Lord My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II Thursday, Second Week in Ordinary Time, Year II, 22 January 2026 1 Samuel 18:6-9; 19:1-7 <*{{{{>< + ><}}}}*> Mark 3:7-12
Your words today, O Lord, are very disturbing, even baffling but very revealing: in the first reading we heard the beginning of Saul's jealousy of David while in the gospel of how "unclean spirits" recognized Jesus as the Son of God.
Lord, give us the courage to confront every jealousy that seeps into us, from the most simple ones to more greater ones that really get us destabilized like that of Saul when he heard people praised David for killing ten thousand compared to his thousands; jealousy can be a terrible thing because it is difficult to see others better than us; most of all, most difficult of all is to see people turning away their attention from us for others.
Saul was very angry and resentful of the song… And from that day on, Saul was jealous of David (1 Samuel 18:8, 9).
Teach us Jesus to accept fully our strengths and weaknesses, to not measure our success as persons by what we can do or what others say; teach us to imitate St. John the Baptist who declared "Christ must increase, but I must decrease" (John 3:30).
Teach us, Lord Jesus to be honest and sincere like you, so contented in yourself: you silenced the unclean spirits from making you known; how intriguing that so often, it is our dark, sinful side where we truly find the hard truths of life; if we could just be like you, we would never be taken over by jealousy because the moment we experience jealousy, then we realize the truth of somebody better than us in some aspects; jealousy is an unclean spirit within us that speak of the truth not to set us free but to enslave us by driving us into the opposite direction of self- aggrandizement.
Teach us, Jesus, that all that matters is for us to give glory to God and that the work of your Kingdom is always done, by us and by others. Amen.
Photo by author, Don Bosco Chapel on the Hill, Nasugbu, Batangas, January 2023.
The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II Thursday in the Second Week of Ordinary Time, Year II, 18 January 2024 1 Samuel 18:6-9, 19:1-7 <*{{{{>< + ><}}}}*> Mark 3:7-12
Photo by author, sunflower farm in La Trinidad, Benguet, 12 July 2023.
"In God I trust; I shall not fear."
Let those words of the psalmist today be my prayer too, dear Father especially when jealousy slowly creeps into me, when people around me do better, when they seem to be more loved or liked or accepted; like King Saul in the first reading today, there are times I am filled with insecurities with my own self, with my strengths and abilities, most especially, with your love.
Jealousy arises easily in our hearts… When we truly enjoy God’s unlimited generosity, we will be grateful for what our brothers and sisters receive. Jealousy will simply have no place in our hearts.
Fr. Henri Nouwen
How true were the words of the late Fr. Henri Nouwen; jealousy arises easily in our hearts; sometimes they just come without us even thinking about it; problem is, many times we entertain and let it take over us, feeling we are a victim of something, like King Saul, or the elder brother in the parable of the prodigal son, or those early workers in the parable of the vineyard who felt they should be paid more than those late workers who were paid with same wage as theirs.
When good things happen to others, teach me to rejoice with them, let me be thankful too for their being blessed by you; let me not be jealous of whatever they have for you never fail to bless me too with so many things they do not have; let me be more trusting in your generosity, O God, to never have fear of you running out of blessings and other good things for each one of us according to our own abilities; let me rejoice when other people are blessed like in the gospel today because whatever good things that happen around us are signs you are with us in Christ Jesus.
Instead of looking on what others have, let me look what I have, and always, let that be YOU in Christ Jesus! Amen.
Lawiswis Ng Salita ni P. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Ika-07 ng Agosto 2023
Larawan kuha ni Dra. Mylene A. Santos, MD, sa France, 2022.
Matapos nating pagnilayan kaibahan ng reklamo at hinaing, ngayon ay masinsinang suriin natin ang sama at kabuktutan – ang kapangitan – nitong pagrereklamo. Bukod sa sinasadya itong pag-isipan upang manipulahin mga tao maging Diyos, ang masaklap na mukha ng pagrereklamo ay naroon ito palagi sa mga taong malalapit sa atin tulad ng pamilya at kaibigan.
Sina Miriam at Aaron ay nag-usap laban kay Moises tungkol sa asawa niyang taga-Cus. And sabi nila, “Si Moises lamang ba ang kinausap ni Yahweh? Hindi ba’t tayo man?” Hindi kaila kay Yahweh ang usapan nilang ito.
Bilang 12:1-2
Larawan kuha ng may-akda sa San Juan, La Union, 24 Hulyo 2023.
Ito ang masakit na katotohanan sa pagrereklamo: ang mga unang-unang nagrereklamo laban sa atin palagi yung pinakamalapit sa atin, iyong mga taong inaasahan natin na sana higit nakaka-unawa sa atin, na sana ang mga tagapagtanggol at kakampi natin, mga nagmamahal sa atin.
Kahapon sa unang pagbasa ating natunghayan paanong nagreklamo mga Israelita laban kay Moises nang sila ay nahirapan at nagutom sa ilang. Dinig na dinig ni Moises kanilang mga reklamo kaya siya ay naghinaing sa Diyos. Dapat sana sina Aaron at Miriam na mga kapatid niya ang dumamay sa kanya subalit sa ating pagbasa ngayon, sumama pa sila sa pagrereklamo laban kay Moises!
At hindi lamang iyon! Nang-intriga pa ang magkapatid laban sa kanilang kapatid. Ginawang isyu nina Aaron at Miriam ang taga-Cus na asawa ni Moises na si Zipporah. Ating napagnilayan kung paanong sa pagrereklamo mayroon palaging panunumbat, panunukat at paghahamon sa mga inirereklamong tao kungdi pati sa Panginoong Diyos tulad sa tagpong ito (https://lordmychef.com/2023/08/07/masama-magreklamo-pananalangin-ang-dumaing/).
Alam naman nina Aaron at Miriam bakit nakapag-asawa si Moises ng hindi Judio dahil nga siya ay tumakas at nagtago sa ilang matapos niyang mapatay isang bantay na Egipsiyo. Sa pagkakataong ito, kanila ring kinukuwestiyon nila pagkatao ni Moises na kapatid nila.
Higit sa lahat, dito ating nakita ang pangit at mabahong katotohanan ng pagrereklamo na bunsod ng simpleng inggit. Tingnan kung paanong kayang wasakin ng pagka-inggit ating pagiging magkakapatid at pamilya!
Nagngingitngit sa inggit sina Aaron at Miriam laban kay Moises at maging kay Yahweh dahil hindi sila makabida sa mga tao. Ibig nilang umepal sa mga tao. Sa mga susunod na kabanata, ganito rin ang kuwento ng mga kalalakihang nainggit sa mga hinirang na propeta ni Yahwen sa ilang. Katulad ni Miriam, sila ma’y pinarusahan ng Diyos.
Larawan kuha ng may-akda sa San Juan, La Union, 25 Hulyo 2023.
Dapat nating matanggap na bawat isa sa atin ay mayroong gampaning papel at misyon sa buhay mula sa Diyos. Huwag nating sukatin o kuwentahin uri ng ating gampanin sapagkat walang maliit o malaking bagay sa Diyos. Ang pinaka-mahalaga sa kanya ay ang ating katapatan sa kanyang iniatas na gawain at misyon. Kung ang ibig ng Diyos na papel natin sa mundo ay tagapagpatay ng ilaw o taga-kaway ng munting bandila tuwing dumaraan ang tren sa crossing, iyon na iyon! Ang ningning at kahalagahan ng bawat gawain ay nakabatay sa Diyos at hindi sa ano pa mang sukatan o pamantayan ng tao. Kaya sa halip mainggit, ating pagbutihin mga gawain natin.
Sa ebanghelyo sa araw na ito ating natunghayan si Simon Pedro “umepal” kay Jesus na naglakad sa ibabaw ng tubig nang hilingin niyang palapitan din siya doon ng Panginoon. At pinagbigyan naman siya ni Jesus ngunit nang maramdaman ni Pedro ang malalakas na hangin, unti-unti siyang lumubog dahil sa takot kaya napasigaw siya sa paghingi ng saklolo kay Jesus.
Madali kasing makita ang ganda ng tanawing naglalakad sa ibabaw ng tubig o masarap siguro maranasan ikaw ay ginagalang ng lahat katulad ni Moises. Pero, iyon na ba lahat?
Hindi natin alintana mga likas na problema at hirap nakaatang sa kanya-kanyang balikat sa bawat tungkulin sa buhay at sa pamilya, sa opisina at sa pamayanan, o kahit saan man. Katulad ni Pedro nang maramdaman niya napakalakas na hangin nang maglakad sa ibabaw ng tubig katulad ni Jesus kaya natakot siya. Hindi lamang ganoon ang magreklamo at mainggit sa mga tao na ating hinahangaan o tinitingala.
Larawan ni Sto. Domingo mula sa Google.
Ngayong ika-walo ng Agosto ay paggunita kay Sto. Domingo, tagapagtatag ng Order of Preachers (OP) na tinaguriang mga Dominicano.
Batay sa mga kuwento noong ipagbuntis siya ng kanyang ina, nanaginip ito ng aso na tumatakbong may kagat-kagat na sulo, paikot-ikot sa madidilim na kalsada dahil gabi. Saan man magtungo ang naturang aso ay naghahatid siya ng liwanag dahil sa sulo sa kanyang kagat-kagat sa bibig.
Alalaong-baga, ipinalagay na ang sanggol niyang isisilang ay maghahatid ng liwanag sa buong daigdig katulad ng aso sa panaginip kaya pinangalanan siyang Domingo o Dominic na mula sa Domini Canes sa wikang Latin na ibig sabihin ay “Aso ng Panginoon”. At iyon nga ang nangyari sa buhay ni Sto. Domingo: siya at ang kanyang mga taga-sunod mula noon hanggang ngayon sa pamamagitan ng pagtuturo ay naghahatid ng liwanag ni Kristo sa daigdig na balot ng kadiliman ng kasamaan at kasalanan.
Hilingin natin kay Sto. Domingo tayo ay kanyang ipanalanging maliwanagan ating mga sarili upang mapawi lalo’t higit mga dilim ng inggit at pagrereklamo na bumabalot sa atin. Amen.
The Lord Is My Chef Daily Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Thursday, Week II, Year II in Ordinary Time, 20 January 2022
1 Samuel 18:6-9, 19:1-7 ><]]]]'> ><]]]]'> ><]]]]'> Mark 3:7-12
Photo by Mr. Jim Marpa, 2018.
Saul was very angry and resentful of the song, for he thought: “They give David ten thousands, but only thousands to me. All that remains for him is the kingship.” And from that day on, Saul was jealous of David.
1 Samuel 18:8-9
God our loving Father,
today you present to us the
very familiar feeling of jealousy
we experience in our relationships
when we feel and fear losing
something or someone we already have;
it is an unpleasant feeling that creeps
into us when we think someone
is trying to take what is already ours -
like Saul who felt David was trying
to steal the kingship from him.
But what is most evil with jealousy
is how it makes us so obsessed with
how we compare ourselves with others,
competing with people close to us
we perceive as rivals when they are not!
Teach us to be at home with our
true selves, with who we really are,
that we are good and adequate in ourselves;
like Jesus Christ who was
being pressed by people for his
teaching prowess and power to heal,
give us the grace to always be ready
to go out to the sea to see our worth
before you our Father who loves us so
much in our very own uniqueness lest
our jealousies lead us to more harmful
evils and sins. Amen.
The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe for the Soul by Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Wednesday, Week XX, Year I in Ordinary Time, 18 August 2021
Judges 9:6-15 ><]]]]*> ><)))'> ><]]]]*> Matthew 20:1-16
Photo by Mr. Jim Marpa, 2019.
Your words today, O God our Father
brought me back to my elementary days
when we read Aesop's fables and
memorized lines from Shakespeare,
"The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our
stars/ But in ourselves that we are
underlings." And how they both perfectly
jibe together in your words!
So many times we are like the great
trees in the forest, so proud of our giftedness
and abilities that we cannot give our selves
to you and others to serve; we are so in love
with our very selves, so proud or insecured
that most often we uncannily put
undeserving people to power
while we bear all the sarcasm in the end.
“Then all the trees said to the buckthorn, ‘Come; you reign over us!’ But the buckthorn replied to the trees, ‘If you wish to anoint me king over you in good faith, come and take refuge in my shadow. Otherwise, let fire come the buckthorn and devour the cedars of Lebanon.'”
Judges 9:14-15
Most of the time, Lord, we know
the fault is in us - not in the stars
nor among others nor from you
who truly loves each of us perfectly
like the vineyard owner, always
giving the same perfect amount of
love and mercy to everyone;
cleanse our hearts and our minds
of selfish thoughts, of insisting on
what we believe, on what we want;
give us the grace of discernment
to see clearly your will so we may
choose wisely the options we have
to put your divine plan in place.
Loving Father,
make me grateful always to what I have;
most of all, let me focus more on what
you have given me, not on what others
have received for in the end,
it could very well happen that
"the last will be first,
and the first will be last."
(Matthew 20:16)
And that, Lord,
is something completely
our fault. Amen.
1 Samuel 18:6-9; 19:1-7 ><)))*> ><)))*> ><)))*> Mark 3:7-12
Photo by Mr. Jim Marpa, Carigara, Leyte. 2019.
Praise and glory to you O God our loving Father in heaven!
Today, I just want to bask in your immense love for me, to let myself immerse in your love, in your grace, in your mercy.
Please, loving Father, let me be assured always of your love through your Son Jesus Christ.
As I prayed today’s readings, I realized that next to pride, the most sinister sin we have is jealousy that silently creeps into our being, making us forget your enormous love for each one of us. It is something we never outgrow that actually worsens as we age!
Saul was very angry and resentful of the song, for he thought: “They give David ten thousands, but only thousands to me. All that remains for him is the kingship.” And from that day on, Saul was jealous of David.
1 Samuel 18:8-9
Jealousy is more than an insecurity of being less worthy or fear that we are loved less.
At its worst, jealousy is something we have always “nurtured” within us, part of our lack of faith and belief that we are loved, that we are cared for.
That is why jealousy can easily arise within us because it is an enemy we “host” within us!
The Pharisees and the scribes were jealous of Jesus Christ because they have always lacked belief in themselves that is why they kept on quarreling among themselves, competing who would be most admired and accepted by the people.
But the people who came to follow Jesus, seeking healing from him, felt so assured of his love and mercy. No one among them was jealous of others being healed because they felt Jesus loved them all!
That is why I pray today, O Lord Jesus, to let me dispose of that inclination to be jealous always, of wrongly believing and fearing of being denied of your love that is boundless and immense for each one of us. Amen.
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