Lessons in Life

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 03 August 2018:

“There are no mistakes in life, only lessons.  There is no such thing as a negative experience, only opportunities to grow, learn and advance along the road of self-mastery.  From struggle comes strength.  Even pain can be a wonderful teacher.”  (Robin S. Sharma, “The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari”, page 46.)

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*Photo taken by Nick F. Lalog II in April 2017 at the Church of Galligantu (Rooster) where St. Peter denied Jesus thrice while being tried by the chief priest and Sanhedrin outside the walled city of Jerusalem.

Parables Explaining Mysteries of Life

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer Thursday
02 August 2018, Week-17/Year-2 Ordinary Time
Jeremiah 18:1-4///Matthew 13:47-53

            Breathe on me, today, O God my loving Father as I go on my Sabbath rest.

            Keep me still in your divine presence.  Let me stop explaining the many parables you share in the Bible.  Remind me that the beauty of these parables lies not in my ability to explain its meaning.  As simple stories with deep realities and truths, parables actually explain us people, of who we are, presenting us the meaning of our lives and yearnings.

            Just like my being a clay in your hands, our eternal Potter.  So often, I marvel at its meanings as relayed to us by your prophet Jeremiah, relishing at its wonderful imagery and yet, here I am, always resisting your potter’s hands, especially when I have to be remolded.  Like the potter, you take everything into consideration everything about me, the good and the bad, so that the best would come out in the end.  But I always resist – because I insist on explaining its meaning than simply allowing myself to be covered by its rich meaning.

           How can I truly understand you and your parables when I refuse to be like a “scribe who has been instructed in the Kingdom of heaven” (Mt.13:52) to take into consideration all things that are both new and old in me to truly see the beauty of life explained by your parables?  Like the net cast into the sea, you continue to call all of us to serve and praise you in others.  It is our task to follow you, to submit ourselves to be shaped by your hands like the clay in the potter’s hand to eventually become your wonderful masterpiece.  Rather than grasping the meaning of your parables, let me be held and kept by your parables to see and marvel at the beauty of life in you.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022 . 

When We Are Rejected for Being Faithful To God

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer Wednesday
01 August 2018, Week-17/Year-2 Ordinary Time
Jeremiah 15:10,16-21///Matthew 13:44-46

            My dearest God and Father:  So often in life, I go into tantrums before you like Jeremiah when things get rough as I try to be faithful to you.  You have heard me many nights crying like Jeremiah, “Woe to me, mother, that you gave me birth! a man of strife and contention to all the land!  I neither borrow nor lend, yet all curse me.  When I found your words, I devoured them; they became my joy and the happiness of my heart, because I bore your name, O Lord, God of hosts.”(Jer.15:10,16)

            There are times my mind tells me to abandon your ways of peace, to get even with my enemies but you are always there in my heart, pushing me more than ever to intensely seek you in many difficult situations.  Like St. Paul, there is always that urge in me to boast “I am a fool for Christ!”(1Cor.4:10) as I try to understand and forgive, to love and to be kind with people whom I have expected to know me and accept me most.

            What a consolation to learn that most saints like Alphonsus Liguori whose feast we celebrate today also went through many rejections in life – even from his fellow Redemptorists like what happened with Jeremiah and your Son Jesus who were rejected by their countrymen.

            Sorry, my Lord and my God, for complaining, for the tantrums when I am rejected.  You know very well how like St. Augustine my heart is restless until it rests in you.  Despite the many rejections as I strive to be faithful to you, I feel like that man in today’s parable who found a treasure buried in a field, hid it again, and left to sell everything to buy that field.  Or, like the merchant who found the finest pearl and decided to sell everything he has so he could buy that precious pearl.

              Keep me strong, faithful Father, when there are many rejections that come along my way in following you.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022 . 

*Photo from Google.

The Mystery of Sin

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer Tuesday
31 July 2018, Week-17/Year-2 Ordinary Time
Jeremiah 14:17-22///Matthew 13:36-43

            Today I thank you Lord for your gift of St. Ignatius of Loyola whose feast we now celebrate.  His Spiritual Exercises has tremendously nourished me in experiencing your immense love for me.  This is particularly true even in my meditations concerning my sins.  Like the prophet Jeremiah, I have realized how this mystery of sin can also be a religious experience.  Every time I would meditate on my sins as recommended by St. Ignatius, I come to understand them more as turning away from you my Lord and Master, leading me into great sorrow of failing to love you.

             “Let my eyes stream with tears day and night, without rest over the great destruction which overwhelms the virgin daughter of my people, over her incurable wound.  If I walk out into the field, look! those slain by the sword, if I enter the city, look! those consumed by hunger.  Even the prophet and the priest forage in a land they know not.  Have you cast Judah off completely?  Is Zion loathsome to you?  Why have you struck us a blow that cannot be healed?  We wait for peace, to no avail; for a time of healing, but terror comes instead.  We recognize, O Lord, our wickedness, the guilt of our fathers; that we have sinned against you.” (Jer.14:17-20)

             But the greatest wonder of all is that even if I am deeply in sins like in the parable of the weeds among the wheat, you continue to unconditionally love me, Father, always giving me the chance to experience your love and mercy in Christ Jesus your Son so that I, in turn, may love and serve you, again, and again.  Amen.

             St. Ignatius of Loyola, pray for us!Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022 .
*Photo from Google.

That “Gut” Feeling About God

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer Monday
30 July 2018, Week-17/Year-2 Ordinary Time
Jeremiah 13:1-11///Matthew 13:31-35

            It is again a Monday, Lord, and we are all so busy going back to work, to the normal “grind” of the week.  And your words drive home to us something very close, literally speaking, hitting our guts, our loins:  “This wicked people who refuse to obey my words, who walk in the stubbornness of their hearts, and follow strange gods to serve and adore them, shall be like this loincloth which is so good for nothing.  For, as close as the loincloth clings to a man’s loins, so had I made the whole house of Israel and the whole house of Judah cling to me, says the Lord; to be my people, my renown, my praise, my beauty.  But they did not listen.”(Jer.13:10-11)

            How shameful indeed Lord, as we start each day, freshen up ourselves, put on our best clothes but deep inside, very close to our guts, we have “a good for nothing loincloth” – rotting and dirty that permeates deep into our very person.  That gut feeling that even if we pretend to be so good, so holy, deep inside, down in our guts, we know something is terribly wrong.

            Teach us to go back to you, to be more docile in the Holy Spirit, to follow our “guts” wherever you are leading us.  May we give your little voice, your words like the mustard seed to be sowed and grow in us so we can experience your glory, your beauty, and your goodness.  So often, we take little things for granted, forgetting that like the “loincloth”, these are the ones closest to us that truly give us comfort and confidence as a person, as a believer, as your follower.  Amen.

             St. Peter Chrysologus, pray for us.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022 .

*About the photo:  the flower of the mustard plant I have taken during our Holy Land Pilgrimage April 2017 at the Ein-Karem area on the way to the Church of the Visitation.

“Make It With You” by Bread (1970)

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Music//Week XVII-B//29July 2018
Seeing With the Eyes of Christ

            The theology and symbolism found in today’s gospel which is the beginning of the “bread of life” discourse found only in John chapter six has inspired me to feature this song by Bread in our LordMyChefSundayMusic.  Written by David Gates, “Make It With You” was #1 hit in August 22, 1970 for its lovely melody and sweet lyrics of a man offering not only his love but his very self to his dearly beloved woman.  As I have told you in our Sunday recipe for the soul, we have to see every person as a subject to be loved and cherished, not as an object to be possessed and used for personal ends like things.  When we see people with the eyes of Jesus Christ, there would always be plenty of bread for everyone because that is when we do our best “to make it with you” as this song suggests. Imagine Jesus Christ singing this love song to you as He continues to make you a part of His very Self, giving you the daily Bread of Life for this earthly journey to heaven.

Hey have you ever tried
Really reaching out for the other side?
I may be climbing on rainbows
But baby, here goes

Dreams are for those who sleep
Life is for us to keep
And if you’re wondering what this song is leading to,
I want to make it with you

I really think that we could make it, girl

Though you don’t know me well
And every little thing only time will tell
If you believe the things that I do,
And we’ll see it through

Life can be short or long
Love can be right or wrong
And if I chose the one I’d like to help me through
I’d like to make it with you

I really think that we could make it, girl

Baby you know that dreams there for those who sleep
Life is for us to keep
And if I chose the one I’d like to help me through
I’d like to make it with you

I really think that we could make it, girl

*Photo from Google Images, Video from YouTube

Seeing With The Eyes of Christ

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XVII-B, 29 July 2018
2Kings 4:42-44///Ephesians 4:1-6///John 6:1-15

             Beginning today for five weeks of Sunday we shall hear from the sixth chapter of John to discover and experience the mystery of the person of Jesus Christ.  Taking off from where Mark left us last week when Jesus and His apostles crossed the lake to rest at a deserted place, John now introduces us to the long but beautiful bread of life discourse of Jesus Christ:  Jesus went across the Sea of Galilee.  A large crowd followed him, because they saw the signs he was performing on the sick.(Jn.6:1-2)

             John’s gospel is also known as “the book of signs” wherein he arranged the major miracles of Jesus as revelations of His being the awaited Messiah or Christ.  But unlike the other evangelists, John preferred to call these miracles as “signs”, from the Greek “semeion”that denotes the existence and character of unseen, deeper reality.  The word miracle is from Latin “mirum oculis” or something that causes wonder when seen or beheld.  But a sign is deeper in meaning that John preferred to use it to show that the healings and other acts performed by Jesus are proofs and evidence that indeed He is the Christ.  In doing so, John is inviting us to see more beyond the healings and other acts by Jesus the deeper realities He wishes to reveal and share with us to be experienced too.  He wants us to shift our perceptions of persons and things to higher levels.  Like Jesus Christ, John wants us to see beyond material things for every detail can be a bearer of meaning, a sign of deeper reality and of Christ Himself.  Let us try:

             Jesus went up on the mountain, and there he sat down with his disciples.  The Jewish Passover was near.  When Jesus raised his eyes and saw that a large crowd was coming to him, he said to Philip, “Where can we buy enough food for them to eat?”  He said this to test him, because he himself knew what he was going to do.  Philip answered him, “Two hundred days’ wages worth of food would not be enough for each of them to have a little.”  One of his disciples, Andrew, the brother of Simon Peter, said to him, “There is a boy here who has five barley loaves and two fish; but what good are these for so many?”(Jn.6:3-9) 

             Imagine standing there with Jesus, looking at the great crowd of people coming.  It was getting dark, the feast of Passover was approaching and you were at a deserted place.  Then suddenly Jesus asks you like Philip where can we buy enough food for them to eat?

             Notice that if we examine the Lord at how He looked at the situation, it could lead to a shift in our perception from scarcity to plenty by first seeing the people coming as persons who need to be fed and cared for.  Jesus felt their hunger and thirst, seeing them as brothers and sisters.  It was an opportunity for Him to teach them some lessons about God.  Unfortunately, the disciples saw the opposite – it was a big problem.  Philip even viewed it as a nightmare when he told Jesus that even “Two hundred days’ wages worth of food would not be enough for each of them to have a little.”  The same thing with Andrew who found a boy with five loaves of bread and two fish not good enough for everyone.  They saw it as a hopeless situation.

             This is perhaps one of the main tragedies of our time when we begin to see and look at people as problems and mere statistics.  We have failed and even refused to see each one as a person to be loved and cherished!  Andrew did not even bother to ask the name of the boy and just brought him to Jesus with his bread and fish.  Exactly how in media these days people are objectified and made into things, referring to persons with demonstrative pronouns this and that or ito at iyan in Filipino.  On the other hand, objects are subjectified like food as “he/she’s delicious” or “masarap siya”.  Sometimes I fear that one day PAGASA might even ask us priests to baptize typhoons as forecasters keep on referring to them like a human being:  ang bagyon si Josie ay kumikilos pakanluran at may lakas siya ng hanging na…  The most glaring sign of how low we have come to regard persons came from Congress during the SONA when Duterte reiterated the relentless continuation of his anti-drug campaign based on his erroneous view that human rights and human lives are two distinct realities.  The list of instances continues when we take people for granted especially women and children when we give more emphases on things like money and clothes than persons.  There is always more than enough bread for everyone when we learn to stop looking at everyone as a commodity to be bought and used.  In the first reading, the prophet Elisha highly regarded those around him as persons who need to be fed with food that he had to remind his servant there was enough for everyone.  With God, there are always plenty of bread for everyone but to the devil, there is never enough that is why its first temptation to Jesus was to turn stones into bread, the temptation to always take people for granted.

             There is no doubt in the powers of Jesus Christ and most of all of His knowing what to do when in such difficult situations.  Inasmuch as we trust in His powers, we also need to see others as brothers and sisters who are beloved by the Father.  John mentioned in our gospel today the setting of this feeding of 5000 when the Jewish feast of Passover was near to show us the Eucharistic nature of the sign.  How wonderful to remember that during His supper, Jesus took the same gestures at the wilderness and gave the bread to His disciples, saying “This is my body which will be given up for you.”  Notice how there in the wilderness that the Son of God who had become man like us took on a body to remind everybody is a somebody and no one is a nobody.  We are all bread meant to be shared and broken with one another for we are all one Body in Christ as Paul reminds us today in his letter to the Ephesians.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022

*Photo from Google.

Allowing God’s Word to Grow and Bear Fruit In Us

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer for Friday
27 July 2018, Week-16/Year-2 Ordinary Time
Jeremiah 3:14-17///Matthew 13:18-23

            Every morning, Lord, I try to heed your word, “Return, rebellious children”(Jer.3:14).  This is especially true every Friday when we pray “misere nobis” of Psalm 51 for we are indeed like the people of Judah who heard your words through Jeremiah but refused to act on them until tragedy struck the the whole nation.

            Jeremiah is absolutely right, Lord.  We are rebellious children, like the seeds sown on the path, on rocky ground, and among thorns.  Our streets testify to this reality:  our traffic is horrendous, mirroring our life these days with everybody insisting on each one’s ways, without any tinge of courtesy and respect to everyone.

Motorists.  Passengers.  Pedestrians.  We have forgotten all about decency.  Worst of all are the law enforcers who have no regard at all with the laws and with the people.

            Thank you very much that in Jesus Christ your Son, you have never given up on us like the sower who never gets tired of sowing the seeds of your words into our hearts daily.  Help us to be fertile soil, welcoming your words into our hearts, our very being, not only by listening, studying and praying them but acting on them, allowing them to grow and bear fruit in us through our life of witnessing in acts of kindness and love.

           Your seeds are all good, Lord.  Let it grow in me today.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022 . 

Photo from Google.