Our lousy self in jealousy

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Thursday, Second Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 22 January 2026
1 Samuel 18:6-9; 19:1-7 <*{{{{>< + ><}}}}*> Mark 3:7-12
Your words today,
O Lord, are very disturbing,
even baffling but very revealing:
in the first reading we heard
the beginning of Saul's jealousy
of David while in the gospel
of how "unclean spirits" recognized
Jesus as the Son of God.
Lord, give us the courage
to confront every jealousy
that seeps into us,
from the most simple ones
to more greater ones that really
get us destabilized like that of Saul
when he heard people praised David
for killing ten thousand
compared to his thousands;
jealousy can be a terrible thing
because it is difficult to see others
better than us; most of all,
most difficult of all is to see people
turning away their attention from us
for others.

Saul was very angry and resentful of the song… And from that day on, Saul was jealous of David (1 Samuel 18:8, 9).

Teach us Jesus
to accept fully our strengths
and weaknesses,
to not measure our success
as persons by what we can do
or what others say; teach us to
imitate St. John the Baptist who
declared "Christ must increase,
but I must decrease" (John 3:30).

Teach us, Lord Jesus
to be honest and sincere
like you, so contented in yourself:
you silenced the unclean spirits
from making you known;
how intriguing that so often,
it is our dark, sinful side
where we truly find the hard truths
of life; if we could just be like you,
we would never be taken over
by jealousy because the moment
we experience jealousy,
then we realize the truth
of somebody better than us
in some aspects; jealousy is an
unclean spirit within us that
speak of the truth not to set us
free but to enslave us by driving us
into the opposite direction of self-
aggrandizement.
Teach us, Jesus,
that all that matters
is for us to give glory to God
and that the work of your
Kingdom is always done,
by us and by others.
Amen.
Photo by author, Don Bosco Chapel on the Hill, Nasugbu, Batangas, January 2023.

Bless our hands, Lord

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday, Memorial of St. Agnes, Virgin & Martyr, 21 January 2026
1 Samuel 17:32-33, 37, 40-51 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Mark 3:1-6
Photo by Titouan Jullien on Pexels.com
Today, I thank you
dear God our Father
for the gift of our hands,
our hands that touch and hold
others dear to us,
hands that keep joyful things
closest to us,
hands that openly receive so
much from you and from others,
hands that cover our face and
protect our selves from harm,
hands that move freely
to do so many things
and enable us enjoy freedom;
forgive us Father when these
same hands you have blessed
to feed us and keep us warm
are the same hands we hurt
others, the same hands we close
to refuse friendship and goodwill
of others; the same hands that
make us unfree in taking what is
not ours and committing so many sins.
Bless our hands,
Jesus, like what you did
to that man with withered hand;
let us stretch our hand, Jesus
to touch and help others in need;
open our hands, Jesus
to receive and to share you;
like David slaying Goliath,
use our hands, Lord,
small and feeble they may be
to do your will and proclaim
your power and greatness;
may our hands be your hands,
Jesus, regardless of our youth
like St. Agnes
whom we remember today,
the little hands that hold on
to you in deep faith,
the little hands that spread
your gospel of love and justice.
Amen.
Photo by Mariam Antadze on Pexels.com

Lord of Sabbath

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday, Second Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 20 January 2026
1 Samuel 16:1-13 <*[[[[>< + ><]]]]*> Mark 2:23-28
Photo by Giuseppe Russo on Pexels.com
Lord Jesus Christ,
our Lord of Sabbath,
our very rest,
teach us to go back to you
and rest in you; for the second
straight day, Pharisees attacked
you though your disciples:
yesterday they challenged you
about fasting, today about
the sabbath.

As Jesus was passing through a field of grain on the sabbath, his disciples began to make a path while picking the heads of grain. At this the Pharisees said to him, “Look, why are they doing what is unlawful on a sabbath?” Then he said to them, “The sabbath was made for man not man for the sabbath. That is why the Son of Man is the Lord even of sabbath” (Mark 2:23-24, 27-28).

How lovely is the imagery
of Sabbath: the day when God
rested from creating everything;
it is the only day standing alone
on its own because it is God's
alone; hence, a sabbath is always
a return to you, O God,
a return to paradise where you alone
are the Lord;
but, alas, we have also
infected this blessed day
with our sin and evil,
taking it also as our own.

Make us realize,
dear Jesus,
that like fasting,
we need to enter
into Sabbath
by first recognizing you
as our Lord and God,
not the day
nor the tradition
nor the laws;
teach us to see more
inwards like God in choosing
David as next king of'
Israel.
Amen.
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com

New wine, new wineskins

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday, Second Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 19 January 2026
1 Samuel 15:16-23 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Mark 2:18-22
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com
It is still too early,
Lord Jesus Christ
but every moment is
always a "happy hour"
in you as you speak of
new wine into fresh wineskins:

Likewise, no one pours new wine into old wineskins. Otherwise, the wine will burst the skins, and both the wine and the skins are wuined. Rather, new wine in poured into fresh wineskins” (Mark 2:22).

Teach me, Jesus
to have a "new mind in Christ"
(1 Cor. 2:16),
to truly fast my mind
and my heart
by emptying myself
of so many things like
beliefs and suppositions
that prevent me from
welcoming you into myself;
turn me into a fresh wineskin,
Lord by discarding
my old self
that has become my comfort zone
of complacency
and mediocrity;
teach me obedience,
Jesus that I may truly
appreciate and realize the true
meaning of our many traditions
like fasting and prayer
that lead to glorifying you
and union in you;
forgive me on many occasions
of acting and believing
like King Saul
of justifying disobedience,
insisting on my own
understanding
and seeing of things.
Many times,
indeed,
we "burst" because
we never have you
in us, Jesus,
for we are so filled
with our old selves.
Amen.
Photo by Rachel Claire on Pexels.com

Joy to the world

Lord My Chef Sunday Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Feast of the Sto. Niño, Cycle A, 18 January 2026
Isaiah 9:1-6 ><]]]]'> Ephesians 1:3-6, 15-18 ><]]]]'> Matthew 18:1-5, 10
Photo from https://santoninodecebubasilica.org/chronicles/viva-pit-senor-viva-senor-santo-nino/

On this Second Sunday in Ordinary Time, we extend for a day our Christmas celebration with the Feast of Sto. Niño (Child Jesus), a special feast granted to us by Rome in honor of the crucial role in our evangelization by that image gifted by Magellan to Queen Juana of Cebu over 500 years ago.

As Nick Joaquin claimed in many of his writings, it was the Sto. Niño who actually conquered our country to become the only Christian nation in this part of the world which shows indeed as Christ had declared in today’s gospel that whoever humbles himself like a child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

At that time the disciples approached Jesus and said, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” He called a child over, placed it in their midst and said, “Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me” (Matthew 18:1-5).

“Jesus and the Little Child” painting by James Tissot between 1886-1894 now at Broolyn Museum; from wikimedia.org.

One of the things I cherish in my hospital ministry since 2021 is visiting new born babies: now I know why there are called a “bundle of joy” and always a sight to behold for me whenever I see them yawning and stretching then curling their little hands and arms when I sprinkle them with Holy Water.

Babies and children have something so uniquely in them that elicit joy in everyone even the most hardened criminals. They are so lovely because they speak to us of the beauty of life, of the joy of living, of the bright future still coming for us all. That is why experts are worried anywhere there is a falling or zero birth rate because that paints a bleak future of all kinds of problems and disaster to any nation or society so evident these days among developed countries that lack younger generation to care for their elderly and workforce to run their economy.

The sight of every child and baby is always a celebration of life, most specially in the arrival of Jesus Christ, the eternal Word in time and space over 2000 years ago. This Sunday, Jesus is inviting us to remember that scene at the first Christmas when he was born, to see him in every child like that one he had called in the midst of his apostles with flesh, bones, and blood pitched among us.

Photo by Mr. Darwin Arcilla, Chapel of the Angel of Peace, RISE Tower, OLFU-Valenzuela, Christmas 2025.

Here is the Son of God so intimate with our own lives including all its mess especially sickness and death itself.

Here is the Child Jesus we fondly call Sto. Niño who came to be born among us because he loves us so much.

Here are the children of the world, the greatest among us because they assure us of continuity in the future.

Looking at the Child Jesus and the child he had called in the midst of the apostles, we are challenged today to feel and realize what is to be with a baby or a child as another person with breath, body and a purpose yet to unfold throughout his/her life. Being like a child is the greatest of all because that is when we are fully human, entrusting everything to God. Que sera, sera!

It is said that in ancient Egypt, people cried aloud whenever a baby was born because of the sufferings every newborn is due to undergo in life. So true! In fact, my earliest lesson about life came through an illustration in a Reader’s Digest magazine of a newly delivered baby crying while being held by a doctor in the OR. I asked my mother why the baby was crying and she told me that when a child is born and cries, then it is alive; if a baby does not cry at birth, it could be dead that is why the doctor has to spank to make him/her cry. That lesson had remained until now with me as a priest – that life is difficult and growing up is always painful.

And how ironic as in the gospel today that Jesus directs us to becoming like children to fully grasp these realities. It is not only Jesus but also the little children who enlighten our unclear minds with such great light that “shone in darkness” (first reading) because of their simplicity. We adults tend to complicate things by overthinking while children remind us of all the beautiful possibilities in life despite the mess and chaos we are into.

Photo by author, 2022.

It is this simplicity of children that also disarm us of our false securities and pretensions when they playfully smile and laugh at us as they simply live in the present moment enjoying our company. In their fragility and vulnerability is their strength making us so concerned with them that we can’t stand leaving a baby or a child alone especially when he/she is crying, when in need.

There lies the good news of the Sto. Niño and of being like a child: he calls us to stay because Jesus too like children remain with us. There is no turning back for Jesus and for every child here today.

Jesus is here along with every child that is why we too are here gathered today to receive them and to ensure every life is safely protected and lovingly cared. It is in our staying, in our remaining we become child-like as we realize the tremendous blessings God has bestowed on us as his children (second reading) called to grow and mature in Christ by making him felt and known in this world that has slowly become so unwelcoming of babies and of God.

Notice how with the growth of what St. John Paul II called as “culture of death” promoting artificial contraceptives and abortion to control population growth, there is the corresponding turning away of people from God and eventually from one another. In this age of “Do-It-Yourself” Christianity, deciding on the number of kids to raise depend more on the couple’s financial capabilities than faith in God’s grace and power so that couples and people in general have unconsciously considered babies more as things to have than persons to love.

We end our reflection on this Feast of Sto. Niño with this Christmas song we have always taken for granted, “Joy to the World”. Written in 1719 by the English minister Isaac Watts, “Joy to the World” expresses the very joy not only of Christ’s coming but also of the birth of every child who reminds us of God among us in Jesus and of the need for us adults to be one with God always.

Photo by author, Sto. Niño Exhibit at the Malolos Cathedral, January 2022.
Joy to the world,
the Lord is come
Let Earth receive her King
Let very heart prepare him room
And heaven and nature sing
And heaven and nature sing
And heaven and nature sing.

Joy to the world,
the Savior reigns
Let men their songs employ
While fields and floods,
rocks, hills and plains
Repeat the sounding joy
Repeat the sounding joy
Repeat the sounding joy

He rules the world
with truth and grace
And makes the nations prove
The glories of his righteousness
And wonders of his love
And wonders of his love
And wonders of his love

For heaven and nature to sing anew of this joy, we have to be like the children welcoming Jesus in our hearts without any ifs and buts.

For us to repeat the sounding joy in life, we have to be like children in trustingly following Jesus in his Cross; notice how the gospels are silent about children calling for the crucifixion of Jesus. Only the adults demanded his death!

Finally, for us to experience the wonders of God’s love, we have to become like children who let truth and grace be the rules in life, not lies and powers. That is the greatness of being like a child – of trusting more in God than in man and his sciences and technologies, ideologies and philosophies that all fall short in bringing true joy and fulfillment in life. Amen. A blessed week ahead of everyone!

Persistence, insistence

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Friday, First Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 16 January 2026
1 Samuel 8:4-7, 10-22 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Mark 2:1-12
“The Paralytic of Capernaum Lowered from the Roof”, a 5th/6th century Mosaic at Sant’ Apollinare Nuovo, Ravenna, Italy; from christian.art.
Today we thank you,
dear God our Father
for those people
you have sent to
to carry us through
our darkest and trying
moments in life
to find you,
to be near you,
to rise again
like those men
in the gospel today.

They came bringing to him a paralytic carried by four men. Unable to get near Jesus because of the crowd, they opened up the roof above him. After they had broken through, they let down the mat on which the paralytic was lying. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to him, “Child, your sins are forgiven” (Mark 2:3-5).

Thank you, Father
in sending people who
never gave up on us,
who still believed in us,
who hoped and had faith
for us when we have totally
given up in life that is why
Jesus Christ's first words
to the paralytic were
"your sins are forgiven."
May we who have been
brought closer to you,
Jesus by those kind of people
be persistent too in bringing
others who are lost closest
to you.
Likewise,
forgive us Father
for those many occasions
we have become so insistent
with our desires and plans
that we have become unreasonable
in our devotion and "panata",
hurting others in the process
without realizing it is actually
a turning away from you
like the people who insisted in
being given with a king to rule
over them.
Amen.

Approaching God

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Thursday, First Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 15 January 2026
1 Samuel 4:1-11 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Mark 1:40-43
Photo by author, Basilica of Our Lady of Manaoag, 09 January 2026.
Your words since Monday
at the start of Ordinary Time
are so amazing and lovely,
O God our Father;
I love, O Lord,
the contrasts presented
between the first reading
and the gospel just like today
that is so unique
with the striking differences
in approaching you,
dear God.

The Philistines fought and Israel was defeated; every man fled to his own tent. It was a disastrous defeat, in which Israel lost thirty thousand foot soldiers. The ark of God was captured, and Eli’s two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, were among the dead (1 Samuel 4:10-11).

A leper came to him (Jesus) and kneeling down begged him and said, “If you wish, you can make me clean.” Moved with pity, he stretched out his hand, touched the leper, and said to him, “I do will it. Be made clean.” The leprosy left him immediately, and he was made clean (Mark 1:40-42).

Until now, 
many of us are still like
those Israelites who brought
the Ark of the Covenant
to the battlefront as if it were an
"anting-anting" in fighting the Philistines
who overwhelmingly defeated them;
the recent Traslacion
that many still continue to defend
is something we ought to rectify
or recalibrate by deepening our
faith to put order and solemnity
in a supposed to be religious
activity; show us the way
in witnessing to others the proper
approach to you, Lord,
is like that leper full of trust
and surrender to your will,
not in insisting our personal
desires and "panata"
that in the process we forget
to imitate your Son Jesus in
being loving and charitable.
Amen.
Photo by author, Basilica of Our Lady of Manaoag, 09 January 2026.

Permitting, not permitting

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday, First Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 14 January 2026
1 Samuel 3:1-10, 19-20 <'[[[[>< + ><]]]]'> Mark 1:29-39
Photo by author, Bgy. Ubihan, Meycauayan City, January 2022.
How lovely are your words
today, Lord Jesus Christ,
the Word who became flesh
and dwelled among us!
Thank you very much 
in sharing with us the power
of your words; in fact,
we are the only ones with whom
you have gifted with this power;
the world and everything in it
was created simply by God speaking
the words that came to exist.
Teach us, Jesus
the value of listening to you,
letting you speak first
so that like Samuel,
you may "not permit any word
we speak to be without effect"
(1 Samuel 3:19); may we truly share
in your prophetic ministry
by "enfleshing" the words we speak
by walking our talk;
likewise, heal us,
dear Jesus
of our many infirmities
and sickness due to sins
and evil that make us
speak too much
that instead of building up
others we destroy one another;
like those demons you drove out
from the sick you have cured
in today's gospel,
keep our mouths shut,
"do not permit us to speak"
(Mark 1:34)
when not necessary.
Amen.

Pouring out, baring of one’s self

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Tuesday, First Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 13 January 2026
1 Samuel 1:9-20 <*{{{{>< + ><}}}}*> Mark 1:21-28
Photo by author, Sabbath Place, Assumption Baguio, January 2019.

“It isn’t that, my lord,” Hannah answered. “I am an unhappy woman. I have neither wine nor liquor; I was only pouring out my troubles to the Lord” (1 Samuel 1:15).

How often people misread
what is really inside us,
Lord Jesus,
especially when we pour out
our troubles to you;
and yet,
you have always been so kind
with us,
so gracious
in listening
and most of all in
granting our prayers
and desires.
Teach us, dear Jesus
to open ourselves more
to you,
to bare our souls to you
to be cleansed and refreshed
in your healing mercy
and abounding love.
Most of all,
help us to pour things out
to you, Jesus
those sins and evil
we keep inside,
those which we have buried
deep inside us that
continue to bother and
destabilize us
including the pains
and hurts in the past
that have imprisoned us
and prevent us from experiencing
your liberation and freedom,
salvation and fresh start
like that man with an unclean spirit
in today's gospel.
Amen.
Photo by author, Sabbath Place, Assumption Baguio, January 2019.

This is the time of fulfillment

Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Monday, First Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 12 January 2026
1 Samuel 1:1-8 <*((((>< + ><))))*> Mark 1:14-20
Photo by author, San Juan, La Union, 09 January 2026.

After John had been arrested, Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the Gospel of God: “This is the time of fulfillment. The Kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the Gospel” (Mark 1:14-15).

Thank you dear Jesus
for this brand new week,
for this start of Ordinary Time
in our liturgical calendar;
how wonderful to remind us
it is the time of fulfillment,
of completion and wholeness
in you, O Lord because it is only
in you lies our fulfillment.
Teach us to open our hearts
and souls to your call, Jesus
like the brothers Peter and Andrew,
James and John,
your first disciples;
was it really that quick and easy
for them to leave everything behind
including the father of James
and John just to follow you?

Yes, dear Jesus,
like them,
we felt incredulous
and even fearful with your call,
not only last year
but even this year;
in fact, as we begin
our Ordinary Time this Monday,
the more I felt your calling
continues everyday
because without you
we shall never be complete.
Like Hannah,
our lives will never be complete
and fulfilled without having you
that may take several forms
like a child for Hannah;
many times Lord we wonder
why we cannot have what we
are specifically praying for
like Hannah who has become
a subject of ridicule by others
for being barren and childless;
but, inasmuch as your call continues
for us, then you hereby assure us too
of your continuing works in our
many deficiencies if we can only
be patient and persevering in you
in awaiting your calls.
Amen.
Photo by author, San Juan, La Union, 09 January 2026.