On Tenacity and Grit

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 01 October 2018:

“If 99 out of a hundred people give up when they’re faced with rejection, you can distinguish yourself by being the one who keeps at it.  Other people might get mad and walk away after being rejected.  But be different.  Be tenacious. 

After you learn tenacity, grit can come into play.  Grit is the stamina to sustain continuous sacrifice in the face of continuous difficulty.” 

Injap Sia, “Life Principles” with Kristine Fonacier, page 114.

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Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes a day before Typhoon Ompong, 14 September 2018.  Used with permission.

On Being Small and Little

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday//01October2018//Week XXVI//Year II
Job 1:6-22///Luke 9:46-50

            We praise and thank you Lord for this brand new month of October!  Indeed a new beginning for us as we come closer to closing another year of many blessings from you though we must also confess that after eight months, we still have not matured that much before you.

            We are still so preoccupied with petty things, always disturbed on who is the greatest, who is the most powerful, who has the most.

             Teach us to emulate the modern saint and Doctor of the Church, St. Therese of the Child Jesus.  Teach us to live with her “little way” of loving and serving God in others by giving our very best.  Teach us to trust you more, to realize like Job that “naked we came forth from our mother’s womb, and naked shall we go back again.  You O Lord gave, and you O Lord has taken away.  Blessed is your name!”(Job 1:21) AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

“Caravan of Love” Performed by Daryl Hall and Friends at Live from Daryl’s House (2010)

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LordMyChefSundayMusic//Week XXVI-B//30September2018
Discipleship, Not Membership

            Sorry for the delay in our LordMyChefSunday music due to toxic schedules… after all it is still a Sunday with enough room to enjoy our beautiful choice:  “Caravan of Love” performed by Daryl Hall and his friends at his award-winning online show Live From Daryl’s House.  Daryl reunites with his longtime buddy and partner John Oates in this special show as tribute to the late musician T-Bone Wolke who suddenly died that year.  Composed and originally performed by the Isley Brothers in 1985, Caravan of Love perfectly fits our gospel this Sunday wherein we reflected on the importance of discipleship than membership.  The song invites everyone, regardless of color and creed to join a caravan of love where there is respect and kindness among everyone.  What is the use of claiming to be Christian or whatever if you do not practice justice and charity?  For Jesus, what really matters is how much we love each other as brother and sister….

 

Are you ready, are you ready?
Are you ready, are you ready?
Are you ready for the time of your life?
It’s time to stand up and fight
It’s alright it’s alright
Hand in hand we take a caravan to the motherland
One by one we gonna stand up with pride
One that can’t be denied
Stand up, stand up
From the highest mountain, valley low
We’ll all join together with hearts of gold
Now the children of the world can see
There’s a better place for us to be
The place in which we were born
So neglected and torn apart

Every woman every man
Join the caravan of love
(Stand up) stand up
Stand up
Everybody take a stand
Join the caravan of love
(Stand up) stand up
Stand up

I’m your brother
I’m your brother don’t you know
She’s my sister
She’s my…

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Discipleship, Not Membership

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXVI-B, 30 September 2018
Numbers 11:25-29///James 5:1-6///Mark 9:38-48

            Due to the increasing prices of most goods like vegetables and meat products, lately I have been buying most of our groceries at a membership club that offers sales and discounts.  But I have also noticed something so strange, really odd with the people going to these Costco copycats that have become an “R&R” destination like a park or a mall, literally a “pasyalan”.  See how people – not really shoppers – take “groufies” or “selfies” on alleys stacked with imported goods while their grocery cart only have a handful of products readily available in a sari-sari store.  I have asked some of the staff there who told me how some people go to their exclusive, membership-only shop simply for bragging rights in social media like Facebook.

            And there lies the big problem even in our Christian way of life:  we are so concerned with our membership forgetting the more essential which is discipleship.

            At that time, John said to Jesus, “Teacher, we saw someone driving out demons in your name, and we tried to prevent him because he does not follow us.”  Jesus replied, “Do not prevent him… For whoever is not against us is for us.  Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were put around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.” (Mk.9:38-39, 40, 42)

            Today our gospel is reminding us that there can be no compromises with our Lord Jesus Christ who can be meek and stern, open-minded and demanding.  For Him, the sky is the limit in everything that is good, regardless of affiliations; however, when it comes with evil, the Lord is very clear too that there are no excuses.  What is wrong is always wrong.  Hence, we find in the following verses His famous teachings that “if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off.  It is better for you to enter into life maimed than with two hands to go into Gehennna, into the unquenchable fire.  And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off.  It is better for you to enter heaven crippled than with two feet to be thrown into Gehenna.  And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out.  Better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into Gehenna.”(Mk.9:43-48)  Of course, these teachings are not to be taken literally for Jesus was just using a literary device to stress His point on the need to be good by getting into the very core or root of our sinfulness.  One of the important things I have learned during our 30-day retreat came from our 93-year old Jesuit director, Fr. Arthur Shea who told me that once we understand our sins, then we sin less often.  That is also the point of Jesus:  understand why we commit sin, then we learn how to avoid committing that sin again.

            When we consider the other teachings by Jesus these past two Sundays, we go back to that crucial point in Caesarea Philippi where He asked us all, “who do you say that I am?”  It is not enough to simply know in our minds who Jesus is, to belong to His group, to be “in” with Him though that is the first step.  In fact, Jesus came so that we may all be gathered into one again under God our Father.  That was also the point of Moses to Joshua in the first reading when he declared how God would want to “bestow his spirit” to everyone even those not present in the meeting because we all belong to God.  In John, Jesus mentioned how He cares for the other sheep not in His fold to show that indeed He is the Good Shepherd (Jn.10:16) who gathers His flock. It is clear that we all belong to the Father through Christ in the Holy Spirit.  But that is just the starting point:  more essential than membership to Jesus is discipleship.
              Discipleship means professing Jesus is the Christ like Peter in Caesarea Philippi not once but every day in our life by denying ourselves, taking up our cross and following the Lord daily.  Discipleship means recognizing Jesus among the children and women, among the poor and suffering, preferring nothing for the love of Christ.  Discipleship means taking a U-turn from our sinfulness to truly follow Jesus Christ by being kind and just with the poor as St. James stressed in the second reading today.  This Sunday through the Eucharist, let us not simply renew our membership in Christ in Holy Communion but most of all reaffirm our discipleship in Him by going forth after the Mass to proclaim His gospel in words and in deeds.  A blessed week to everyone! AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022
*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes after Typhoon Ompong, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.

On Being Truly Sorry

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 28 September 2018:

“A contrite heart is a heart that does not blame but acknowledges its own part in the sinfulness of the world and so has been made ready to receive God’s mercy.” – Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, page 38.

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*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes after typhoon Ompong, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.

Prayer To Always Profess Who Jesus Is

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday//28September2018//Week XXV//Year II
Ecclesiastes 3:1-11///Luke 9:18-22

             Today we remember and celebrate, O God, San Lorenzo Ruiz and his Dominican companions martyred in Nagasaki.  Most of all, we recall the strange circumstances behind his wonderful story, of how in your mercy and grace San Lorenzo Ruiz ended up victorious and glorious as the first Filipino saint when he shed blood for his great faith in you, O God.  Truly, “There is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens.” (Eccl.3:1)

             Bless us, O God, like San Lorenzo Ruiz to recognize every time, every moment of our lives as an occasion to answer the question of Jesus, “who do you say that I am?” (Lk.9:20).  Give us the courage to cooperate with your grace always present in us like with St. Peter and with all the other saints to profess who Jesus Christ is.

             You, O God, “has made everything appropriate to its time, and has put the timeless into their hearts, without man’s ever discovering, from beginning to end, the work which God has done.”(Eccl.3:11)  Let us seize always every appropriate time you have made for us to be faithful to you in Jesus Christ like San Lorenzo Ruiz who professed to his executioners that “if I had a thousand lives, I would gladly offer them all to God.” AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

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Finding Meaning and Direction in Life

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday//27September2018//Week XXV//Year II
Ecclesiastes 1:2-11///Luke 9:7-9

            It is a Thursday Lord and I wonder what you feel how we have made this day a “throwback Thursday” when we all look back to the past partly just for fun, partly perhaps to find meaning in life today.  We listen to old music, we dig albums for old photos to reminisce good old days to feel good, to find direction and meaning in life.

            And despite all these, Qoheleth hit it right, “What has been, that will be, what has been done, that will be done.  Nothing is new under the sun.”(Eccl.1:9)

          There are times we are like Herod the tetrarch in today’s gospel who could not believe at all the wondrous things happening around despite the many darkness in life.  There are times we have refused to accept and recognize your presence among us, Lord Jesus, amid the many sufferings and poverty in this world because we are scandalized by your cross.  We are so afraid to even get near your cross not knowing that you can only be found there.
           Fill our hearts with the same courage and charity you have given St. Vincent de Paul who found you among the poorest of the poor he had willingly served in his lifetime.  Make us realize like him that meaning and direction in life can only be found in you and your cross, lest everything becomes “vanity of vanities”.  AMEN.  Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes before Typhoon Ompong, 14 September 2018.  Used with permission.

A Prayer for Contentment

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Wednesday//26September2018//Week XXV//Year II
Proverbs 30:5-9///Luke 9:1-6

             Today Lord I borrow the prayer of the author of the Book of Proverbs for this is essentially I believe the only thing most necessary:  “Two things I ask of you, deny them not to me before I die.  Put falsehood and lying far from me, give me neither poverty nor riches, provide me only with the food I need.  Lest, being full, I deny you, saying, ‘Who is the Lord?’  Or, being in want, I steal, and profane the name of my God.”(Prov.30:7-9)

            When life for us is so easy and everything is in abundance, we feel so perfect, forgetting all about you but, when tough times come, we sometimes blame you for all our woes.  Teach us to be content with what we have.  And most of all, to share whatever we have, most especially your special gifts to us like the brothers Saints Cosmas and Damian who were both physicians who treated patients for free during their time.  Like your disciples you have sent to proclaim the good news, teach us to rely always on your providence. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA News, Batanes before typhoon Ompong, 14 September 2018.  Used with permission.

Deepening Our Family Ties In Christ

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday//25September2018//Week XXV//Year II
Proverbs 21:1-6, 10-13///Luke 8:19-21

             Dearest God:

             Every time we would pray, we always call you “our Father” without really realizing its deeper meaning and implications.  Today’s gospel surprised and even shocked us when your Son Jesus Christ claimed “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and act on it.”(Lk.8:21)  Thank you in showing to us the deeper realities of our family that we always take for granted.

            It is always easy to know who are our family but so difficult to recognize them deeper and truly with all the love and respect as father and mother, brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus.  Give us the grace like Jesus to find our relationships rooted in you so we can have more harmony and peace in the family.  Bless us today with your grace to always “do what is right and just”especially in dealing with our family for that is “more acceptable to you than sacrifice.” (Prov.21:3)  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

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On Courage

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 24 September 2018:

“Courage is when you are able to make difficult decisions, and pursue those decisions even when they’re not initially perceived by other people as correct.”  Edgar “Injap” Sia in “Life Principles” page 125.  flowersDeadSea

Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II of flowers abloom and abundant palm trees in the desert of Dead Sea area, April 2017.