Advent is God’s Tender Moment with Us

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Thursday, 13 December 2018, Advent Week 2
Isaiah 41:13-20///Matthew 11:11-15

            O my sweet loving Father in heaven…!  Your words today through the Prophet Isaiah made me sing one of my favorite love songs by Billy Joel, “Leave a Tender Moment Alone”:

Even though I’m in love
Sometimes I get so afraid
I’ll say something so wrong
Just to have something to say

I know the moment isn’t right
To tell the girl a comical line
To keep the conversation light
I guess I’m just frightened out of my mind

But if that’s how I feel
Then it’s the best feeling I’ve even known
It’s undeniably real

Leave a tender moment alone

 

              Of course, O sweet Lord my God!  I did get it:  you are trying to be extra sweet even so charming when you said “Fear not, I will help you.  Fear not, O worm Jacob, O maggot Israel; I will help you, says the Lord; your redeemer is the Holy One of Israel” (Is.41:14).  Yes, I get it when you called me a worm and a maggot, I do not feel insulted.  You have actually tickled my bones, loving Father as you try to make some“lambing” as we say in Bulacan for you are oozing with so much TLC (tender loving care) for me.  Like Billy Joel, you seem to say something so wrong just to have something to say because you love so much.  And most of all, because you are asking me for some tender moment alone.

             How true then are the words of your Son Jesus Christ that “among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the Kingdom of heaven is greater than he” (Mt.11:11) for we have seen you, and heard you loving Father in Him.  Above all, for we have been redeemed in Him!

             Let me experience your intense presence by letting go of everything within me in deep prayer and silence, in giving you those “tender moments alone” to experience your person with conviction.  AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by the author, violets, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan, 12 December 2018.

Advent is Answering God’s Call

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Wednesday, 12 December 2018, Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe
Revelation 11:19; 12:1-6, 10///Luke 1:39-47

            Thank you very much, O loving Father, in giving us in this season of Advent the wonderful feasts of Mary and the saints who inspire us to always create a room for your Son Jesus Christ in our hearts.

            On this feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, we remember your wondrous way of calling the Blessed Virgin Mary, her cousin Elizabeth, and St. Juan Diego for your specific mission.  All were “ordinary” people just like most of us.  Mary was a young maiden from an obscure town you have chosen to be the Mother of Jesus Christ while Elizabeth her cousin was already old and barren when you blessed her to conceive the Lord’s precursor, John the Baptizer.  Like these two women of simplicity and humility was St. Juan Diego, an Aztec Indian who became the visionary of Guadalupe.

               Like Elizabeth, I always ask myself and, you, O Lord my God, “how does this happen to me that you my Lord should come to visit and call me (Lk.1:43)?”  St. Juan Diego also asked the Blessed Mother to call somebody else for her mission but she replied, “My little son, there are many I could send.  But you are the one I have chosen.” 

               Loving Father, please bear with me if I always ask you with many whys, always unbelieving in my abilities to do your work and fulfill your mission.  Help me to keep following you, cover me with your mantle of grace and protection like the Blessed Mother as seen by John, “a woman clothed with the sun” (Rev.12:1) so that like her I may “to give birth to Christ” (Rev.12:2) to this  world deeply in sin, totally forgetting you.  Wrap me also like St. Juan Diego with your mantle of love and affection so that from my words and deeds would come the fragrant blooms of your kindness and charity in serving others.  AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.

*Photos from Google.

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Advent is the Comfort of God

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Tuesday, 11 December 2018, Advent Week 2
Isaiah 40:1-11///Matthew 18:12-14

            I can strongly feel your words today, God our loving Father:  “Comfort, give comfort to my people, says your God.  Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, and proclaim to her that her service is at an end, her guilt is expiated; indeed, she has received from the hand of the Lord double for all her sins.” (Is.40:1-2)

            If there is one thing I long for today, Lord, one thing I strongly desire from you is comfort.  I am so tired and exhausted.  Nobody seem to care at all for your ways or for what is good except for what is self-serving.  Deafening and maddening are the cacophony of so many voices shouting for what should be, insisting on everyone’s own idea of what is good that at the moment it is better to be silent in your presence.

              Strengthen me, Almighty God, for that is what comfort is, “cum fortis” – with strength. Give me comfort to carry on, to strive, to be patient, to bear all pains in silence so that in due time as you shall will, I may rise to strike in your perfect time my enemies who try to divide your flock.

               Like your Son our Good Shepherd, Jesus Christ, give me determination to seek the lost and the tenderness to carry them back on my shoulders to your fold.  AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by Jim Marpa, 2018.  Used with permission.

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Advent Is Time to Wake Up, to Rise and Walk in Christ

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Monday, 10 December 2018, Advent Week 2
Isaiah 35:1-10///Luke 5:17-26

            As morning breaks on this first working day of the second week of Advent, I echo O Lord Jesus the joyful words of the people of your time,“We have seen incredible things today.” (Lk.5:26)

             It is so incredible Lord that in this season of Advent as I try to befriend my inner self in the spirit of prayer and silence, as I try to accept all of me, my worth and unworthiness, the more you are amazingly loving and kind to me.  I feel both like the paralyzed and those men in the gospel today who broke the roof of the house where you were staying so they could lower before you their sick friend.  And the first words that came from you were not about healing but forgiveness!  Most of all, you have forgiven the sick man after you have seen the faith of the friends who have taken apart the roof of your house.  What a way of creating a room for you, Lord Jesus! 

               Teach me to be daring like them in creating a space for you by taking apart the many sins and pretensions I use to cover myself.  Help me to take apart the various insecurities where I hide myself that prevent me from meeting you, from welcoming you into my life.  So many times, Jesus, you know how I just sleepwalk in my being a Christian when I think I am radically living as your disciple when in fact I am just dreaming, just sleeping.

            Teach me to abandon myself to you Lord, to relinquish all false securities that the world offers me.  Most of all, let me abandon those thoughts I have about you that are not so you at all, those ideas I have about God like the scribes and Pharisees who have usurped upon themselves the standards of what is holy and not, of what is right or wrong.  Let me start living in your pasch, unafraid of being vulnerable and weak so I can rise and walk again, freed from sins and infirmities.  AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by Jim Marpa, 2018.  Used with permission.

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“Land of the Loving” by Dianne Reeves (1986)

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Advent Is Creating A Room for God in My Life

          The second Sunday of Advent reminds us that it is not enough to be open for the coming Jesus Christ; we have to create a room for God in our hearts, in our lives for Him to truly come inside us.  It is only when we create a space for Jesus within us that we can truly experience His “intense presence” not only this Christmas but every day of our lives.  Creating a space within us for God means allowing Him to possess us, to dwell and reign within us so that we are transformed into better witnesses of Christ’s coming like John the Baptizer. It is impossible to meet God when we are so filled with things of the world and of ourselves.  Like John, we have to withdraw to the wilderness, we need to do some fasting, of self-emptying to create that room for Jesus in our hearts.  It is only then can we truly experience Christ’s coming and loving presence, mercy and forgiveness, kindness and grace.

           For our Sunday music, we have Diane Reeves lending her soothing vocals to David Benoit’s “Land of the Loving” (co-written with Mark Winkler) from his album This Side Up released in 1986.  I have always loved this song, especially after watching David Benoit played the piano for this song in 1990 at the PICC with Ms. Jinky Llamanzares doing the vocals.  After becoming a priest, I have always seen a more spiritual meaning in this song that speaks exactly of creating a room for Jesus Christ, of staying inside with Him in my heart, of being possessed by the Lord Himself.  It is in being caught in the arms of Jesus, when we let Him possess us right in our own small room inside our hearts when“Finally my life has a meaning of its own; here in the land of the loving I am home.”   Follow the lyrics from YouTube and as you immerse yourself into this beautiful music, think also of those days when you felt so blessed, you felt so close with God… rejoice and believe that He is coming again to redeem us.  A blessed week to everyone!

*Photo/quote from Google.

Advent Is Creating A Room for God In My Life

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Advent-2, Year C, 09 December 2018
Baruch 5:1-9//Philippians 1;4-6, 8-11//Luke 3:1-6

            I must confess that I am also guilty of getting into the so-called “Christmas rush” that is totally empty of Jesus Christ.  No, I am not a “shopaholic” but this early I am already so stressed out with my toxic schedules of activities for the coming Christmas.  And that is when God in His amazing ways intervened by totally cutting me off from the “loop” to redirect me to the spirit of Advent that calls us to create a room for Christ’s coming.  It started two weeks ago when our internet connection became erratic which we thought was just normal in our country so notorious for its dismal internet services.  But when I could no longer connect with the internet for my work last Tuesday and Wednesday for my talks, classes and blogs, we called a technician to fix the bugs, only to be told that the problem is my nine year-old Sony Vaio that needs to be upgraded or totally replaced.  My first reaction was to replace the technician but it was the first time I really felt to be out of the web that can be alienating and even debilitating.  That was when I realized to pray more, to fast from social media and modern communications, hoping to find Jesus Christ anew in my additional periods of prayer and silence.  It was also at that time when my Ninong and Ninang came from the US to celebrate their golden wedding anniversary at the church where they got married with me as the priest-presider.  After the reception, they asked me to go with them to their hotel where they surprised me with a Christmas gift, a new laptop computer!  See how God works in amazing ways if we give Him a room in our lives; my plan was to get a new computer next year but here is God sending me one from heaven right on my lap in the most perfect time.

             “In the fifteenth year of the reign of Tiberius Caesar, when pontius Pilate was governor of Judea, and Herod was tetrarch of Galilee, and his brother Philip tetrarch of the region of Ituraea and Trachonitis, and Lysania was tetrarch of Abilene, during the high priesthood of Annas and Caiaphas, the word of God came to John son of Zechariah in the desert.  John went throughout the whole region of the Jordan, proclaiming a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins (Lk.3:1-3).”

                 Every time, every moment is a perfect time for God to come but, do we have a room for Him in our lives?  Luke presents us today the setting of the first coming of Jesus Christ more than 2000 years ago.  Times may have changed but the situation and feelings remain the same to this day when God comes to us right in the midst of our present situation, whether in our personal lives or in our political world or religious set up.  There is always that voice in the wilderness calling us to repent and prepare His way, His coming.  In the first Sunday of Advent last week, we reflected how this season of preparation is the presence of God which we can truly experience when we dare to open ourselves to Him in prayer and silence.  On this Second Sunday of Advent, our readings deepen this reflection of finding the presence of God by having a room or space for Him in our hearts and in our lives.

               According to the late American Neal A. Maxwell who was an Elder of the Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter-Day Saints, “Each of us is an innkeeper who decides if there is room for Jesus.”  What a beautiful insight that is very true!  We need to create a space and room in ourselves – more than just merely opening – to welcome Jesus Christ’s intense presence in our lives these days!  With all hyperrevolution now happening in our midst due to modern means of  communications that have greatly affected our lives, the more we need to experience Christ’s intense presence so that we are not only informed and formed but most of all transformed like during the time of John the Baptizer.  Every year, the second and third Sundays of Advent are always about the preaching of John the Baptist which is essentially about the coming of Jesus Christ.

                  The key here is the intense presence of Jesus Christ not only in us but also in the world.  The detailed reportorial by Luke of the setting of Christ’s coming over 2000 years ago suggests the integration of salvation history with secular history of all peoples.  Christ has come and Christ will come again though Christ had never left us but remains with us in the present.  We have just celebrated the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception that reminds us of God’s presence amid man’s absence.  We become absent to God when we sin like Adam who hid from God after eating the forbidden fruit.  We fail to meet and experience God in His power and grace when we are absent to Him as we prefer to spend more time with things of the world than of heaven.  We become absent from God when we refuse to abandon our sinful ways or when we have stopped to hope for any change and salvation coming from God with whom nothing is impossible.  This Sunday, let us intensify the presence of God by creating a room, creating a space in our hearts and in our lives where Jesus may dwell and reign to direct our lives like John the Baptizer who went to desert to fast and create a space in himself and in his life for Christ.  It is impossible to meet God when we are so filled with things of the world and of ourselves.  God has many plans for us in Jesus that He sent Him to us but He cannot do anything if we do not let Him into our lives.  St. Paul tells us in the second reading that he is “confident” or sure that God will fulfill his promise that every man and woman shall see “the salvation of God” (Lk. 3:6).  Let us continue to dare on this second Sunday of Advent to open ourselves to God by creating a room for Him in our hearts and in our lives and allow Him to take possession of us like what Baruch prophesied in the first reading when Jerusalem would eventually be liberated from its conquerors.  Look back to your past and see how the Lord has done great things for you; trust Him, hope in Him always for He has come, He shall come and He is come. AMEN.  Fr.Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, .Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan

*Photo by Jim Marpa, St. James the Greater Parish, Solsona, Ilocos Norte, 17 July 2018.  Used with permission.

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Presence of God, Absence of Man

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Saturday, 08 December 2018

Solemnity of Immaculate Conception

Genesis 3:9-15, 20//Ephesians 1:3-6, 11-12//Luke 1:26-38

        God our Father, on this most joyous Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary, I join St. Paul in praying, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavens.” (Eph. 1:3)

        Praise and thanksgiving to you our Father in heaven who has always been present among us, never leaving our side and in fact went out to seek us since the fall of Adam:  After the man, Adam, had eaten of the tree, the Lord God called to the man and asked him, “Where are you?” (Gen.3:9)

        Since that day, we have always been hiding from you, running away from you that the gap had widen so much that you have to send us your Son Jesus Christ to be born like us, become like us except in sin so we may be one with you again.

        Yes, O God, we have always been absent from you when you are always present with us and in us though we always refuse to recognize you.  In your infinite wisdom and in all eternity, you chose Mary to be immaculately conceived so she may be the worthy vessel of your Son Jesus Christ.

        Give us the same grace of Mary to be always present in you, present for you and your will.  Give us the courage to say “be it done unto me according to your word” (Lk.1:38) so that we may become your presence too.  Give us that emptiness of Mary, of always having a room in our hearts for the Holy Spirit to come upon us and overshadow us with your power to become your presence in this world now so empty of values and meaning, so full of pride and sin and hatred.

        Dwell upon us O Lord and fill us with your grace.  AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.

Advent Is Seeing God Among Others

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Wednesday, 05 December 2018, Advent Week 1
Isaiah 25:6-10///Matthew 15:29-37

            Like during the season of Lent, Lord, I have always been amazed with the antiphons and prayers of Advent.  Since Monday, we have been praying after Communion for the grace to focus more about things of heaven than of earth.  And the most amazing thing about it is we really do not have to look up high to see what is heavenly; we simply have to look at one another just like what you did on the mountain today in the gospel.

             After receiving the heavenly food last Monday, we prayed “to love the things of heaven and to hold fast to what endures”; then at Tuesday we implored “to judge wisely of the things of earth and to hold firm to the things of heaven” while today we asked “to be cleansed of our faults and prepare us for the coming feasts” in heaven.  These are all calls from you, Lord Jesus, for us to see you among our suffering brothers and sisters.

             Stir our hearts, O Christ, and move them into pity like when you worried at the great crowd of people that included “the lame, the blind, the mute, and many others” (Mt.15:30) who have followed you for three days on the mountain with nothing to eat.  Make us worry like you for all the sufferings of those forgotten by the society and even by their families.  Use our hands to “wipe away the tears from all faces” (Is. 25:28) and let us be the heavenly food and drinks to be partaken by everyone after receiving your words and your Body and Blood in the Eucharist.

             Come, Lord Jesus, this holy season of Advent, “illumine what is hidden in darkness” (Entrance antiphon) and let your light penetrate my inner self so I may truly see how far I have been from you and from others, and most especially that I may see you as you are so that in the process I may also see my real self.  Renew me this season, Jesus, and let me enter your fullness of life.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by Jim Marpa, a former colleague at the Varsitarian of UST (circa 1986).  Used with permission.

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“Pangangahas ng Puso Kay Kristo”

Lawiswis ng Salita ni P. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Ika-04 ng Disyembre 2018
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Adbiyento… ang apat na Linggong paghahanda sa pagdating ni Kristo
Ngunit kung ating mapagtatanto, umalis ba talaga si Kristo
At dapat nating paghandaan pagbabalik Niyang totoo?
Hindi ba’t lagi naman Siyang naririto at tayo lang ang nalilito
Tuliro sa panahon ng Pasko na ika ng iba Christmas rush kuno
Minamadali ang Pasko pero naiiwan naman si Kristo.
Sa paglipas ng maghapon, ating bang naitatanong
Kung nasaan Siyang ating Panginoon,
Maliban lamang kung tayo’y sumusuong sa mabibigat na paghamon
Dahil mas paniwala tayo sa moderno at usong magugunaw na ang mundo
Habang pilit na sinisiksik sa ating mga isip ng teknolohiya at media
Na wala ng oras, wala na tayong tutuluyan pa kaya ang lahat ay madaliin at pagaanin.

Sa ating pagkahumaling sa ano mang magaling, lahat ay ating sinisikap agad tapusin
Panay naman ating daing na di natin kakayanin gayong lahat ay nalalampasan  din
Dahil taliwas sa diwa ng pagdating ni Kristong Panginoon natin
Pinapaalala ng Adbiyento na bagama’t magwawakas itong panahon natin
May sapat na oras at puwang si Kristo para sa atin
Upang tayo ay Kanyang makapiling, mapuspos ng Kanyang blessing.

Ngayong panahon ng Adbiyento, sana’y pangahasan nating
Suriing maigi yaring puso natin, alamin at timbangin totoong pinakamahalaga sa atin
Pangahasan na damhin at ranasin si Kristong nananatili sa puso at buhay natin
Dahil kung hindi natin ito gagawin ngayon din
Kailan ma’y hindi Siya darating
Kung wala Siyang puwang sa puso natin.

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*Larawan ay kuha ng may-akda ng kanilang Advent wreathe sa Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave, Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan, ika-2 ng Disyembre 2018.

Advent Is Conversion of the Heart

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Tuesday, 04 December 2018, Advent Week 1
Isaiah 11:1-10///Luke 10:21-24

            “Behold, the Lord will come, and all his holy ones with him; and on that day there will be great light” (from the entrance antiphon of today’s Mass).

            Has this day come, Lord?  It is supposed to have been fulfilled a long time ago in your birth, Lord Jesus, after Isaiah had prophesied of how a “shoot shall sprout from the stump of Jesse, and from his roots a bud shall blossom.” (Is.11:1)  But it has not happened yet, remaining only a dream and a sight to behold in our imaginations when there would be peace and harmony at your coming, “when the wolf shall be a guest of the lamb, the leopard shall lie down with the kid, the calf and the young lion shall browse together with a little child as their guide, the cow and the bear with their young resting as neighbors, the lion eating hay like ox, and the baby playing by the cobra’s den as he lay his hand on the adder’s lair.” (Is.11:6-8)

             It is a beautiful sight, a reality we are all wishing for but has never happened despite your coming to us, Lord Jesus Christ.  And we know why:  because we have not truly welcomed you in our hearts like children.

             Give us the grace to be filled with your Holy Spirit, that we may be childlike so that this blessed season of Advent may dispose us to conversion and single-mindedness in you alone.  Fill us with your Holy Spirit so we may attend to our deepest needs and hopes like peace and justice by being more compassionate with those who are suffering like the poor and the weak.  Let us bring your light in this world darkened with sin and individualism, marred by senseless wars and petty competitions and rivalries among us.  Hear our prayer, Lord, that we learn “to judge wisely the things of earth and hold firm to the things of heaven” (from today’s prayer after Communion).  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by the author, altar inside our parish sacristy, 03 December 2018.