Everything Is Passing

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday, 12 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 7:25-31///Luke 6:20-26
 

            Dear God our Father:  we are in the midweek, thank you for enabling us to reach this far.  There are still so many things to be done and accomplished, so many sacrifices and sufferings to go through while we savor some sweet victories and achievements, blessings and grace that have come our way.

            St. Paul reminds us that “the world in its present form is passing away” (1Cor.7:31) and nothing is permanent, like darkness and light, victory and defeat, including our very dear life.  The people who have gone ahead of us in this world like our departed loved ones have taught us this basic truth that nothing stays except change.  Grant them eternal rest, O God, while we who are left behind here on earth be blessed to choose and bear the little discomforts of life, of being poor before you,  hungering for your love, weeping for justice, patiently doing what is right amidst the evil of so many around us who woefully forget your day of judgement.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, sunset at Bgy. Taboc, San Juan, La Union, 05 January 2018.

When We Treat Others As Entity Than Family

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday, 11 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 6:1-11///Luke 6:12-19

            Merciful Father in heaven, we look up to you today praying for those people who have died in “9/11”.

            Until now we still feel the pain of how such a horrific event could happen on the first year of the new millennium.  More than 2000 years ago, you have sent us your Son Jesus Christ to bring us together as brothers and sisters, praying that we may all be one – “ut unum sint” (John 17:21). 

             Unfortunately, we would more often go on our own separate ways, refusing to see one another as a family but instead as an entity.  Like the Corinthians during the time of St. Paul, we could not resolve amicably our many issues and differences that end in tragedy.  St. Paul noted so well how we have forgotten our being sanctified by the Holy Spirit to abide with justice and respect in spite of our differences.

           Give us the grace, O God, to look more on Jesus Christ than with each other like the Apostles.  Give us that grace of seeing more of Jesus Christ like the Twelve so that in the process we may see our very selves being called not because we are qualified but out of your immense love for us.  Give us the grace to see our worth as a person amid our diversity in color and creed.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.  Photo from CBS.News.

Why Work?

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 10 September 2018:

“And unless you’re an astronaut, it’s not the work we do that inspires us either.  It’s the cause we come to work for.  We don’t want to come to work to build a wall, we want to come to work to build a cathedral.”

(Simon Sinek “Start With Why”, page 135.)

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Church of Dormition, Jerusalem, April 2017.

Choose Good, Choose What Is Beautiful!

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday, 10 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 5:1-8///Luke 6:6-11

            God our Father, it is Monday again.  For most of us, it is the start of another week of work or studies or both.  For some of us like our retired parents and friends, it is another week of emptiness in their empty nests.  For the sick, it is another week of patient waiting.  Every Monday, some of us dread the many decisions and choices we have to make for this brand new week.

             Give us the grace amidst these Monday blues to think more of the good things in life.  Give us the grace to choose what is good no matter how difficult it may be.  Make us positive of the many good choices available for us despite the many darkness and problems that surround us in the family, in our relationships and in our work or school.

             Like St. Paul in the first reading today, let us not give in to immorality, that “old yeast” within us, “the yeast of malice and wickedness; but, let us celebrate this new week with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth found in Christ Jesus.” (1Cor.5:7-8)  Every day is your day, O Lord, a sabbath – a day of doing good, of saving lives, of healing wounds (Lk.6:9) through Jesus Christ.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, Betania-Tagaytay, 23 August 2017.

“Take A Little Rhythm” by Ali Thomson (1980)

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Music//Week XXIII-B//09September2018
Opening To God

            Our gospel today tells us a beautiful story of a healing of a deaf-mute by Jesus Christ.  It is something that had hit me so close during our Mass this morning when one of the young people near our altar is a deaf-mute too.  He has been coming to our Eucharistic celebrations for about a year with his parents and elder sister.  I recently had a chance to talk to him when they came early for the Mass, inviting him to be an altar server when his parents interjected and told me about his condition.  I felt his sadness as he looked at his parents telling me his condition; and to cheer him up, I tried using hand signals to ask him if he might still want to become a sacristan as we are willing to make necessary adjustments for him.  During our Mass this morning when I saw him, I used some sign languages while delivering my homily so he could follow our reflections.  And I felt so blessed when I saw him smiled, as if telling me, he had understood my homily even a little.

            Unlike the blind, people with hearing disabilities are often left unnoticed if not ignored unless we are told or we discover their condition.  For our Sunday music, we pray for those with hearing disabilities as we thank God for the gift of hearing.  Here is Scottish singer-songwriter Ali Thomson with his 1980 hit “Take a Little Rhythm”, a feel good music, inviting us like Jesus in the gospel to be opened especially to those with hearing disabilities.Fr.NicanorF.LalogII,ParokyaNgSanJuanApostolAtEbanghelista, Gov.F.HaliliAve.,Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan. (Photo by author, Mines View Park, Baguio City, 17 January 2018.)

Opening to God

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXIII-B, 09 September 2018
Isaiah 35:4-7///James 2:1-5///Mark 7:31-37

            Whenever people come to me for counselling or spiritual direction, the first thing I ask them after listening to their story is“where is God in your experience?”  Most often, they pause, then nod their heads or look up, staring somewhere as they reflect on my question.  But when they get ready to answer my query, their faces would always glow with a sparkle in their eyes or smiles on their lips as if telling me “God has always been with me but I rarely noticed Him.”  A friend once wrote in his blog that “whenever we face difficult situations in life and there is that deafening silence, always remember that the same thing happens when there is an exam:  it is always silent but the teacher is always present.”  Today in our gospel, Jesus is reassuring us of the love of the Father, of His constant presence among us especially in the most trying times of our lives.  Jesus continues to reach out to us, always moving around, visiting us, staying with us.

            Again Jesus left the district of Tyre and went by way of Sidon to the Sea of Galilee, into the district of the Decapolis.  And people brought to him a deaf man who had a speech impediment and begged him to lay his hand on him. (Mk.7:31-32)

            There are two striking things about Christ’s healing this Sunday.  First is the location that happened in a pagan territory.  Mark rarely mentioned the place visited by Jesus unlike today when he specified the Lord going to the “district of Decapolis” or district of ten cities.  It was a region inhabited by pagans and foreigners considered outcasts by Jews who regarded themselves as the chosen people of God.  Jesus did not only reach out to His fellow Jews but even to their considered enemies like pagans and Samaritans.  In today’s gospel, Mark is telling us that Jesus also comes and stays with us in unfamiliar, foreign places and situations in life.  When we feel alienated and lost due to a failure or a defeat, when we feel alone and abandoned and hopeless because of so much pains and sufferings, these are our “Decapolis” where Jesus comes to heal and comfort us.

               The second striking thing about this healing is the manner how Jesus did it:  Jesus took him off by himself away from the crowd.  He put his finger into the man’s ears and, spitting, touched his tongue; then he looked up to heaven and groaned, and said to him, “Ephphata!” – that is, “Be opened!”  And immediately the man’s ears were opened, his speech impediment was removed, and he spoke plainly. (Mk.7:33-35) 

               Whenever Jesus comes to visit us and heal us, He would always separate us first from other people and even situations or locations to be totally with Him.  Here we find the value of “constant prayer” that remains very crucial in life even in this modern time  (Pope Francis, Gaudete et Exultate 147-157).  Likewise, Mark never bothered to tell us the name of that deaf mute because we are in fact that deaf mute too who live in our own worlds filled with so many thoughts and words of others and of ourselves except of God.  Jesus “took him off” from the crowd to teach us that important lesson of praying, of separating from the rest to create a sacred space for God in our daily lives where we experience Him personally and intimately – just the two of us, me and God – like our own experience with a friend or a spouse.

               Observe also how Jesus would usually heal by simply speaking.  With this pagan, Jesus not only “took him off” from the crowd but also had to touch his ears and spit to touch his tongue!  Imagine Jesus touching the deaf mute’s tongue with His own saliva, as if putting His personal seal to this unique healing!  Moreover, in this healing Jesus reminds us of the spiritual nature of His coming to us:  then he looked up to heaven and groaned, and said to him, “Ephphata!” – that is, “Be opened!”  And immediately the man’s ears were opened, his speech impediment was removed, and he spoke plainly.  What a beautiful image of the Son of God looking up to heaven, praying and making it known to all that this healing is the will of our loving and merciful Father.  Jesus came precisely to bring God closer to us and to bring us back to Him.  Of the four evangelists, only Mark would always report the Lord’s request not to tell anyone of a healing to stress the spiritual nature of His mission.  Jesus wants to be known as the Messiah, our Savior and not just like any miracle worker providing health and wealth.  Though it is true that there must be tangible signs of the salvation brought by Christ that we have to work for justice and peace in the society, we have to keep in mind also that effecting changes among peoples and the world are the works of God, not of humans.  We are mere sowers of the seeds but it is God who makes that seed to sprout and grow.

              The very word of Jesus to heal that deaf mute is what we also badly need these days, “Ephphata” or “Be opened!”  We need to be opened daily to cleanse our hearts of sins and selfishness.  Like the Pharisees and scribes last week, our faith and worship emanate more from our lips than from our hearts with all the troubles we are into right now as a nation and a Church.  To be opened to God is to keep God in our hearts through daily conversions, not being focused with outward appearances.  Openness to God is heeding the call of St. James in his letter to “show no partiality as you adhere to the faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ.”(Jms.2:1)  How sad that today the celebration of the Holy Mass has become more of a show, and worst, a propaganda tool in politics.  When the Mass is celebrated for political reasons, communion is shattered and destroyed because everybody – the priests and the congregation – are not looking up to heaven but looking down to people and to streets for their own solutions to a problem.  To open our hearts to God means we, especially us priests, must go away from the limelight and partisan politics, to be hidden from the crowd so that it is Christ who is experienced because only He changes peoples and nations.  Opening to God is allowing God to do His work in us and through us, always centered on Him and not to one’s self or anyone claiming to be a messiah.  May we open our hearts today to God so He would truly dwell in us.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, sunrise at the Dead Sea, 21 April 2017.

Charisma – Inspiration – Loyalty!

LordMyChef”TGIF”Quote, 07 September 2018:

“Energy motivates but charisma inspires.  Energy is easy to see, easy to measure and easy to copy.  Charisma is hard to define, near impossible to measure and too elusive to copy.  Charisma has nothing to do with energy; it comes from a clarity of WHY.  It comes from absolute conviction in an ideal bigger than oneself.  Energy, in contrast, comes from a good night’s sleep or lots of caffeine.  Energy can excite.  But only charisma can inspire.  Charisma commands loyalty.  Energy does not.”  (Simon Sinek, “Start With Why”, page 134.)

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Jerusalem, 19 April 2017.

 

Old Wine May Be Good, But New Spirits Got the Kicks

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday, 07 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1 Corinthians 4:1-5///Luke 5:33-39

            God our loving Father, another week of work and studies is coming to a close.  As we look forward to the weekend rest and recreation, may we not forget the many new things and new realizations we have learned and discovered this week about you.

            Let us accept the new meaning of fasting as well as the other new perspectives about you and your plans for us revealed in the coming of your Son Jesus Christ.  Let us not be fixated with traditions and rituals, even beliefs that have made us complacent in our relationship with you.  So many times in life we do not meet you in the present because we are always in the past, contented in holding on to that saying  “old wine is good” (Lk.5:39) that we miss trying new wines that have new and stronger “kicks” so to speak.
            Give us the grace like St. Paul of being a “servant of Christ and steward of the mysteries of God” (1Cor.4:1) by constantly examining our trustworthiness before you, cleansing and purifying our hearts for you alone.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

The Inverse Proportionality of God’s Glory

The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday, 06 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1Corinthians 3:18-23///Luke 5:1-11

            Your words, O God, today are a mystery, revealing the inverse proportionality of your glory!  As I think of the new day, I cannot help but smile that for us to be wise in this age as St. Paul reminds us in the first reading, we have to be fools, “For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in the eyes of God.”(1Cor.3:18-19)

            Like Simon Peter in the gospel, we have to be “shallow” by setting aside our expertise, our intelligence or brilliance as fishermen to obey instructions of Jesus the carpenter to “cast their nets into the deep”(Lk.5:4) to catch more fish.

            Whenever I look back in my life, I notice how often I felt empty when I tried to be more in control; but, when I surrendered myself to you in faith, that is when I felt fulfilled!  Give us the grace, O Lord, to heed the Apostle’s words, “Let no one deceive himself”(1Cor.3:18) because your ways and your glory are inversely proportional to ours.  When the world tells us to go up and rise, you tell us to go down to meet you.  When the world tells us to have more, you tell us to give and share to be filled by you.  And when the world tells us to be famous and popular, you tell us to be simple and hidden to discover true glory and majesty in you. Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,  Bulacan  3022.  Photo by the author taken last 23 February 2018 during our Stations of the Cross in a barrio.  See the warning against stealing or “dukot” with Christ below.

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Focusing On God Than With Self

The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday, 05 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1Corinthians 3:1-9///Luke 4:38-44

             We praise and thank you O God our heavenly Father in giving us today a modern saint who had lived in our midst, in our own time:  St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta.

             What is really joyful in celebrating her memorial today is the very fact you are real!  You exist, O God! because right among us in this modern time when everyone either discards you or disregards you, we have met and encountered – personally or on TV and media – a “living saint” whose focused was YOU among the poorest of the poor.  St. Mother Teresa had taught us in this modern time what St. Paul insisted to the Corinthians of his time that “we are God’s co-workers; we are God’s field, we are God’s building” (1Cor.3:9) and we have no any right to brag about our “spirituality” or “holiness”.

               True saints do not even know that they are holy because their only focus is YOU, in finding YOU among those living in the margins of the society.  Give us that same grace you have given St. Mother Teresa to imitate Jesus Christ to always go to the fringes to proclaim the Kingdom of God (Lk.4:44) in words and in deeds.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.  Photo from Google.
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