When Despair and Hope Come Together

LordMyChef “T-G-I-F” Quote, 05 October 2018:

“No loss can be mourned without some intuition that we will find new life… That’s how we generally approach the Eucharist.  With a strange mixture of despair and hope.  As we listen carefully to the deeper voices in our heart we realize that beneath our skepticism and cynicism there is a yearning for love, unity and communion that doesn’t go  away even when there remain so many arguments to dismiss it as sentimental childhood memories.”

Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, pp. 39-41.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Chapel of St. Jerome, Bethlehem, 18 April 2017.

Knowing Too Much, Understanding Too Little

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday//05October2018//Week XXVI, Year II
Job 38:1, 12-21; 40:3-5///Luke 10:13-16

            It is the first Friday of the month, the end our work week O God.  Some of us are rejoicing for the weekend, others are thankful for the many blessings of the past week but many are still complaining.  Sometimes we are like Job:  we complain a lot in life because we claim to know so much yet understand so little.

            “Have you ever in your lifetime commanded the morning and shown the dawn its place for taking hold of the ends of the earth, till the wicked are shaken from its surface?  Have you entered into the sources of the sea, or walked about in the depth of the abyss?  Have the gates of death been shown to you, or have you seen the gates of darkness?  Have you comprehended the breadth of the earth?  Tell me, if you know all…” (Job 38:12,16-18)

            O God, deflate our bloated egos when we feel to know all yet understand nothing in this life, when we complain and whine more than simply work and try our best, when we become cynical and pessimistic because things do not happen according to our plans.

            Most especially, take away our feeling of entitlement and open our eyes to the many blessings you have showered upon us that only a few have seen because we are like the people of Chorazin, Bethsaida, and Capernaum who disregarded the coming and the miracles by Jesus Christ. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.

Prayer to become like St. Francis of Assisi

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday//04October2018//Week XXVI, Year II
Job 19:21-27///Luke 10:1-12

            What a blessed first week of October, O God, when we celebrate so many great saints like Francis of Assisi today!

We rejoice O God for your gift of St. Francis who taught us to be an instrument of your peace.  We rejoice for St. Francis who taught us 600 years ahead of his time the oneness of your creation, the value of nature and environment.  We rejoice most especially for St. Francis who witnessed for us simplicity of life based entirely on trust in you.

This, O Lord, is what we ask from you:  the grace of complete trust in you like St. Francis and Job in the first reading that no matter what befalls us in this world, may we always trust in you alone, our Vindicator whom our “inmost being is consumed with longing.” (Job 19:25)  May we go like the seventy-two other disciples of your Son Jesus Christ into the world with nothing except YOU.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo from Google, http://www.sistermoongraphics.com/blog/2017/10/4/feast-of-st-francis-of-assisi

A Prayer to Revere God

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday//03October2018//Week XXVI, Year II
Job 9:1-12, 14-16///Luke 9:57-62

             God our almighty Father, each day when I begin my day with you, I always wrestle with the same issue:  like Job, my illusions about you overshadow your mystery.

             Job answered his friends and said:  “I know well that it is so, but how can a man be justified before God?  Should one wish to contend with him, he could not answer him once in a thousand times… If I appealed to him and he answered my call, I could not believe that he would hearken to my words.” (Job 9:1-3,16)

             Give me the grace, O God, to listen to you as YOU ARE NOT AS I WANT YOU TO BE.

             So many times my illusions about you prevent me from truly listening from what you are saying to me.  Teach me how to revere you, of allowing myself to be wrapped in your mystery so that I may recognize deep within me who you really are and what you really are as my Maker and not as I have “created” in my mind and imagination.

             So many times my illusions about you prevent me from properly responding from what you want from me that I end up doing my own will, not yours.  Like those people wishing to follow Jesus in today’s gospel, I have illusions of discipleship.  Teach me how to revere you by making me set aside my illusions of working for you, instead of doing your work by recognizing you deep within me as my Lord and Master.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.

True Greatness Comes From Being Little and Small

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday//02October2018//Memorial of the Guardian Angels
Exodus 23:20-23///Matthew 18:1-5, 10

            Dearest God our Father, today you give us this special memorial of the Guardian Angels to remind us anew that the way to true greatness is in our becoming like little children.  How we as children long ago loved praying, delighting in the rhythm of “Angel of God my guardian dear, to whom His love commits me here; Ever this day be at my side to light and guard, to rule and guide.  Amen.”

             Back then when we were so young, we trusted you so much, God that we tried hard to be good boys and girls so as not to sadden our guardian angels when we sin.  But as we grew up, feeling matured enough, we have disregarded you and our guardian angels because we have come to believe more, rely more, and trust more on ourselves.  We felt so independent and so strong, not needing any guidance from you or from angels you send us.  We thought that to be the greatest, we must be “free” from you and your holy will by asserting our “adulthood”.

             But, experience has taught us that real growth and maturity that lead to true greatness can only happen “unless we turn and become like little children.” (Mt.18:2)  What a paradox, O God, that the highest maturity possible for us all is in becoming like little children for that is when we also allow your angels in heaven to always look upon your face to direct our words and actions to your holy will. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

*Photo from Google:  “Christ Among Children” by German Expressionist Emil Nolde painted in 1910 now at the Museum of Modern Art in New York. See  https://hamonlibraryblog.org/2015/01/15/emil-nolde-christ-among-the-children/

 

On Tenacity and Grit

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 01 October 2018:

“If 99 out of a hundred people give up when they’re faced with rejection, you can distinguish yourself by being the one who keeps at it.  Other people might get mad and walk away after being rejected.  But be different.  Be tenacious. 

After you learn tenacity, grit can come into play.  Grit is the stamina to sustain continuous sacrifice in the face of continuous difficulty.” 

Injap Sia, “Life Principles” with Kristine Fonacier, page 114.

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Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes a day before Typhoon Ompong, 14 September 2018.  Used with permission.

On Being Small and Little

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday//01October2018//Week XXVI//Year II
Job 1:6-22///Luke 9:46-50

            We praise and thank you Lord for this brand new month of October!  Indeed a new beginning for us as we come closer to closing another year of many blessings from you though we must also confess that after eight months, we still have not matured that much before you.

            We are still so preoccupied with petty things, always disturbed on who is the greatest, who is the most powerful, who has the most.

             Teach us to emulate the modern saint and Doctor of the Church, St. Therese of the Child Jesus.  Teach us to live with her “little way” of loving and serving God in others by giving our very best.  Teach us to trust you more, to realize like Job that “naked we came forth from our mother’s womb, and naked shall we go back again.  You O Lord gave, and you O Lord has taken away.  Blessed is your name!”(Job 1:21) AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

“Caravan of Love” Performed by Daryl Hall and Friends at Live from Daryl’s House (2010)

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LordMyChefSundayMusic//Week XXVI-B//30September2018
Discipleship, Not Membership

            Sorry for the delay in our LordMyChefSunday music due to toxic schedules… after all it is still a Sunday with enough room to enjoy our beautiful choice:  “Caravan of Love” performed by Daryl Hall and his friends at his award-winning online show Live From Daryl’s House.  Daryl reunites with his longtime buddy and partner John Oates in this special show as tribute to the late musician T-Bone Wolke who suddenly died that year.  Composed and originally performed by the Isley Brothers in 1985, Caravan of Love perfectly fits our gospel this Sunday wherein we reflected on the importance of discipleship than membership.  The song invites everyone, regardless of color and creed to join a caravan of love where there is respect and kindness among everyone.  What is the use of claiming to be Christian or whatever if you do not practice justice and charity?  For Jesus, what really matters is how much we love each other as brother and sister….

 

Are you ready, are you ready?
Are you ready, are you ready?
Are you ready for the time of your life?
It’s time to stand up and fight
It’s alright it’s alright
Hand in hand we take a caravan to the motherland
One by one we gonna stand up with pride
One that can’t be denied
Stand up, stand up
From the highest mountain, valley low
We’ll all join together with hearts of gold
Now the children of the world can see
There’s a better place for us to be
The place in which we were born
So neglected and torn apart

Every woman every man
Join the caravan of love
(Stand up) stand up
Stand up
Everybody take a stand
Join the caravan of love
(Stand up) stand up
Stand up

I’m your brother
I’m your brother don’t you know
She’s my sister
She’s my…

Photo from Google.

Discipleship, Not Membership

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXVI-B, 30 September 2018
Numbers 11:25-29///James 5:1-6///Mark 9:38-48

            Due to the increasing prices of most goods like vegetables and meat products, lately I have been buying most of our groceries at a membership club that offers sales and discounts.  But I have also noticed something so strange, really odd with the people going to these Costco copycats that have become an “R&R” destination like a park or a mall, literally a “pasyalan”.  See how people – not really shoppers – take “groufies” or “selfies” on alleys stacked with imported goods while their grocery cart only have a handful of products readily available in a sari-sari store.  I have asked some of the staff there who told me how some people go to their exclusive, membership-only shop simply for bragging rights in social media like Facebook.

            And there lies the big problem even in our Christian way of life:  we are so concerned with our membership forgetting the more essential which is discipleship.

            At that time, John said to Jesus, “Teacher, we saw someone driving out demons in your name, and we tried to prevent him because he does not follow us.”  Jesus replied, “Do not prevent him… For whoever is not against us is for us.  Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were put around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.” (Mk.9:38-39, 40, 42)

            Today our gospel is reminding us that there can be no compromises with our Lord Jesus Christ who can be meek and stern, open-minded and demanding.  For Him, the sky is the limit in everything that is good, regardless of affiliations; however, when it comes with evil, the Lord is very clear too that there are no excuses.  What is wrong is always wrong.  Hence, we find in the following verses His famous teachings that “if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off.  It is better for you to enter into life maimed than with two hands to go into Gehennna, into the unquenchable fire.  And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off.  It is better for you to enter heaven crippled than with two feet to be thrown into Gehenna.  And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out.  Better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into Gehenna.”(Mk.9:43-48)  Of course, these teachings are not to be taken literally for Jesus was just using a literary device to stress His point on the need to be good by getting into the very core or root of our sinfulness.  One of the important things I have learned during our 30-day retreat came from our 93-year old Jesuit director, Fr. Arthur Shea who told me that once we understand our sins, then we sin less often.  That is also the point of Jesus:  understand why we commit sin, then we learn how to avoid committing that sin again.

            When we consider the other teachings by Jesus these past two Sundays, we go back to that crucial point in Caesarea Philippi where He asked us all, “who do you say that I am?”  It is not enough to simply know in our minds who Jesus is, to belong to His group, to be “in” with Him though that is the first step.  In fact, Jesus came so that we may all be gathered into one again under God our Father.  That was also the point of Moses to Joshua in the first reading when he declared how God would want to “bestow his spirit” to everyone even those not present in the meeting because we all belong to God.  In John, Jesus mentioned how He cares for the other sheep not in His fold to show that indeed He is the Good Shepherd (Jn.10:16) who gathers His flock. It is clear that we all belong to the Father through Christ in the Holy Spirit.  But that is just the starting point:  more essential than membership to Jesus is discipleship.
              Discipleship means professing Jesus is the Christ like Peter in Caesarea Philippi not once but every day in our life by denying ourselves, taking up our cross and following the Lord daily.  Discipleship means recognizing Jesus among the children and women, among the poor and suffering, preferring nothing for the love of Christ.  Discipleship means taking a U-turn from our sinfulness to truly follow Jesus Christ by being kind and just with the poor as St. James stressed in the second reading today.  This Sunday through the Eucharist, let us not simply renew our membership in Christ in Holy Communion but most of all reaffirm our discipleship in Him by going forth after the Mass to proclaim His gospel in words and in deeds.  A blessed week to everyone! AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022
*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes after Typhoon Ompong, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.

On Being Truly Sorry

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 28 September 2018:

“A contrite heart is a heart that does not blame but acknowledges its own part in the sinfulness of the world and so has been made ready to receive God’s mercy.” – Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, page 38.

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*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Batanes after typhoon Ompong, 17 September 2018.  Used with permission.