The Heart Is Also the Hearth

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday//16October2018//Week XXVIII, Year II
Galatians 5:1-6///Luke 11:37-41

            Praised be O God, our loving Father!

            So many times, we are like the Pharisee in the gospel, always inviting Jesus your Son who readily comes to us.  Unfortunately, like that Pharisee, we are concerned only with externalities than what is inside.  We invite Jesus only into our house but never into our home, only to be beside us but never in our hearts! True hospitality is when the heart is also the hearth.

           “Oh you Pharisees!  Although you cleanse the outside of the cup and the dish, inside you are filled with plunder and evil.  You fools!  Did not the maker of the outside also make the inside?”(Lk.11:39-40)

             Help us, O Lord to have what St. Paul preached to the Galatians, “faith working through love” (Gal.5:6) when we welcome you into our hearts to fill it with your warmth of love and mercy for everyone, giving life to others in a world that has gone selfishly cold with pride.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. E-mail to lordmychef@gmail.com.
*Photo by Dra. Mai Dela Pena in Germany.  Used with permission.

On Humility

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 15 October 2018

“When a person starts to think that all his success comes because he’s so good, he’s already off track.  I always remind myself that I’m here for a mission, and it keeps me grounded.”

Edgar “Injap” Sia with Kristine Fonacier, “Life Principles”, page 116.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog, Sacred Heart Novitiate (Novaliches), July 2018.

Something’s Gotta Give

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXVIII-B, 14October2018
Wisdom 7:7-11///Hebrews 4:12-13///Mark 10:17-30

            As Jesus was setting out on a journey, a man ran up, knelt down before him, and asked him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” (Mk.10:17)

            Each one of us can readily identify with this man because we all carry in our hearts the same question he had asked Jesus.  As we have reflected last Sunday, it is one of the FAQ’s of all time to Jesus next to the Pharisees’ “is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?”(Mk. 10: 2)  In our reflection last week, we also said how Jesus answered both questions by bringing us back to God who is our ultimate source and end in life.  Last Sunday, Jesus explained how God planned our relationships “in the beginning” when He created man and woman while today He tells us what to do to inherit eternal life.  So, what is to go back to God?

           First, going back to God to inherit eternal life is reading and studying the Sacred Scriptures prayerfully.  We always meet God in His words found in the Bible.  In enumerating to the man some of the commandments, Jesus reminds us to always consult and fulfill the Laws handed down by Moses in the Old Testament.  Moreover, the second reading today assures us that “the word of God is living and effective, sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating even between soul and spirit, joints and marrow, and able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart.  No creature is concealed from him, but everything is naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must render an account.” (Heb.4:12-13)   His words are living because God is living for He Himself is life, personally speaking to us in the Sacred Scriptures!

            Second, going back to God to inherit eternal life is acting on His words by forgetting one’s self in Christ, taking our cross to follow Him.  It is not enough to desire God, to read and listen to His words.  Remember how Herod also loved to listen to the words by John the Baptist and later of Jesus Christ but never had the courage heed them.  We need to have courage to go back to God because He would always direct us to places and instances we never imagined as Jesus told Peter before His ascension at Tiberias.  See how Mark presented to us today the progression of the teaching of Jesus to that man.  Before replying to his question, Jesus chided him, “Why do you call me good?  No one is good but God alone.” (Mk.10:18)  Christ must have seen something deeper with this man that right away He directed him to God through His Laws as the answer to his question.  The man was sincere with his question, unlike the Pharisees last Sunday who asked only to “test” Jesus.  The Lord must have seen him as a possible disciple being a “just man of Israel” who was molded by observance to the Laws, truly searching and waiting for the Messiah and day of salvation.  Then, in a dramatic fashion as recorded by Mark, the Lord challenged him to leave everything behind for God:  Jesus, looking at him, loved him and said to him, “You are lacking in one thing.  Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; then come follow me.” (Mk.10:21)

            Oh how we are very much like that man again, when our faces would fall as we walk away sad from the loving face of Jesus because we could not give up so many possessions we value more than God!  Going back to God means “something’s gotta give” – are we willing to let go of ourselves and of our possessions to inherit eternal life?  In 2003, Jack Nicholson and Dianne Keaton starred in a movie called “Something’s Gotta Give” that is about giving up one’s self, offering some sacrifices to experience real love, real peace and real joy.  All the more are these true if we want to inherit eternal life when we choose God more than anything!  This was the reflection of the author of the Book of Wisdom in the first reading:  he had realized while in a progressive and affluent society of the Greek world at that time that everything in life fades and passes away except Wisdom which is the personification of God:  “Yet all good things together came to me in her company, and countless riches at her hands.” (Wis.7:11)

            Last Tuesday, there were two massive gatherings of people in the country:  one at the Manila Cathedral where the relic of the incorrupt heart of St. Padre Pio was venerated and the other were at the various lotto outlets scattered throughout our archipelago.  The sights have reminded me of Charles Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities that perfectly describe them:  “It was the best of times, the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity… we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct the other way.”  What I just want to share here is the contrast of the scenes:  the people more concerned with life here on earth, of instantly becoming rich by hitting the one billion peso prize despite the odds of one in 40 million and those wishing for miracles who braved the sun and the rains for six hours just to get near the relic of the incorrupt heart of St. Pedro Pio.  There is nothing really wrong with betting in lotto and in venerating a relic; problem is when people see them as an end in itself, giving rise to “gambling mentality” and “spiritualization”.  The former is the attitude of some people wishing to get rich without working hard while the latter is a simplistic view on leap of faith.  Something’s gotta give if we want to be rich and be blessed!  But if we are wise, we would rather be working to inherit eternal life because it is something Christ has assured us already when He offered Himself on the Cross.“All things are possible for God” in the sense that He does everything to get us back with Him in heaven that is for everyone unlike winning the lotto that is so exclusive to just one or two winners.  How unwise that many of us would rather still do whatever is needed to win that elusive jackpot than have that assured salvation in Christ!

           When we come to consider everything, we realize that what we must really do to inherit eternal life is to be like children.  Twice in these past four weeks that Jesus had taught the need to be like children.  When we examine His life and teachings from His birth to His death and resurrection, everything in Jesus was being like a child, of abandoning His self completely to the Father like a child because “the kingdom of God belongs to children… whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.” (Mk.10:14-15)  Children teach us many lessons about giving up everything for the most valuable thing they can have.  This is the attitude Christ demands from us if we wish to join Him in His journey back to Jerusalem, back to God.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.  Email:  lordmychef@gmail.com

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Beware: Complaining Is Always Attractive!

LordMyChef “T-G-I-F” Quote, 12 October 2018

“There were no easy consolations.  It even seemed that he pierced their complaints with a truth they might have preferred not to know.  After all, continual complaining is more attractive than facing reality.  But the stranger was not the least bit afraid to break through their defenses and to call them far beyond their own narrowness of mind and heart.”

Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, page 47.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, arched ceiling of the Our Father Church, Holy Land pilgrimage April 2017.

On Contentment

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 08 October 2018

“Dream big dreams, but learn to be content with less, so that you may reach contentment even before you achieve your big dream. 

Contentment translates to inner happiness; don’t confuse it or align it with your Big Dream, because you may find yourself disappointed.”

Edgar “Injap” Sia, “Life Principles” with Kristine Fonacier, page 130.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Dead Sea resort, April 2017.

Pleasing People or Pleasing God?

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday//08October2018//Week XXVII, Year II
Galatians 1:6-12///Luke 10:25-37

            Lord, this Monday I feel like St. Paul, wondering at why many people would rather believe and accept fake people who are so good at putting up a show just to please them.  Sometimes it can be so sad and even frustrating when most people would prefer clowns with all their gimmicks and antics than apostles and workers who are truthful and faithful to your Words.

“Am I now currying favor with human beings or God?  Or am I seeking to please people?  If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a slave of Christ.” (Gal.1:10)

             Like in the parable of the Good Samaritan, how sad that many people with authority and responsibilities are more concerned with the superficialities of their positions than the task of making you felt and known by those at the side of the road.

            Teach us, O Lord, to please you more than to please others by getting down from our high seats of power and pride like the good Samaritan so we may uplift those badly beaten down the road and forsaken.  Teach us, O Lord, to be more acceptable before you than with others by our willingness to stand for what is true and good, by standing firm at the foot of your cross always. AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

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When Despair and Hope Come Together

LordMyChef “T-G-I-F” Quote, 05 October 2018:

“No loss can be mourned without some intuition that we will find new life… That’s how we generally approach the Eucharist.  With a strange mixture of despair and hope.  As we listen carefully to the deeper voices in our heart we realize that beneath our skepticism and cynicism there is a yearning for love, unity and communion that doesn’t go  away even when there remain so many arguments to dismiss it as sentimental childhood memories.”

Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, pp. 39-41.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Chapel of St. Jerome, Bethlehem, 18 April 2017.

Knowing Too Much, Understanding Too Little

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday//05October2018//Week XXVI, Year II
Job 38:1, 12-21; 40:3-5///Luke 10:13-16

            It is the first Friday of the month, the end our work week O God.  Some of us are rejoicing for the weekend, others are thankful for the many blessings of the past week but many are still complaining.  Sometimes we are like Job:  we complain a lot in life because we claim to know so much yet understand so little.

            “Have you ever in your lifetime commanded the morning and shown the dawn its place for taking hold of the ends of the earth, till the wicked are shaken from its surface?  Have you entered into the sources of the sea, or walked about in the depth of the abyss?  Have the gates of death been shown to you, or have you seen the gates of darkness?  Have you comprehended the breadth of the earth?  Tell me, if you know all…” (Job 38:12,16-18)

            O God, deflate our bloated egos when we feel to know all yet understand nothing in this life, when we complain and whine more than simply work and try our best, when we become cynical and pessimistic because things do not happen according to our plans.

            Most especially, take away our feeling of entitlement and open our eyes to the many blessings you have showered upon us that only a few have seen because we are like the people of Chorazin, Bethsaida, and Capernaum who disregarded the coming and the miracles by Jesus Christ. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.

On Tenacity and Grit

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 01 October 2018:

“If 99 out of a hundred people give up when they’re faced with rejection, you can distinguish yourself by being the one who keeps at it.  Other people might get mad and walk away after being rejected.  But be different.  Be tenacious. 

After you learn tenacity, grit can come into play.  Grit is the stamina to sustain continuous sacrifice in the face of continuous difficulty.” 

Injap Sia, “Life Principles” with Kristine Fonacier, page 114.

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Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes a day before Typhoon Ompong, 14 September 2018.  Used with permission.

“Caravan of Love” Performed by Daryl Hall and Friends at Live from Daryl’s House (2010)

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LordMyChefSundayMusic//Week XXVI-B//30September2018
Discipleship, Not Membership

            Sorry for the delay in our LordMyChefSunday music due to toxic schedules… after all it is still a Sunday with enough room to enjoy our beautiful choice:  “Caravan of Love” performed by Daryl Hall and his friends at his award-winning online show Live From Daryl’s House.  Daryl reunites with his longtime buddy and partner John Oates in this special show as tribute to the late musician T-Bone Wolke who suddenly died that year.  Composed and originally performed by the Isley Brothers in 1985, Caravan of Love perfectly fits our gospel this Sunday wherein we reflected on the importance of discipleship than membership.  The song invites everyone, regardless of color and creed to join a caravan of love where there is respect and kindness among everyone.  What is the use of claiming to be Christian or whatever if you do not practice justice and charity?  For Jesus, what really matters is how much we love each other as brother and sister….

 

Are you ready, are you ready?
Are you ready, are you ready?
Are you ready for the time of your life?
It’s time to stand up and fight
It’s alright it’s alright
Hand in hand we take a caravan to the motherland
One by one we gonna stand up with pride
One that can’t be denied
Stand up, stand up
From the highest mountain, valley low
We’ll all join together with hearts of gold
Now the children of the world can see
There’s a better place for us to be
The place in which we were born
So neglected and torn apart

Every woman every man
Join the caravan of love
(Stand up) stand up
Stand up
Everybody take a stand
Join the caravan of love
(Stand up) stand up
Stand up

I’m your brother
I’m your brother don’t you know
She’s my sister
She’s my…

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