Loving Much

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday//20September2018//Week XXIV//Year II
1 Corinthians 15:1-11///Luke 7:36-50

            Dearest Lord Jesus Christ,

            On this feast of South Korea’s first priest-saint Andrew Kim Taegon and companions, I praise and thank you for your immense love expressed in forgiving my many sins.
             In your mercy, my sinful moments have become my deepest religious experiences too.  Whenever I find myself in grave sin, full of shame that I could not even call your name, you are always there – lovingly, patiently waiting for me.  Silently and very kindly, welcoming me to come near you even if I have not told you “I am sorry”  or “please forgive me.”
             You know me so well, and that’s the most amazing thing – that you still love me!
Like that woman in Simon’s house you have allowed to come to you, to cry at your feet and wipe them dry with her hair, kissing them and anointing them with ointment  (Lk. 7: 37-38), you just sat there, full of gentleness and mercy.  Though you knew who she was and, most especially of how the people there judged and condemned her, you remained silent.  But when you finally spoke out loud, your words were unbelievable: “Your sins are forgiven.” (Lk.7:48)
             So wonderful, O Lord, of you  reminding me always to strive harder to love and serve you among others because when I recall my many sins and feel shameful, that is also when I must feel grateful to you like Paul and that sinful woman.
             Teach me, Lord Jesus, to love much because much was forgiven of me, first by forgiving those who have hurt me so I could give them all the chances you have given me.AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
Photo courtesy of Mr. Raffy Tima of GMANews, Batanes After Typhoon Ompong, 18 September 2018.  Used with his permission.

The Way of Love, The Way of God

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday//19 September 2018//Week XXIV//Year II
1 Corinthians 12:31-13:13///Luke 7:31-35
            
            God our Father,
            so often in your mystery we get lost and end up within our own, selfish selves.
            We always have our own ideas and perceptions of who you really are.
            We have become the truth and the only way of knowing you, of being with you.
            Exactly what Jesus complained against the Pharisees and scribes:

            “To what shall I compare the people of this generation?  What are they like?  They are like children who sit in the marketplace and call to one another, ‘We played the flute for you, but you did not dance.  We sang a dirge, but you did not weep.’  For John the Baptist came neither eating food nor drinking wine, and you said, ‘He is possessed by a demon.’  The Son of Man came eating and drinking and you said, ‘Look, he is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’”(Lk.7:31-34)

           And there are so many instances of how we insist on who you really are,            refusing to take you as you are, as you reveal yourself to us in many different ways.
          We have become the yardstick not only of what is good but even of you, our Lord.
          Give us the grace to know and realize like St. Paul that no matter how great are we in speaking and doing things, if we do not love, we are nothing.
           LOVE is the only way to know you and to be with you.
           LOVE makes us known that we belong to you.
           AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.
Photo by the author, St. Paul Retreat and Spirituality Center, La Trinidad, Benguet, 18 July 2017.

Being One In Jesus Christ

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday//18 September 2018//Week XXIV//Year II
1 Corinthians 12:12-14, 27-31///Luke 7:11-17

            Dear God in heaven, we always call you “our Father” but we never really live as brothers and sisters.  Everywhere there is always separation and worst are the competitions among us.  We could not see our being one family, as one body with many parts because we are so focused in our illusions of greatness and importance in the world.  Everyone claims to be better than the other, forgetting that we need each other.

            Rekindle in us again the “one Spirit we were all baptized into one Body in Christ” (1Cor. 12:13) as one people, the sheep of your flock (Ps.100:3).

            Come and visit us again in your Son Jesus Christ.  Restore us to life like that young man in Nain you raised from the dead to be reunited with one another.  Let no color or status or belief separate us from one another so that we may be one in Jesus Christ your Son.  Most of all, take away our illusions of greatness to make us see the reality that we are not complete in ourselves without you and others.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.  (Photo from Google.)

Jesus Christ Among Us

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday//17 September 2018//Week XXIV//Year II
1 Corinthians 11:17-26, 33///Luke 7:1-10

            “Lord, do not trouble yourself, for I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof; but say the word and let my servant be healed.” (Lk.7:6, 7)

            So often we pray – or, actually recite this to you, O Lord, without realizing its beautiful meaning just before the Holy Communion.  Like the Corinthians being reprimanded today by St. Paul in our first reading, we have become so individualistic that in forgetting those around us we have also disregarded your presence in our midst especially in the Holy Eucharist.

             How sad when we eat, we simply fill our body with food and drinks, forgetting our souls to be nourished by the stories shared by those we dine with.  In this world of fast-food, we have lost the beautiful meaning of every meal, of being together and sharing not only food but ourselves with the persons seated with us.  Sometimes, we do not mind eating alone for as long as we have our most honored guests at the table, our smartphone or tablet.  Worst, we do not even pray to you at all, Lord, unmindful of your goodness while we are busy taking pictures of our food, almost worshipping it as a god!

             As we start our new week of work and studies, let us heed St. Paul’s call that when we come together to eat, we wait for one another like that centurion in the gospel who loved his slave so much, inviting Jesus to heal him even from afar.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo from Google, “Hapag ng Pag-Asa” painting by the late Joey Velasco.

“Good Times” by Bobbi Humphprey (1978)

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LordMyChefSundayMusic//Week XXIII-B//16September2018
Realizing Who Jesus Is

            We rejoice this Sunday that Super Typhoon Ompong is finally out of our country, hoping and praying that it would have not caused so much casualties and damages in areas it directly hit yesterday.  As we start the brand new week overcoming so many storms in life, here is American jazz artist Bobbi Humphrey’s “Good Times” from her 1978 album Freestyle to soothe your soul, supporting our Sunday reflection on realizing who Jesus is. It is only through His Cross can we truly realize and know who Jesus Christ is because it was there where He not only revealed Himself to us but also made us experience God’s immense love for us.  By suffering and dying on the Cross, Jesus did not remove but joined us in our pains and difficulties in life so that we may be one with Him in His glorious Resurrection.  In our relationships with others, it is only during hard times that we truly get to know who our friends are, who really love us because they are the ones willing to suffer with us and even suffer for us so we could have “good times” as Bobbi tells us in her lovely, jazzy song.  .

You and I have traveled life’s uncharted courses

We’ve been tossed around at many times on dark and stormy seas

But now the clouds are parting and the sun is shining through

It feels so good to know… you’re here with me,

 

To share the Good Times, that we waited for so long

I know the Good Times, will prove we weren’t wrong

To hold on to the dreams of how we knew it could be

We worked so hard at easin’ all the pain and misery

Until the Good Times had come ‘round for you and me

And now they’re here, now they’re here

 

I remember all the hard times when there wasn’t much to eat

And the longest coldest winter, when we didn’t have much heat

But we had all we needed with love enough to spare

Cause more than money we had what I knew would get us here

 

Bridge:   We fought and won each battle that we had to fight

Made it through the darkness when we couldn’t see the light

And deep inside I guess we always knew that we were right

To try and catch that star….’cause baby here we are. (Let’s share Good Times…. )

Realizing Who Jesus Is

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXIV-B, 16 September 2018
Isaiah 50:5-9///James 2:14-18///Mark 8:27-35

            We have a Filipino dictum that says you will never truly know a person until you live with him/her under the same roof.  It is very true, whether you are a married couple or a priest assigned to a parish with another priest.  It is in living together, in staying together especially on hard, trying times when we come to know the other person we are living with.  This requires openness like the command last week by Jesus in healing a deaf mute, “Ephphatha!”, “Be opened!”  Beginning today for three consecutive Sundays, Jesus asks us to be open as He brings us into the very core of His teachings and of His person as the Suffering Christ.  From Decapolis where He had healed that deaf mute last Sunday, He and the Twelve today continue their journey into the pagan regions reaching its capital city of Caesarea Philippi.

              Along the way he asked his disciples, “Who do people say that I am?”  They said in reply, “John the Baptist, others Elijah, still others one of the prophets.”  And he asked them, “But who do you say that I am?”  Peter said to him in reply, “You are the Christ.”  Then he warned them not to tell anyone about him.  He began to teach them that the Son of Man must suffer greatly and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed, and rise after three days. (Mk.8:27-31)

             Here we find anew the significance of Mark setting the gospel at Caesarea Philippi where a magnificent temple in honor of the Roman god Pan was located.  Recall how in telling us that healing of a deaf mute at Decapolis, Mark shows us Jesus would reach out to us even in the most hostile and alien situations we are into.  And now in this leading Roman city, Mark is reminding us how in our own time in the midst of all kinds of gods competing for our attention and allegiance is also Jesus Christ present, revealing Himself as the “Suffering Messiah” who would die on the Cross but rose again after three days for our salvation.  The invitation of Jesus remains the same, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.  For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the gospel will save it.”(Mk.8:34-35)  What a beautiful setting there at Caesarea Philippi like today when we are surrounded by so many gods offering us fame and pleasures while the True God willing to suffer and die for us, asking us if we still know Him, if we are still with Him.

             See the very simple presentation by Mark unlike in Matthew and Luke where Jesus praised Peter after identifying Him as“the Christ.”  Right after Peter’s answer, we find Mark with his usual “Messianic secret” when Jesus warned them not to tell anyone about Him being the Christ or Messiah.  Jesus, as well as Mark, wanted everyone to experience personally His being the Christ and not just any miracle worker who would give the people’s usual requests for health and wealth.  It is an echo of Christ’s groan last week to be opened with God’s thoughts, not with man’s thoughts like Peter always trying to avoid even negate pains and sufferings.  In revealing to us for the first time the sufferings He would undergo, Jesus is also inviting us all to live with Him, to stay with Him in His Passion and Death to experience His Resurrection.   We can never get to know Him and answer His question “Who do you say that I am?” unless we must first learn to be with Him at the Cross.  Jesus had to insist here at how He “must” suffer greatly because that is the reality of love:  without sacrifice, without giving of self, it is not love at all.  To truly love, one must be willing to give without ifs and buts.

             The Cross is the essence of the good news of Jesus Christ.  We need to ask for that grace from God for us to accept and embrace this Cross that has always been a scandal and stumbling block for everyone’s faith journey.  It is the key in answering His question “Who do you say that I am?” because it was on the Cross where Jesus Christ was fully revealed, the fulfillment of God’s “Suffering Servant” Isaiah had prophesied at the first reading.  Despite its violent tones, it is a beautiful reminder to us of the need for total reliance in God alone, of our need to always pray for that grace of God to free our thoughts of the things that go against His plans as Satan would always do.  To know who Jesus Christ is to join Him in His Cross.  When we refuse to do so, we not only fail in truly knowing Jesus Christ but also mislead others into thinking He is “John the Baptist or Elijah or one of the prophets”as the Twelve told Him at Caesarea Philippi.

             After writing this reflection last night, I saw the viral photo of a student in Atimonan, Quezon doing his homework inside their classroom (https://ph.news.yahoo.com/viral-student-stays-classroom-finish-052524025.html).  It is a very touching story of a student staying behind in their classroom to finish his homework because they have no electricity at home.  His teacher had asked him to go home because it was already 7:30PM with Typhoon Ompong threatening Luzon.  The teacher noted in his Facebook post how the student had “befriended” hunger after so many nights of staying behind in their classroom to do his assignments because it was more difficult to study at home using a gas lamp.  He said such students inspire him to continue teaching in public school no matter how difficult it may be. See how when we are willing to join Jesus Christ in His Cross, we not only get to know Him but we in fact meet Him as well, introducing Him to more people like that teacher and his student in Quezon.  After Jesus Christ’s revelation at Caesarea Philippi, He then made a U-turn to go down to Jerusalem to finally fulfill His mission.  Let us join Him, let us follow Him.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022

Photo by the author taken at Betania-Tagaytay, 22 August 2017.

What to do with our losses?

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 14 September 2018

“If there is any word that summarizes well our pain, it is the word ‘loss.’  We have lost so much!  What to do with our losses?  That’s the first question that faces us.  This is how the journey starts.  The question is whether our losses lead to resentment or to gratitude.

Mourning our losses is the first step away from resentment and toward gratitude in our celebration of the Holy Eucharist.   The tears of our grief can soften our hardened hearts and open us to the possibility to say ‘thanks.'” (Fr. Henri J.M. Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, pp. 28, 32, 34)

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The Uniqueness of the Cross

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross, 14 September 2018
Numbers 21:4-9///Philippians 2:6-11///John 3:13-17

            Our loving Father, today we celebrate the unique Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross.

             It is so unique because when we come to think of it, how could two pieces of wood that are very ordinary things in life became the means to express to us your immense love through Jesus Christ’s sacrifice on the cross?  It is so unique for how can two pieces of wood used to punish people now remind us of how you “so loved the world that you gave your only Son, so that he who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life (Jn.3:16)”?

               In the cross is hidden the power of your love to transform us to better persons.  In the cross is hidden the power to lead us closer to you with its vertical beam and to others with its horizontal beam.  In the cross is the power of good if we choose to embrace it and be subjected to you in Christ Jesus as our Lord and Master.

                What is most unique with the Cross, O God, is that underneath its ordinariness, that is where we see your glory and your majesty.  Underneath the Cross of darkness and gloom, that is where we see glimpses of light and hope.  And underneath the Cross of sufferings and death, we get to feel assured of the resurrection.

                Give us the grace, O God, to always embrace the Cross like your Son Jesus Christ where we can all be empty of ourselves to be filled with your Spirit to make your love visible in us.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, Fourth Sunday of Lent in our Parish, 11 March 2018.

To Love Like Jesus

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday, 13 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 8:1-7,11-13///Luke 6:27-38

            O loving Father, today we pray for those who have hurt us, for those who have wounded us so deeply, those we have loved but turned against us.  Most especially, we pray for those who have hurt us who are now asking our forgiveness.  It is very difficult Lord but it can be done in your Son.

            “Knowledge inflates with pride, but love builds up.  If anyone supposes he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know.” (1Cor.8:1)

            When we use more of our minds, loving especially those who have hurt us becomes difficult, even impossible.  We could not get over the pain and the hurts that are so bad enough, worsened by the accompanying shame and embarrassment brought on us when we were disregarded as persons that in turn lead us to think of revenge, of getting even, of demanding “an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.”

           Thank for the grace, O God, of enabling us to enter into the very heart of Jesus Christ’s teaching which is to love like Him, to love radically that means “loving our enemies, doing good for them, lending without expecting returns and being merciful like you our Father.” (Lk.6: 35, 36)  Thank you for the grace, O God, of enabling us to get into the very person of your Son Jesus Christ who is so poor, so empty of Himself with enough space to host everyone inside His heart with nothing to keep except with everything to give within.  Amen.  St. John Chrysostom, pray for us! Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, St. Paul-Mt. Pico Retreat House, Baguio City, 17 July 2017.