
God our Father, it is again a Monday. Thank you for the gift of life, the gift of work, the gift of responsibilities, the gift of one another. Give us the grace to always do whatever is good and remain humble before you through others (Prov.3:35).

God our Father, it is again a Monday. Thank you for the gift of life, the gift of work, the gift of responsibilities, the gift of one another. Give us the grace to always do whatever is good and remain humble before you through others (Prov.3:35).

For our Sunday music today, we take the title track from the sixth studio album of the renowned group Earth, Wind and Fire“That’s The Way of the World” released in March 15, 1975. It is also the soundtrack of the movie of the same title at that time. EWF’s “That’s the Way of the World” hits the inner chords of our souls that perfectly fits the Sunday gospel where Jesus identified Himself with a child to show us how our relationship with children (and women) also reflect our relationship with God: “Whoever receives one child such as this in my name, receives me; and whoever receives me, receives not me but the One who sent me.” (Mk.9:37)
Childhood is a value in itself, the most pristine image of holiness, of God! When we go back in the gospels and see the teachings of Jesus Christ, we always find His constant reference to children and to childhood, warning us not to lead them into sin because their angels are always guarding them (Mt.18:1-10). It is plain and simple that anyone who abuses and molests children and women are not of God. And that is the problem we have always have in the way of the world in relating with children, contrary to the way of the Lord which is to becoming like a little child (Mt.18:3). EWF captures in their song this problem lost in our insistence of being “adults”.
Hearts of fire creates love desire
Take you high and higher to the world you belong
Hearts of fire creates love desire
High and higher to your place on the throne
We come together on this special day
Sing our message loud and clear
Looking back, we’ve touched on sorrowful days
Future pass, they disappear
You will find peace of mind
If you look way down in your heart and soul
Don’t hesitate ’cause the world seems cold
Stay young at heart, ’cause you’re never, never old
That’s the way of the world
Plant your flower and you grow a pearl
Child is born with a heart of gold
Way of the world makes his heart so cold
Hearts of fire create love desire take you
High and higher to the world you belong
Hearts of fire love desire
High and higher, yeah yeah yeah
Hearts of fire love desire
Ahh higher
*Photo courtesy of Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA News taken at Batanes a day before typhoon Ompong hit the country Sept. 14, 2018. Used with permission.

One of the things I enjoy with driving is getting lost, asking for directions, and making a lot of U-turns. And as I age, the more I realize as I have told in July that life is about direction than of destination. As we go on with life, we need to always go back and make many U-turns. Maybe this explains why as we get older, we go back to being like children with less hair, less teeth, and less control of many things that eventually, we have to be cared for by others. It is this imagery of going back in life that our gospeI today is presenting us with Jesus making a U-turn from Caesarea Philippi to head down south to Jerusalem with His disciples. It is a beautiful imagery of ageing gracefully, of how Jesus would direct our sights back to God the Father symbolized by Jerusalem by directing our attention to a child.
They came to Capernaum and, once inside the house, he began to ask to ask them, “What were you arguing about on the way?” But they remained silent. They had been discussing among themselves on the way who was the greatest. Then he sat down, called the Twelve, and said to them, “If anyone wishes to be first, he shall be the last of all and the servant of all.” Taking a child he placed it in their midst, and putting his arms around it said to them, “Whoever receives one child such as this in my name, receives me; and whoever receives me, receives not me but the One who sent me.” (Mk.9:33-37)
By identifying Himself with a child, Jesus is not only asking us to be childlike but most of all to examine how we treat children – and women – because that mirrors how we relate with God! See how sad and tragic in this age when children (and women) are abused, maltreated and molested by adults, by the very people supposed to love and care for them that include some priests! These shameful sins and crimes against children and women show how far we have deviated from God, including those religious men supposed to lead us closer to God. We in the clergy are so pained and deeply hurt within why some of our fellow workers in the Lord have committed those grievous sins, destroying lives and siding with the devil in the way of the world. They have turned away from God, miserably and tragically failing to see God among the children and women. It is plain and simple: anyone who abuses and molests children and women are not of God. They may know but do not believe in God just like the devil.
See how Jesus lovingly embraced that child in the midst of the Apostles. Like the Greeks and the Romans of that time, the Jews considered children of no value at all because they were not complete humans. Childhood was largely seen then as a stage on the way to fullness of humanity. That is why in the feeding of 5000 in the wilderness, children like women were not counted. It was the reason why the apostles drove away the children coming to Jesus one day for which they were reprimanded, telling them that “unless you become like little children you will never enter the Kingdom of heaven.”(Mt.18:3) By lovingly embracing that child in the midst of the Twelve, Jesus is reminding us to go back to the most pristine image of holiness, of God Himself. Childhood is a value in itself! Children are the most loving, the most trusting, and the kindest of anyone. They always tell the truth, they never lie and make stories. All they see is beauty and goodness that they always have that sense of awe and wonder. And that is God, is He not?
“Whoever receives one child such as this in my name, receives me; and whoever receives me, receives not me but the One who sent me.” (Mk.9:37) Last week, Jesus asked us “who do you say I am?” Maybe until now we are still grappling for our answers, still wondering or searching, trying to figure out who is really Jesus for us. Today while He lovingly embraced a child in our midst, Jesus is inviting us to look into their eyes to find Him, to discover anew the giftedness and preciousness of life as well as its fragility and mortality. Everybody is so excited that we are now just 100 before Christmas but has anyone reflected on God’s wonderful gift of His own Son becoming human, born as an infant, a helpless, little baby entrusting Himself to our care? What have we done with the children? Are we still with God?
“Ephphata!” Let us be opened to God again, to see Him and welcome Him in Himself as He is, just like the way we take children that is not according to our own ideas. When we go back in the gospels and see the teachings of Jesus Christ, we always find His constant reference to children and to childhood, warning us not to lead them into sin because their angels are always guarding them (Mt.18:1-10). This shows us that everything in Christ is all about our return to God, of entering the Kingdom of heaven by “becoming like a little child.” (Mt.18:3) Jesus was the first to become a child, being born unto us and now identifying Himself with a child to reveal to us Himself as one who is the “last and the servant of all” like a child among us, serving us! How ironic! Most of the time, we always brag about our being “adults”, of being the “captain of my ship, master of my fate.” That may be good to a certain extent but it is not really what life is all about which is going back to a child, going back to God, being lowly and humble to bend down and serve. It is something that runs contrary to the way of the world like what we have heard in the first reading. St. James reminds us too to go back to God, to go back relating with a child, becoming like a child who is pure and simple for us to attain peace within. Along with Jesus and the Twelve from Caesarea Philippi, let us make that U-turn and follow the way of the Lord, not the way of the world by seeing God among children and women. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA News in Batanes a day before Typhoon Ompong hit the country last week. Used with permission.


Heavenly Father, we thank you for this feast of Matthew the Apostle who wrote for us one of the gospels that gave us a wonderful picture of the humanity of your Son Jesus Christ. In His humanity, Christ showed us in turn your gift of divinity for sinners like us in calling Matthew.
As Jesus passed by, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the customs post. He said to him, “Follow me.” And he got up and followed him. (Mt.9:9)
How wonderful it is that most of the Apostles you have called Lord are of low standing in the society like fishermen and now, a tax collector considered a sinner who is corrupt and a traitor as well. We are all a Matthew, a sinner with a dark past, a dark background, even hiding in the darkness of sins and evil.

Dearest Lord Jesus Christ,

“To what shall I compare the people of this generation? What are they like? They are like children who sit in the marketplace and call to one another, ‘We played the flute for you, but you did not dance. We sang a dirge, but you did not weep.’ For John the Baptist came neither eating food nor drinking wine, and you said, ‘He is possessed by a demon.’ The Son of Man came eating and drinking and you said, ‘Look, he is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’”(Lk.7:31-34)

Dear God in heaven, we always call you “our Father” but we never really live as brothers and sisters. Everywhere there is always separation and worst are the competitions among us. We could not see our being one family, as one body with many parts because we are so focused in our illusions of greatness and importance in the world. Everyone claims to be better than the other, forgetting that we need each other.
Rekindle in us again the “one Spirit we were all baptized into one Body in Christ” (1Cor. 12:13) as one people, the sheep of your flock (Ps.100:3).
Come and visit us again in your Son Jesus Christ. Restore us to life like that young man in Nain you raised from the dead to be reunited with one another. Let no color or status or belief separate us from one another so that we may be one in Jesus Christ your Son. Most of all, take away our illusions of greatness to make us see the reality that we are not complete in ourselves without you and others. Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. (Photo from Google.)


Photos from Google.

“Lord, do not trouble yourself, for I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof; but say the word and let my servant be healed.” (Lk.7:6, 7)
So often we pray – or, actually recite this to you, O Lord, without realizing its beautiful meaning just before the Holy Communion. Like the Corinthians being reprimanded today by St. Paul in our first reading, we have become so individualistic that in forgetting those around us we have also disregarded your presence in our midst especially in the Holy Eucharist.
How sad when we eat, we simply fill our body with food and drinks, forgetting our souls to be nourished by the stories shared by those we dine with. In this world of fast-food, we have lost the beautiful meaning of every meal, of being together and sharing not only food but ourselves with the persons seated with us. Sometimes, we do not mind eating alone for as long as we have our most honored guests at the table, our smartphone or tablet. Worst, we do not even pray to you at all, Lord, unmindful of your goodness while we are busy taking pictures of our food, almost worshipping it as a god!
As we start our new week of work and studies, let us heed St. Paul’s call that when we come together to eat, we wait for one another like that centurion in the gospel who loved his slave so much, inviting Jesus to heal him even from afar. Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
Photo from Google, “Hapag ng Pag-Asa” painting by the late Joey Velasco.