear Father for February
and most especially
for the gift of friends
you gave us.
Your servant Ben-Sirach
was so right after all,
"Let your acquaintances be many,
but one in a thousand your confidant.
When you gain a friend,
first test him,
and be not too ready to trust him"
(Sirach 6:6-7).
Heal us in Jesus,
Father,
of the many hurts
and pains some friends
have caused us:
those who have left us in time
of distress;
those who have become an enemy;
the boon companion who left us
in time of our sorrow;
those who have turned against us
and avoided us when we were down;
and those who took advantages
of our goodwill
(cf. Sirach 6:8-12).
For our friends who came
for reasons and seasons
and now gone,
bless them, Jesus;
and for those friends
who have remained
because of love,
bless them more!
Friends come from you,
Jesus, one of the greatest gifts
one can receive for it is a unity of souls
that give nobility and sincerity to love,
a kind of love only you Lord
had designed;
therefore,
let us work on our friendships
but never change our friends
into someone they are not
gifted to be;
it is only then a friend
becomes a treasure
we cherish and nourish,
never to be given away
like in divorce and
adultery that Mark tells us
today in the gospel
(Mark 10:1-12).
Amen.
Photo by author, Sakura Farm, Atok, Benguet, 27 December 2024.

In pursuit of wisdom

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday, Seventh Week in Ordinary Time, Year I, 26 February 2025
Sirach 4:11-19 ><]]]]'> + ><]]]]'> + ><]]]]'> Mark 9:38-40
Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, 20 February 2025.
Let me pursue wisdom,
Let me follow and seek you,
God my Father
in order to find life and meaning;
unlike knowledge,
wisdom is not an intellectual pursuit
that can be gained through reading
and academic studies;
pursuing wisdom is finding you,
Lord which is very slow,
always within the realms of
failures and disappointments,
calling us to acknowledge our
fears and anxieties
because wisdom is lived
and experienced.

Wisdom breathes life into her children and admonishes those who seek her. He who loves her loves life; those who seek her will be embraced by the Lord… bringing him happiness and reveal her secrets to them and she will heap upon him treasures of knowledge and an understanding of justice (Sirach 4:11-12, 18).

Wisdom is knowing you,
God;
loving you,
God;
seeing everything
in your perspective,
immersing myself in you
to be one in you,
one with you
to understand and appreciate
each of your creation;
hence,
embracing wisdom
is embracing Jesus
your Son, Father
who came to show us
everything
in the light of justice
and fairness,
charity and love
not with petty rivalries,
and envy of earthly
entitlements
that can be so fleeting
and never satisfying
nor contenting.
Let me love your law,
therefore,
Lord
like the psalmist today
so that I too
may have
peace
in Jesus.
Amen.
Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, 20 February 2025.

The gift of EDSA 1986

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Souyl by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday, Seventh Week in Ordinary Time, Year I, 25 February 2025
Sirach 2:1-11 ><))))*> + ><))))*> + ><))))*> Mark 9:30-37
Photo by Pete Reyes, Sr. Porfiria “Pingping” Ocariza (+) and Sr. Teresita Burias praying the rosary to protect mutineers during the EDSA People Power Revolt in February 1986..
Praise and glory to you,
God our Father
for the gift of EDSA People Power
Revolution that peacefully
ended this day 39 years ago;
your words in today's first reading
are so true:

Compassionate and merciful is the Lord; he forgives sins, he saves in time of trouble and he is a protector to all who seek him in truth (Sirach 2:11).

But what happened after 1986
at EDSA?
We have forgotten, Father
everything!
We have turned away from you,
refusing to stand for justice,
evading trials and difficulties;
we have become impatient in times
of "crushing misfortune";
worst of all,
we have stopped trusting you
unlike those five days of EDSA.
How sad in the years
that followed after 1986,
we "argued" along the way
like your disciples on "who is
the greatest among us" until
the unexpected happened
when a monster came to power
calling you "stupid" as he spewed
indecencies and murder from his mouth
until suddenly,
the ones we kicked out
are back,
now denigrating the significance
of EDSA 1986.
Photo by Linglong Ortiz, 23 February 1986.
Help us learn anew
the lessons of EDSA 1986;
let us return to you
and continue the revolution
in our hearts;
like the psalmist
in today's responsorial psalm,
may we "commit our lives
to you, Lord"
for you will surely
help us
like in EDSA 1986.
Amen.

Karunungan vs. katalinuhan, kabutihan vs. kabaitan

Lawiswis ng Salita ni P. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Ika-24 ng Pebrero 2025
Mula sa Pinterest.

Kay ganda ng serye ng ating mga unang pagbasa sa Banal na Misa ngayong huling linggo bago magsimula ang Kuwaresma sa Miyerkules ng Abo ika-lima ng Marso 2025.

Napapanahon ang mga pagbasang ito mula sa Aklat ng Ecclesiastico ngayong binubura sa kamalayan natin ang mahalagang yugto ng ating kasaysayan, ang EDSA Revolution ng 1986.

Tamang-tama din ang mga naturang pagbasa sa gitna ng mga balita ng mga pagmamalabis ng maraming nasa kapangyarihan di lamang sa pamahalaan at lipunan kungdi pati na rin ng mga pari at obispo natin sa simbahan. Kung sa bagay, matagal nang usapin mga iyan sa simbahan na palaging hinahayaan nating mga Pilipino dahil na rin sa kawalan natin ng kamalayan sa pagkakaiba-iba ng marunong sa matalino at ng mabuti sa mabait na siyang paksang ibig kong talakayin ngayong bisperas ng EDSA People Power Revolution.

Tingnan muna natin ang karunungan at katalinuhan.

Larawan kuha ni Lauren DeCicca/Getty Images sa Laoag City, 08 Mayo 2022.

Ang karunungan (wisdom) ay tanda ng kabanalan dahil ito ay pagtulad sa Diyos na siyang Karunungan mismo. Ang maging marunong (to be wise) ay hindi lamang malaman ang maraming bagay-bagay sa mundo at buhay kungdi makita at mabatid pagkakaugnay-ugnay ng mga ito. Pag-ibig at pagmamahal ang hantungan palagi ng karunungan at kabutihan.

Ang maging marunong ay magkaroon ng mahusay at matalas na isipan na pinanday ng puso at kaloobang nakahilig sa Banal na Kalooban ng Diyos. Dinadalisay ng buhay pananalangin, nakikita ng karunungan ang kabuuan ng lahat ng mga bagay-bagay sa liwanag ni Kristo. Buo at ganap ang karunungan dahil mula ito sa Diyos, nagtitiwala sa Diyos at nakabatay sa Diyos ang lahat ng pagsusuri, pagtitimbang at pagpapasya sa lahat ng bagay.

Mula sa Panginoon ang lahat ng karunungan at iyon ay taglay niya magpakailanman. Sino ang makabibilang ng butil ng buhangin sa dagat, o ng patak ng ulan, o ng mga araw sa panahong walang pasimula at katapusan? Sino ang makasusukat sa taas ng langit o lawak ng lupa? Sino ang makaaarok sa kalaliman ng dagat at sino ang makasasaliksik sa Karunungan? (Sirac 1:1-3).

Sa kabilang dako naman, ang matalino ay pagkakaroon ng matalas na isipan. Magandang katangian ito ngunit hindi ito pinaka-mahalaga dahil sa ating sariling karananasan at kasaysayan, kay daming matatalinong Pilipino pero bakit ganito pa rin ang bayan natin?

Sa pamahalaan maging sa Simbahan, palaging ipinangangalandakan katalinuhan ng mga upisyal at nanunungkulan. Kaya nga sa sikat na sitcom na Bubble Gang, mayroong karakter doon na kung tawagi’y Tata Lino na puro katatawanan ang mapapakinggan.

At sa sawimpalad nating mga Pilipino, mas pinapaboran natin, mas hinahangaan palagi mga matatalino kesa marurunong. Bilib na bilib tayo sa mga tao na maraming tinapos na degree sa mga pamantasan dito sa bansa at ibayong dagat. Isa iyan sa malaking problema sa Simbahan: maraming pari at obispo ang matatalino ngunit walang puso ni Kristo, puso ng Mabuting Pastol. Sa dami ng matatalinong Pilipino, bakit ganito pa rin ang ating bayan maging Simbahan?

Bulok. Kung hindi man ay nabubulok.

Dangan kasi, mga matatalino matalas lang ang isipan ngunit walang puso o pitak man lamang doon para sa kapwa at sa Diyos kaya madalas, ginagamit kanilang katalinuhan sa kabuktutan at sariling mga interes at pangangailangan.

Kay ganda ng talinghagang gamit natin diyan – lumaki ang ulo. Yumabang at naging palalo sa sobrang katalinuhan, walang ibang pinakikinggan kungdi sarili lamang. Naku, lalo na iyan sa mga pari at obispo ng Simbahan!

Ang katawa-tawa sa malalaking ulo iyan ng maraming namumuno saan man, sa hindi maipaliwanag na kadahilanan, maraming matatalino puno ng kabag sa tiyan at hindi kataka-taka, walang ibang nagagawa sila kungdi umutot ng umutot. Kaya mabaho at mabantot sa maraming anomalya at kalabisan itong ating bayan maging Simbahan! Hindi ba?

Larawan ni Roger Buendia/Presidential Museum and Library via esquiremag.ph.

Noon pa man, sinasabi ko nang palagi magkaiba ang kabaitan at kabutihan. Madalas ang taong mabait nating tinuturing ay pleaser sa Inggles. Utu-uto, lahat puwede, lahat pinapayagan para walang kaguluhan pero ang katotohanan, lalo lamang gumugulo mga sitwasyon kapag kabaitan ang pinairal.

Alam na alam ito ng maraming mag-aaral na gusto nila mabait na guro na lahat ay puwede. Ganun din mga tao sa pari at obispong mabait. Lahat puwede para walang gulo. Akala nila…

Pero, mayroon bang natututunan sa mga maestra o maestro na mabait? Wala. Aminin natin mas marami tayong natutunan sa mga guro pati magulang at boss at pari na istrikto o mahigpit.

Ganoon ang mabuting tao (good person) – maliwanag sa kanya ang tama at mali. Hindi puwedeng payagan o pagbigyan ang mali. Mayroong diwa ng pananagutan palagi ang mga mabubuting tao na kadalasan ay istrikto rin naman. Sa mabuting tao, basta tama at kabutihan, hindi pagtatalunan o pag-aawayan samantalang mga mababait, lahat pinapayagan.

Ang mabuting tao, hindi niya iniisip ang sarili niyang kapakanan at kaluguran bagkus kabutihan ng karamahan at ng iba pang tao kesa kanyang sarili. Yung mababait, sarili lang nila iniisip. Kaya pinapayagan ang lahat ay upang magkaroon ng mga kaibigan at mga mangungutangan ng loob sa kanila. Popularity-oriented kadalasan mga matatalino at mababait.

Kaya naman, mapapansin natin na magkasama palagi ang karunungan at kabutihan at ang katalinuhan at kabaitan. Ang marunong ay tiyak na mabuti sapagkat higit sa kaalaman ang kanyang nilalayon ay kabutihan at kapakanan ng karamihan. Iyong mabait madalas ay matalino kasi sa Inggles makikita natin ito ay tumutukoy sa sanity o pagiging matinong pag-iisip o sane. Kapag sinabing “nasiraan ng bait”, ibig sabihin, nasira na ang ulo o nabaliw katulad ng maraming mga henyo na sa sobrang talino na walang iniisip kungdi sarili lamang.

Larawan mula sa en.wikipedia.org.

Noon sa EDSA, nadama ko at naranasan karunungan at kabutihan nina Cardinal Sin, Pangulong Aquino, Hen. Ramos at ng maraming mga tao na dumagsa doon hindi upang makipag-away at makipagtalo kungdi makipagkasundo at umunawa. Napaka saklap kay bilis nabaligtad ang lahat. Napalitan ng mga baliw mga marurunong at ng mga sakim ang mga mabubuti.

Sana sa mga panahong ito na ating ginugunita ang makasaysayang EDSA People Power ng 1986, muling pag-isipan at pagnilayan nating mabuti ang ating pinahahalagahan at pinaninindigan. Para sa Diyos, para sa Inang Bayan.

*Tunghayan mga dati nating nalathala sa paksang pagkakaiba ng kabutihan at kabaitan.

Praying for wisdom

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday, Seventh Week in Ordinary Time, Year I, 24 February 2025
Sirach 1:1-10 ><))))*> + ><))))*> + ><))))*> Mark 9:14-19
Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, Calauan, Laguna, 20 February 2025.
Your words today O Lord
God our Father
are so timely
when some people in power
try to erase from our consciousness
the grace of EDSA People Power 1986;
your words O Lord
are so timely
when some people in power
dilly dally with their authority
refusing to serve justice to those
who belittle the laws of the land,
without any decency at all with
themselves and with others;
your words dear God
are so timely
when we your people
will elect again our next batch
of lawmakers and leaders.

Your words,
O Father are so timely
that we may finally wake up to the reality
of the great difference between
wisdom and intelligence:
how sad people put more
premium on intelligence though
important but always abused
and misused for personal gains;
wisdom is different because
it is YOU, O God!
Wisdom is finding you,
seeing the whole of everything,
our interrelatedness,
more of "looking into"
than "looking at"
because wisdom
is holiness.

All wisdom comes from the Lord and with him it remains forever. The sand of the seashore, the drops of the rain, the days of eternity: who can number these? Heaven’s height , earth’s breadth, the depths of the abyss: who can explore these? Before all things else wisdom was created; and prudent understanding, from eternity.

How sad
the world looks more,
follows more
and believes more
people of high intelligence,
so brilliant but empty of humanity,
filled with technology
driven with utility;
let us desire more of wisdom,
of being wise,
of wrapping with prayer
our every endeavor;
let us grow in wisdom
by growing in Christ
who clearly taught us today
how certain kinds of exorcisms
and other ministry
"can only come out
through prayer"
(Mark 9:29).
Amen.
Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, Calauan, Laguna, 20 February 2025.

Love your enemies

Quiet Storm by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, 23 February 2025
Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, Calauan, Laguna, 20 February 2025.

Jesus said to his disciples: “To you who hear I say, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse, pray for those who mistreat you… But rather, love your enemies and do good to them, and lend expecting nothing back; then your reward will be great and you will be children of the Most High, for he himself is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful” (Luke 6:27-28, 35-36).

yes, i hear you Lord.
love my enemies.
i have tried
and continue to strive
at loving my enemies;
but, who are my enemies?
yes, it is easier said than done,
loving my enemies
who are most easy to identify
as those i hate and do not agree with,
those who have hurt me,
those who do not believe in me,
those who simply differ with me
both outside
and inside.
as i rested in you, Jesus
i have realized
something deeper,
and pernicious:
my worst enemies
are those within me
like a sin i refuse to admit,
a sin i continue to justify,
a darkness i'm afraid to look into.
yes, Jesus!
my worst enemy
is actually myself
when i deny your love
and presence in me;
let me look deep inside me
where in my life
is God asking me to love
more like you, Jesus?
yes, it is terrifying,
disturbing and difficult
but it is only when i love more
like you Jesus
that i experience your love more
and begin loving my enemies within!
Photo by author, Hidden Valley Springs Resort, Calauan, Laguna, 20 February 2025.

More than natural, love is supernatural & divine

The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle C, 23 February 2025
1 Samuel 26:2, 7-9, 12-13, 22-23 ><)))*> 1 Corinthians 15:45-49 ><)))*> Luke 6:27-38
Photo by author Santisima Trinidad Parish, Malolos City, 18 March 2023.

We continue this Sunday Jesus Christ’s Sermon on the Plain with his teachings getting more disturbing, twice telling us to love our enemies. Yes, you heard it right…

Jesus said to his disciples: “To you who hear I say, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse, pray for those who mistreat you… But rather, love your enemies and do good to them, and lend expecting nothing back; then your reward will be great and you will be children of the Most High, for he himself is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful” (Luke 6:27-28, 35-36).

See that after selecting Twelve from among his many disciples, Jesus will be asking more from his followers that includes us today. As we have reflected last Sunday with the four woes of Christ, there is no middle ground in being a Christian. We have to make a decision, to choose Jesus always.

This Sunday, Jesus shows us it is no simple choice we have to make because loving our enemies is easier said than done.

In this age of social media when everything is blown out of proportion with everyone dragged even into the quarrels and infidelities among celebrities, the more it is difficult to avoid making enemies with many of us easily taking sides in the petty issues that are trending.

It is the same thing with our way of loving these days with how easy it is to love people who love us too. Anyone can be so nice to people nice also to them as it comes naturally.

But real love is not really that natural.

True love as Jesus had shown us on the Cross is more than the natural flow of things. It is always supernatural, beyond the natural flow of emotions. Jesus is asking us that we go beyond what comes naturally especially with love because love is a decision, a fruit of the meeting of mind and of heart, a oneness within every person that is also a sure sign of one’s maturity, spirituality.

Loving our enemies, doing good on those who do bad against us is love of the highest order. It is not weakness but actually a strength for no weakling can muster the courage and clarity to be loving with one’s enemies.

Loving our enemies is knowing better than the rest on the repercussions, the intricacies and complexities of being adamant and insistent.

This is the beautiful example shown by David in the first reading: instead of delivering into his hands King Saul he had found sleeping unguarded inside a cave while pursuing him and his men, David spared his life out of respect for God who anointed Saul as King of Israel.

See also the practicality of Jesus in teaching us to love our enemies and those who do us bad: if you only love or care or be kind with those who love and care and are kind to us, then it is not real love and caring and kindness at all you are giving. Jesus pointed out that even criminals and bad people do it. If that is the case, then, we are no different from them if we love only those who love us!

Fatima University students spent a Sunday afternoon of prayers and fun with kids with cerebral palsy and their families, 09 February 2025.

True love, real love is never transactional, never a deal nor an agreement in this age of many marriages punctuated with pre-nuptials. True love is freely given without any reservations, no ifs nor buts. As St. Mother Teresa used to say, the true measure of love is to love without measure.

Love is something we fully give away, never kept. You never scrimp on love. It is always given in full. Scrimp on your love, you lose because the love you keep and withdraw is never kept nor save. In fact, a love not shared and given becomes stale. Or expired. Napapanis.

Like the things we love eating or using, love comes without any expiration date that says “best consumed before February 23, 2025.”

Love is best when freely given and shared. Once “opened” or given, no need to keep and refrigerate it. Consume it right away! Everything. No love is ever wasted. Walang sayang na pagmamahal, lahat may pinatutunguhan at binubungang mabuti.

Photo by author, Hidden Springs Resort, Calauan, Laguna, 20 February 2025.

Love is like a natural spring water, or the waterfalls that keep flowing, watering and refreshing countless tributaries, people, plants and animals. Just keep loving! Love, love, love!

At his Sermon on the Plain, Jesus clarifies that true love like his love is first of all not of natural level and flow but of supernatural nature, divine like him. Jesus emphasized this at his Last Supper, describing it as a “new commandment of love” because it is a love rooted in God not just in man.

The following Good Friday on the Cross, Jesus proved his love as true and real. Most of all, free.

We today experience that true love of Jesus even to this day because of his rising three days after his crucifixion at Easter. This is what Paul meant in the second reading that in Jesus Christ, we have become heavenly and spiritual. The love of Christ have made us like him, divine and heavenly. What a great honor we now have! For being so loved by God in Jesus Christ, we too must love truly and freely like him!

Photo from vaticannews.va.

Last month, I strongly reacted to a statement by Rappler’s Ms. Maria Ressa in her interview before a speech at the Vatican Jubilee of Journalists.

I called her “heretic” when she told her interviewer that Filipinos should “stay away from dogmas and be good” (https://lordmychef.com/2025/01/27/on-being-good-as-a-catholic/)

That night in my prayer, I felt God “disturbed” me for being so harsh and judgmental of a journalist presumably totally unaware of the meaning of “dogma” in the Church.

The following day, I got a message from the reporter who posted that story and naturally, did not like what I wrote. As days went on, I felt “disturbed” and “uneasy” with my calling her “heretic”. After three days, I edited my blog and removed the harsh word as I realized calling others with names or labels would not help at all in clarifying things especially about our faith.

Most of all, it is not the Christian way of loving others, of putting others down just to uphold our faith and beliefs. It is not love. And I felt so afraid Jesus might personally get down from his Cross to take away that harsh word I have written.

Next month, I will be turning 60 years old, a senior sixty-cent so excited with my discount card. As I reflected these days on the immense love of Jesus for me in these 60 years, 27 as his priest, I have been praying, where in my life is God asking me to love more like Christ?

Loving our enemies is not merely the people we hate, or those who have hurt us or different from us, not like us. Loving our enemies includes those darkness within us, those weaknesses we hide and cover, sins we refuse to admit or continue to justify. Many times our worst enemies are those within us, our very selves.

It is difficult. And terrifying. Loving our enemies is easier said than done. It is also disturbing but at the same time, so liberating because the more we love, the more we feel free for Christ and for others. Amen. Have a blessed, loving week ahead.

Sharing with you a video I have taken last Thursday at the Hidden Springs Resort in Laguna; the sight and scene of a waterfalls reminded me so much of God’s love that never runs out.

Jesus takin’ us to the street

The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Friday, Sixth Week in Ordinary Time, Year I, 21 February 2025
Genesis 11:1-9 <'[[[[>< + ><]]]]'> Mark 8:34-9:1
Photo by Denniz Futalan on Pexels.com
What a blessed Friday,
Lord Jesus!
You are still with us,
about to cross the week
into another new set of
seven days but,
here you are again
reminding us
of our journey
that's not to a party
and all fun
but to the Cross:

Jesus summoned the crowd with his disciples and said to them, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the Gospel will save it” (Mark 8:34-35).

As I prayed on this scene,
Jesus,
I could hear both the murmuring
and deafening silence
of people in the crowd
especially when you spoke
of denying, losing one's self
and that dreaded Roman
punishment, the cross!
But, yes, Jesus,
even deep down in me,
I felt at a loss...
OK na sana Lord ang lahat,
bakit may paglimot pa ng sarili
at pagpapasan ng krus?
Forgive me,
Jesus for being so used
to your words without really
appreciating them,
masticating them enough
to extract their meaning
and timeliness;
many times,
I have that attitude of the
the Tower of Babel
when all we want is to be on top,
to be in control
that is why you confused
them with many languages at that time
because we always forget
you speak only one language
in Jesus:
the language of love
by self-giving,
by self-sacrifice,
by being one in you in
the Holy Spirit.

Take us to the streets,
Jesus, to keep your words
your language
lived and spoken
especially among
the poor
and suffering.
Amen.
Photographer: Veejay Villafranca/Bloomberg via Getty Images