It’s the Position Seeking the Person

The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday, 12 November 2018, Week XXXII, Year II
Titus 1:1-9//Luke 17:1-6

            Thank you for this Monday, Lord Jesus Christ.

            Remind us on this first day of work that it is the position seeking the person and not the person seeking the position.  Remind us of the meaning of vocation that every position and task in our lives is a call from you to serve.  Remind us that every position, every authority, every power comes from you and it is always a sharing in your work not for our personal interests.

            On this first day of work, St. Paul’s letter to Titus invites us all in the Church and in the civil society to remember that every task, every work, every position you give us is “to set right what remains to be done” (Titus 1:5) to maintain or restore order and harmony among  us.

            May we heed your warning “things that cause sin will inevitably occur, but woe to the one through whom they occur.” (Lk.17:1)  Many times, sins happen when we desire and get positions not meant for us, inflating our egos, and thus, start lording over everyone.  Grant us the humility to always be one in you and with you like St. Josaphat who shed his blood for unity and harmony among the people.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

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*Photo from Google.

Giving Jesus

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXXII-B, 11 November 2018
1Kings 17:10-16///Hebrews 9:24-28///Mark 12:38-44

            Maybe you have heard the story of how the chicken and the cow argued who between them gives the most to their master.  The cow said she gives the most because from her supply of milk, the farmer is able to have cheese as well.  But the chicken argued that their master have to go through tedious work in milking the cow unlike with her when she simply has to lay eggs in her nest that can be easily obtained every day.  The pig heard their discussion, praised them both for their daily supply of milk and eggs to their master but reminded them that for her to give ham and bacon, she has to die first by offering her whole life as food.

            Jesus is still in the temple area teaching the people and His disciples some important lessons before His coming Passion, Death, and Resurrection.  Last week He had taught us of asking questions of the above and higher things that is actually a search for God which is the most essential in life.  Today, Jesus deepens this search for God by reminding us of the need to give our total selves to Him in order to find and have Him.  First we ask Jesus, and now we give our total selves to Jesus.

            In the course of his teaching, Jesus said to the crowds, “Beware of the scribes, who like to go around in long robes and accept greetings in the marketplaces, seats of honor in synagogues, and places of honor in banquets.” (Mk.12:38-39)

            The first step in giving our total selves to God and to others is to go back to what I call as our “hallowed hiddenness” in God.  We now live in the midst of social media where everything is “exposed” with nothing hidden from us anymore.  Everyone is either a “bida” or in a “pabida” mode.  Bida is the star or lead character in a movie or a TV show.  It is from the Spanish word vida that means life (contravida is the villain, the opposite of life).  Jesus was attacking here the scribes for being so “pabida”, always seeking popularity and admiration from the people.  They have entirely forgotten God and most likely must have thought of themselves as God Himself.  Sad to say, this continues to our own time.  Check Facebook and you see what I mean.  We have become a clapping generation because everybody is a bida.  Even in church where solemnity of the Mass is sacrificed on the pretext of making it more celebratory and participative that priests encourage so much clapping of hands.  How sad that some Masses have become a variety show with the priest becoming a celebrity that in the process, Jesus is forgotten.  Today’s warning by Jesus is personally directed to us who have become the modern scribes, reminding us how we must present ourselves more before God than before humans.   There is always this danger of hypocrisy and showmanship in every kind of service especially in the Church which is also the reason why laypeople quarrel among themselves on who is the real bida.  When this happens especially in the Church, we all become a kontrabida of the real and only bida, Jesus Christ.

            CNN reported recently that amid South Korea’s being the most wired country in the world with the fastest internet speed, it is now building many public libraries and centers where people can relax minus the ubiquitous smartphones and other gadgets.  The report says how the Koreans have realized the need for silence and stillness to truly progress.  Likewise, many companies and offices in Silicon Valley are reportedly encouraging their people to drop all gadgets once in a while during work to recharge and be refreshed in silence to discover new ideas.  Some tech companies there have even encouraged their workers to go hiking without bringing their gadgets to reconnect with self, others and nature.  Even the latest top of the line model of the iPhone is said to have a built-in monitor that reminds a user for being too focused with the gadget for a certain period of time.  These are all wonderful developments of how people are slowly rediscovering anew the need to be alone, to be still, and be silent.  We need to recapture our “hallowed hiddenness” with God so we can be whole again as a person.  The problem with too much exposure like in FB where even coffee breaks are posted is not only the growth of narcissism and superficiality among us but the grave mistake that one’s meaning in life is measured with the number of likes or followers one gets.  Unknown to us, the more we become visible and popular, the more we also become dependent on others for having meaning in life.  We can only find our true selves and meaning of life in God, the root of our being.  God is always found in emptiness and nothingness, not in abundance of the world.

            In the first reading we find this hallowed hiddenness in God in the beautiful story of the faith of Elijah and of that pagan widow of Zarephath.  Elijah was fleeing from the soldiers sent to kill him after telling King Ahab and his queen Jezebel that there would be drought in Israel due to their worship of baal.  He was first directed to a mountain stream where ravens brought him bread daily.  When the stream ran dry, God told Elijah to hide in Zarephath near Sidon in the home of a pagan widow.  This story of Elijah obeying God in a land of scarcity and danger (Zarephath was under the rule of Jezebel’s father) shows us his complete faith in God, of abandoning himself entirely with God.  The same is true with the pagan widow who gave everything to Elijah, believing in the promise of God told by the prophet.  In their hiddenness in God, relying solely on Him alone than with themselves and with others, Elijah and the pagan widow along with her son never went hungry until the rains came.  When we try to spend some hallowed hiddenness with God daily, taking a break from our busy schedules and social media, that is when we are purified to become better persons filled with the Spirit and substance.

            This is also the point of Jesus in calling His disciples to tell them later while seated opposite the treasury that the poor widow who put in two small coins worth a few cents gave more than the others for she “has contributed all she had, her whole livelihood.” (Mk.12:44)  The issue at hand is not about big money and little coins or amount of contributions but the spirit behind the act of giving.  Jesus was evoking here His coming total gift of self on the Cross that would soon take place which the author of the Letter to the Hebrews underscored in today’s second reading.  According to Pope Francis, “Giving and forgiving means reproducing in our lives some small measure of God’s perfection, which gives and forgives superabundantly” (Gaudete et Exsultate, 81).  Indeed, God has given us with so much but we have given so little.  May we learn to give more of ourselves and more of Jesus in us with others.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.  Email:  lordmychef@gmail.com   

*Photo by Dra. Mai B. Dela Pena, Showa Kinen Garden in Japan, 2018.  Used with permission.

Our Little Stories Make God’s Great Story

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 02 November 2018:

“The word of the Eucharist makes us part of the great story of our salvation.  Our little stories are lifted up into God’s great story and there given their unique place.  The word lifts us up and makes us see that our daily, ordinary lives, are in fact, sacred lives that play a necessary role in the fulfillment of God’s promise.”  (Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, page 59.)

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*Photo by Dra. Mai B. Dela Pena, Mount Carmel Monastery, Haifa, Israel, 2016.  Used with permission. 

Our Hallowed Hiddenness

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Quiet Storm by LordMyChef, 31 October 2018:

            Whether you choose to celebrate today’s Halloween in its truest, Christian sense that is sacred or in the more popular pagan manner that is scary, today’s feast that literally means All Hallowed (Holy) Eve reminds us of things that are not seen, always hidden.  Hiddenness is a sacred presence where each one of us is all by one’s self focused on God who is the root of our being and existence no matter how one may call Him.  In one of his writings which I could no longer recall despite the help of Google, St. John Paull II explained that God created man first to be alone with Him.  And that is how it has always been even if people get married for eventually in the end, we die alone with God.

             This gift of hiddenness within each one of us is manifested in our desire to once in a while be still, to go to the mountains or anywhere for a retreat or introspection, for “me” time to rediscover and “find” one’s self anew.  Hiddenness is the passageway to the great gifts of silence and stillness that everyone needs to maintain balance in this highly competitive world filled with so much noise where everybody is talking, even cars, ATM’s, and elevators.  How funny that we complain of not having enough time for ourselves but we never cease to stop talking and listening.  And not only that:  we have allowed everything about us not only heard but even seen on cameras.  First came the Sony Walkman almost 40 years ago that became the ancestor of every gadget that have invaded our hiddenness; now, we have camera everywhere, shooting and recording everything that nothing is hidden anymore in us and from us.  We have stripped ourselves of the innate mystery of being human, of the beauty and gift of personhood that some have tried to reveal using the camera but failed because we are beyond seeing and appreciation.

             While it is true that cameras are essential in keeping our surroundings safe and secured that it is referred to as “big brother”, again we find here another case of abusing technology to the detriment of our humanity.  As I have told you here last week (Respect In Digital Age), we need to put technology at its right place, particularly the camera that robs us of that essential thing we call respect.  But the greatest threat and danger posed on us by the camera is how we have allowed it to invade our hiddenness with almost everybody wanting to be on camera without realizing it often backfires, sometimes painfully.

            The camera is a projector, trying to show in a bigger picture deeper realities notably the plain truth.  Here lies our quiet storm when we are so eager to project everything and everyone including our very selves on the camera when we do not realize nor examine what we are really showing.  The great paradox is that the camera does not lie that always seem to show what is negative than what is positive in us.  Keep in mind the TV is called “idiot box”because those inside the television presuppose everybody watching them is an idiot when in fact, they are more idiots.  Watching television – news or entertainment – can reveal who are superficial and those with substance.  Sometimes TV can be deceiving that we take some people and things appearing on the screen as good and credible without us realizing these are “presentations” that are manipulated to produce a desired effect called the hypodermic theory.  This explains the popularity of YouTube as people prefer “raw footages” that show people and events “as it happened.”  Even movie directors are adapting to this style to show action “as it is” to give the film a more realistic feel that contribute to the blurring of lines between reality and virtual reality.

            We need to regain our hallowed hiddenness if we wish to grow and mature truly as persons – emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.  With the camera always around us even in the church, sad to say, everybody and everything has become so ordinary and cheap.  Even God has to keep His hiddenness simply because that is how He had created everything.  See the beautiful speech of God before Job that can transport you to the sublime beauty of nature and creation.  The beloved apostle also tells us of the hiddenness of Jesus Christ who “In the beginning was the word.” (Jn.1:1)  All four evangelists likewise have no records of the “hidden years” of Jesus before the age of 30 except for Matthew and Luke who gave us little glimpses of the birth and childhood of the Lord.  These are all meant to teach us of the value of hiddenness, of being rooted always in our being and with God.  Appearances in life are very fleeting and for more impact, we have to spend more time in hiddenness as revealed to us by Christ, the saints, artists and other great men and women of the world who came to be known and popular only after upon death.  So many times we have also experienced in the funeral of our relatives and friends that we discover their hidden goodness and kindness from stories of those condoling with us.

            This November 1 and 2 as we remember all those who have left us in this world, let us keep its sacred origins:  All Saints Day for those souls already in heaven and All Souls’ Day for those who have departed but still being purified or staying at the purgatory.  Both dates invite us to hide also in some prayer, remembering God and our loved ones whom we shall surely follow someday without any camera at all.  Like them in hiddenness from us, let us be focused more on God than on self and things that pass.  Here is the late Fr. Henri Nouwen on hiddenness:

“In our society we are inclined to avoid hiddenness. We want to be seen and acknowledged. We want to be useful to others and influence the course of events. But as we become visible and popular, we quickly grow dependent on people and their responses and easily lose touch with God, the true source of our being. Hiddenness is the place of purification. In hiddenness we find our true selves.”

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*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, sunset on a flight to Dubai, October 2018.  Used with permission.  Bible verse from Google.

Be A Responsible Giver

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 29 October 2018:

“You don’t have to wait until you’re very rich to start helping others.  and exactly like blood, you can only give away a certain amount, depending on your capacity, so you can remain healthy and able to keep helping others.  Like blood, money is a blessing that should be shared, but you must be a responsible giver.”

Edgar “Injap” Sia with Kristine Fonacier, “Life Principles” pp. 88-89.

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The Earth Is Full of God’s Goodness

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday//25October2018//Week XXIX, Year II
Ephesians 3:14-21///Luke 12:49-53

            Allow me, O God, to borrow St. Paul’s beautiful prayer for the Ephesians and make it my prayer to you this Thursday:  “As I kneel before you loving Father in heaven, grant me the riches of your glory to be strengthened in my inner self with your Holy Spirit so that through faith rooted and grounded in love in you, Jesus Christ may dwell in my heart always.  Grant me the strength to comprehend the breadth and length and height and depth of Christ’s love that surpasses human knowledge to be filled with all your fullness, O God.  For it is only in Jesus Christ, through Him and with Him that I can accomplish far more than all I ask or imagine.” (Eph.3:14-21)

             Indeed, “the earth is full of your goodness, O God,” but we miserably fail to discover and keep these because we always run away and hide from you in our sinfulness and selfishness.

             Let us become one with your Son Jesus Christ in “setting the earth on fire by being one with Him in His baptism” (Lk.12:49,50) with our commitment to love and serve you, O God, by putting into practice your words and precepts, to make this world a better place to live in peace and harmony.  Let us commit ourselves to Jesus Christ so we can build more bridges that unite us as brothers and sisters.  Let us commit ourselves to Christ so we can build better and lovelier buildings of dwelling and work where we gather as one family in you, our Father.

             Into your loving and merciful hands, O Lord, we commend ourselves today and forever.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
*Photo of Santorini by Dra. Mai Dela Pena.  Used with permission.

God’s Call Is Personal But Not Exclusive

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday//24October2018//Week XXIX, Year II
Ephesians 3:2-12///Luke 12:39-48

            Today, O Lord, I praise and thank you for the gift of your call that is always personal.  Like St. Paul telling us today of his own experience in his call, I remember the mystery of the gift of your grace given to me in a very personal way that have touched me and others too.  It is not just the gift of priesthood but most of all the grace of being loved by you despite my many sins.

            Forgive me, Jesus, when this gets into my head, when I feel very exclusive like Peter asking you today in the gospel if your parables and teachings are “meant for us or for everyone?” (Lk.12:41)   When you refused to answer his question by continuing with your teachings to stress the need to be wise and faithful stewards of your gifts and call, the more I am amazed with you as my Lord and Master:  you play no favorites as you are very inclusive but at the same time personally relating with each of us full of love and mercy.

            As I treasure your gifts, let me grow deeper in your love that I may faithfully serve you by sharing you with others.  Let me own the song of the psalmist today, singing “God indeed is my savior; I am confident and unafraid.  My strength and my courage is the Lord, and he has been my savior.  With joy you will draw water at the fountain of salvation (Ps.12:2-3).”  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News in Iceland, 09 October 2018.  Used with permission.

Continuing Christ’s Work

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday//23October2018//Week XXIX, Year II
Ephesians 2:12-22///Luke 12:35-38

             Dear God:

              Last night while praying I found myself in a very amusing situation over the words of your Son Jesus Christ telling us in today’s gospel to “Gird your loins and light your lamps.” (Lk.12:35)   

              Remember how yesterday at the meat section of the supermarket, the butcher was enticing me to buy some loins that are tender and tasty, good for dinner and how I struggled?  Thank you for preventing me from falling into that temptation, a little victory in my daily battle of the bulge!

               But, as I prayed on your words today, I have realized that is really how it is with life:  we always have to gird our loins, to prepare and strengthen ourselves for what is to come.  The loin is where our basic instinct and urges emanate from, always evoking pleasures in us that are so powerful and irresistible.  And so, keep me always on guard like those faithful servants in today’s parable to gird my loins and light my lamps especially in continuing Christ’s work of reconciliation, of “keeping us all together as a sacred temple for God.” (Eph.2:21)

                How sad that we always forget the beautiful preaching of St. Paul of how Jesus Christ have reconciled us all in you, O God, with His precious Blood.  How sad when we destroy our unity by looking more at our many differences because we cannot control our urges, our loins.  And it is most painful, O God, when we allow it to happen right inside your Church, the Body of Jesus Christ!  Help us to embrace the diverse racial and ethnic backgrounds of everyone that we may become new persons in your Son our Lord Jesus Christ.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by the author, from the inside of the Church “Dominus Flevit” (the Lord Cried) overlooking Jerusalem as background.  How sad that Jesus continues to cry today because we are still divided.

On Decision-Making

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 22 October 2018:

“I think success is a series of correct decisions.  Every decision that’s made today was made because you thought it was right today; and, as a leader and a business founder, that’s your job- to keep making decisions all day.

For ten decisions you make, maybe seven will be perceived as immediately correct.  While others may not perceive the other three decisions as right, if you’re blessed, it will turn out correct in the long run.  And that blessing comes about as a combination of instinct and guidance.”

Edgar “Injap” Sia with Kristine Fonacier, “Life Principles”, page 106.

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Photo by Dra. Mai Dela Pena, Tokyo, Japan 2018.  Used with permission.

You Are the Handiwork of God

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday//22October 2018//Memorial of St. John Paul II
Ephesians 2:1-10///Luke 12:13-21

            My heart is overflowing with praise and thanksgiving to you, O God our loving Father in giving us the wonderful gift of a saint who had lived during our lifetime, the great St. John Paul II whose feast celebrate today.  Having lived during his pontificate, I have experienced your love and majesty, your presence, your reality.  When I think and remember our beloved JP2, I cannot but be filled with awe that there is a loving, merciful and personal God like you!

            In his own life, today’s words by St. Paul are evidently true that each of us is “your handiwork, created in Christ Jesus for the good works that God has prepared in advance, that we should live in them.” (Eph.2:10)  When I recall the early childhood of St. John Paul II, his family, his Poland, his long pontificate along with his many travels and great speeches along with his bubbling sense of humor, the more I see your love and mercy, O God.

             Here is a man with so much pains and sufferings until his death who never ceased to echo among us the call of Jesus to be not afraid.  Here is a man who had showed us in his very life that “one’s life does not consist of possessions but of being rich in what matters to God.” (Lk.12:15,21)

              Give us that grace too, loving Father in heaven, to be like St. John Paul II that we may also see you working in us and through us, despite our many brokenness, that we are not determined by our failures and sins in the past.  Make us realize St. John Paul II’s teaching that we can only find fulfillment in your Son Jesus Christ who had come to bring us back into your  loving arms. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. E-mail to lordmychef@gmail.com for free subscription.

*Photos from Google.

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