Something’s Gotta Give

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXVIII-B, 14October2018
Wisdom 7:7-11///Hebrews 4:12-13///Mark 10:17-30

            As Jesus was setting out on a journey, a man ran up, knelt down before him, and asked him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” (Mk.10:17)

            Each one of us can readily identify with this man because we all carry in our hearts the same question he had asked Jesus.  As we have reflected last Sunday, it is one of the FAQ’s of all time to Jesus next to the Pharisees’ “is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?”(Mk. 10: 2)  In our reflection last week, we also said how Jesus answered both questions by bringing us back to God who is our ultimate source and end in life.  Last Sunday, Jesus explained how God planned our relationships “in the beginning” when He created man and woman while today He tells us what to do to inherit eternal life.  So, what is to go back to God?

           First, going back to God to inherit eternal life is reading and studying the Sacred Scriptures prayerfully.  We always meet God in His words found in the Bible.  In enumerating to the man some of the commandments, Jesus reminds us to always consult and fulfill the Laws handed down by Moses in the Old Testament.  Moreover, the second reading today assures us that “the word of God is living and effective, sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating even between soul and spirit, joints and marrow, and able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart.  No creature is concealed from him, but everything is naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must render an account.” (Heb.4:12-13)   His words are living because God is living for He Himself is life, personally speaking to us in the Sacred Scriptures!

            Second, going back to God to inherit eternal life is acting on His words by forgetting one’s self in Christ, taking our cross to follow Him.  It is not enough to desire God, to read and listen to His words.  Remember how Herod also loved to listen to the words by John the Baptist and later of Jesus Christ but never had the courage heed them.  We need to have courage to go back to God because He would always direct us to places and instances we never imagined as Jesus told Peter before His ascension at Tiberias.  See how Mark presented to us today the progression of the teaching of Jesus to that man.  Before replying to his question, Jesus chided him, “Why do you call me good?  No one is good but God alone.” (Mk.10:18)  Christ must have seen something deeper with this man that right away He directed him to God through His Laws as the answer to his question.  The man was sincere with his question, unlike the Pharisees last Sunday who asked only to “test” Jesus.  The Lord must have seen him as a possible disciple being a “just man of Israel” who was molded by observance to the Laws, truly searching and waiting for the Messiah and day of salvation.  Then, in a dramatic fashion as recorded by Mark, the Lord challenged him to leave everything behind for God:  Jesus, looking at him, loved him and said to him, “You are lacking in one thing.  Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; then come follow me.” (Mk.10:21)

            Oh how we are very much like that man again, when our faces would fall as we walk away sad from the loving face of Jesus because we could not give up so many possessions we value more than God!  Going back to God means “something’s gotta give” – are we willing to let go of ourselves and of our possessions to inherit eternal life?  In 2003, Jack Nicholson and Dianne Keaton starred in a movie called “Something’s Gotta Give” that is about giving up one’s self, offering some sacrifices to experience real love, real peace and real joy.  All the more are these true if we want to inherit eternal life when we choose God more than anything!  This was the reflection of the author of the Book of Wisdom in the first reading:  he had realized while in a progressive and affluent society of the Greek world at that time that everything in life fades and passes away except Wisdom which is the personification of God:  “Yet all good things together came to me in her company, and countless riches at her hands.” (Wis.7:11)

            Last Tuesday, there were two massive gatherings of people in the country:  one at the Manila Cathedral where the relic of the incorrupt heart of St. Padre Pio was venerated and the other were at the various lotto outlets scattered throughout our archipelago.  The sights have reminded me of Charles Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities that perfectly describe them:  “It was the best of times, the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity… we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct the other way.”  What I just want to share here is the contrast of the scenes:  the people more concerned with life here on earth, of instantly becoming rich by hitting the one billion peso prize despite the odds of one in 40 million and those wishing for miracles who braved the sun and the rains for six hours just to get near the relic of the incorrupt heart of St. Pedro Pio.  There is nothing really wrong with betting in lotto and in venerating a relic; problem is when people see them as an end in itself, giving rise to “gambling mentality” and “spiritualization”.  The former is the attitude of some people wishing to get rich without working hard while the latter is a simplistic view on leap of faith.  Something’s gotta give if we want to be rich and be blessed!  But if we are wise, we would rather be working to inherit eternal life because it is something Christ has assured us already when He offered Himself on the Cross.“All things are possible for God” in the sense that He does everything to get us back with Him in heaven that is for everyone unlike winning the lotto that is so exclusive to just one or two winners.  How unwise that many of us would rather still do whatever is needed to win that elusive jackpot than have that assured salvation in Christ!

           When we come to consider everything, we realize that what we must really do to inherit eternal life is to be like children.  Twice in these past four weeks that Jesus had taught the need to be like children.  When we examine His life and teachings from His birth to His death and resurrection, everything in Jesus was being like a child, of abandoning His self completely to the Father like a child because “the kingdom of God belongs to children… whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.” (Mk.10:14-15)  Children teach us many lessons about giving up everything for the most valuable thing they can have.  This is the attitude Christ demands from us if we wish to join Him in His journey back to Jerusalem, back to God.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.  Email:  lordmychef@gmail.com

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Beware: Complaining Is Always Attractive!

LordMyChef “T-G-I-F” Quote, 12 October 2018

“There were no easy consolations.  It even seemed that he pierced their complaints with a truth they might have preferred not to know.  After all, continual complaining is more attractive than facing reality.  But the stranger was not the least bit afraid to break through their defenses and to call them far beyond their own narrowness of mind and heart.”

Henri Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, page 47.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, arched ceiling of the Our Father Church, Holy Land pilgrimage April 2017.

The Works of the Lord

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday//12October2018//Week XXVII, Year II
Galatians 3:7-14///Luke 11:15-26

            On this weekend, I join the psalmist in giving thanks to you, O Lord, for “great are your works, exquisite in all their delights.” (Ps. 111:2)  As I prepare myself for the welcome break of Saturday and Sunday, I look back with joy for all the wondrous things you have done to me this week.

           I am contented with my life, O Lord; there is no need for me to join those long lines to super lotto betting stations.  Your majesty and glory are enough to delight me of the beauty of life while your justice assures me of eternal rewards.  Most of all, you have always provided me with everything I need as you always remember your covenant forever (Ps. 111:3-6).

            Forgive me O Lord for the many times I doubt your fidelity, when I am like the Galatians who feel your works are not enough as if our works could amount to something at all.  Give me that strong faith, like Abraham’s, to believe in you and your promise.  Cast away my doubts, O Lord, so I may not be like the Jews of your time who thought you have the power of Beelzebul or asked you for signs to prove your divine omnipotence.  Make me whole in faith, hope and love in you, never be divided lest I fall prey to evil and sins. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. E-mail to lordmychef@gmail.com.

*Photo by Mr. Raffy Tima of GMA-7 News, Iceland Northern Lights, October 2018.  Used with permission.

The Spirit of Prayer

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday//11October2018//Week XXVII, Year II
Galatians 3:1-5///Luke 11:5-13

            Fifty six years ago today, your Holy Spirit O Lord breathed fresh air into our Holy Mother Church with the first session of the Second Vatican Council convened by Pope St. John XXIII whose memorial we also celebrate today.

             A man of great wisdom and wit with great love for the poor, St. John XXIII came to be known as the “good Pope” because the faithful saw in him your goodness, O God.  Even if his pontificate lasted only five years as he was already advanced in age when he became a Pope, St. John XXIII accomplished so much in his words and actions because he was evidently sustained with a profound spirit of prayer.

             Like St. Paul, he called on the entire Church to go back again to the Gospel Himself – Jesus Christ so we can be more responsive to the modern time.  But 56 years after the start of Vatican II, we have become “stupid” like the Galatians who, “after beginning with the Spirit, are now ending with the flesh?” (Gal.3:3)
 

             Help us O Lord, through the prayers and inspiration of Pope St. John XXIII to always go back to the spirit of prayer, to persist in asking for you, in seeking you, and knocking at your door so we could enter into your heart and be closer to you so you would take over us.  That is the true power of prayer:  it is not with what we say but how we say like in today’s parable.  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. E-mail to lordmychef@gmail.com.

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Praying With Courage Like Jesus

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday//10October2018//Week XXVII, Year II
Galatians 2:1-2, 7-14///Luke 11:1-4

             What a wonderful grace for your apostles to have witnessed you prayed, O Lord!  It must have been a great sight to behold, seeing you deep in prayer that they asked you to teach them how to pray.

             How sad, though, that we have taken for granted the only prayer you have taught us to pray, the Our Father.  It has become so ordinary, even mechanical for us.  Sometimes, we really do not pray your prayer but merely recite it, lacking courage and vibrancy to inspire others to pray.

            Give us courage, O Lord, a lot of courage to pray your prayer with more conviction by making “God’s kingdom come and His will be done” as we pray it. Give us courage to pray it not only begging for forgiveness to our sins but most of all to forgive those who have sinned against us.

            Like St. Paul in the first reading, give us the courage to boldly profess to everyone, even to our peers, the truth of your gospel.  Make us truthful in praying the “Our Father” so that when others see and hear us, they may ask us too to teach them to pray like the Twelve. AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. Send e-mail to < lordmychef@gmail.com>.

Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, the Church of the Our Father, Holy Land Pilgrimage, 19 April 2017.

Resting and Remaining in the Lord

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday//09October2018//Week XXVII, Year II
Galatians 1:13-24///Luke 10:38-42

            Your words today O Lord are so comforting, inviting me to rest in you, to stay in you like a child peacefully asleep on a parent’s lap or tummy.  Today O Lord I just wish to be comforted by your loving presence as I try to examine my past and present life.

            “O Lord, you have probed me and you know me… Truly you have formed my inmost being; you knit me in my mother’s womb.” (Ps.139:1,13)

            Like St. Paul, give me the grace to realize deep within me how you have personally called me for this mission in life that began “from my mother’s womb when you set me apart and called me.”(Gal.1:15)

            Teach me to be like St. Paul that before going to anyone or anywhere, I must first seek you within me, right inside my own wilderness, my own “Arabia” in a retreat to reconnect with you before “consulting flesh and blood.” (Gal.1:16-17) 

            So often, I am like Martha who is so “anxious and worried about so many things” (Lk.10:41), forgetting that to truly welcome you like Mary is to sit at your feet, listen to you as you speak for it is the only one thing needed in life that St. Padre Pio had also taught us in this modern time to simply “pray, hope and don’t worry.” AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022. 

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On Contentment

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 08 October 2018

“Dream big dreams, but learn to be content with less, so that you may reach contentment even before you achieve your big dream. 

Contentment translates to inner happiness; don’t confuse it or align it with your Big Dream, because you may find yourself disappointed.”

Edgar “Injap” Sia, “Life Principles” with Kristine Fonacier, page 130.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Dead Sea resort, April 2017.

Pleasing People or Pleasing God?

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday//08October2018//Week XXVII, Year II
Galatians 1:6-12///Luke 10:25-37

            Lord, this Monday I feel like St. Paul, wondering at why many people would rather believe and accept fake people who are so good at putting up a show just to please them.  Sometimes it can be so sad and even frustrating when most people would prefer clowns with all their gimmicks and antics than apostles and workers who are truthful and faithful to your Words.

“Am I now currying favor with human beings or God?  Or am I seeking to please people?  If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a slave of Christ.” (Gal.1:10)

             Like in the parable of the Good Samaritan, how sad that many people with authority and responsibilities are more concerned with the superficialities of their positions than the task of making you felt and known by those at the side of the road.

            Teach us, O Lord, to please you more than to please others by getting down from our high seats of power and pride like the good Samaritan so we may uplift those badly beaten down the road and forsaken.  Teach us, O Lord, to be more acceptable before you than with others by our willingness to stand for what is true and good, by standing firm at the foot of your cross always. AMEN.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

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“Get Back” by The Beatles (1969)

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LordMyChefSundayMusic//Week XXVII-B//07October2018
Get Back to Whom We All Belong, God

            As I have told you in my earlier blog of how I have lately been feeling nostalgic of so many things with an urge to get back to the past, to the people and places and other fond memories including music (https://lordmychef.wordpress.com/2018/10/06/get-back-to-whom-we-all-belong-god/).  Maybe that is the usual route we take in this journey in life when we get back to everything and everyone in our lives so that we could get back inside our hearts to finally get back to God in the end.  It is not being morbid but simply being true.  Anyone who had lived half a century probably realize this too when we suddenly feel missing so many things in life as we have been so focused with our many pursuits in life.  And that is when we begin to slow down, to feel everything in life, rediscovering the beauty of prayer, silence, and stillness.  When we get back to our inner self, we also get back to God and that is when we get back right on track with life again.  Sometimes the key is to stop thinking so much and to start feeling more to understand more (https://lordmychef.wordpress.com/2018/10/05/knowing-too-much-understanding-too-little/).

             Next to God and prayer, music has always been my most faithful companion in life.  It just happens during and after meditations, a song or a tune would suddenly pop inside my mind and would keep playing in there for a few days that I have often incorporated them in my homilies and reflections.  Just like our LordMyChefSundayMusic today which I have chosen to be the title of my Sunday homily.  From the Beatles’ 1969 hit “Get Back” that became the closing track of their 1970 album Let It Be before they split, let’s rock n’ roll!  Amen!!!

Jojo was a man who thought he was a loner
But he knew it wouldn’t last
Jojo left his home in Tucson, Arizona
For some California grass

Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back Jojo, go home

Get back, get back
Back to where you once belonged
Get back, get back
Back to where you once belonged
Get back Jo

Sweet Loretta Martin thought she was a woman
But she was another man
All the girls around her say she’s got it coming
But she gets it while she can

Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back Loretta, go home

Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged

Get back, get back
Get back to where you once belonged
Get back, get back, get back

Get Back To Whom We All Belong, God

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXVII-B, 07 October 2018
Genesis 2:18-24///Hebrews 2:9-11///Mark 10:2-14

             Lately I have been having some strange feelings that I think probably comes with age as well as with the reality of my mortality.  Don’t get me wrong.  It is not about being morbid or depressed or whatever.  It is just a kind of feeling wishing every day is a “throwback Thursday” when I want to listen to old songs, see old friends and visit old places I have been to.  It is like singing the Beatles’ “Get Back” over and over again because that is the actual direction we all take eventually in life:  we get back to ourselves, back to our roots, back to everything and everyone, and most of all, back to God.

             Jesus Himself in our gospel these past weeks has been going to the same direction.  From Caesarea Philippi, He took a U-turn to go back to Jerusalem to fulfill His mission which is to get back the people to God.  After identifying Himself as the Messiah, Jesus held special lessons about discipleship with the Twelve until they reached Capernaum the other Sunday where they stayed in a “house”.  Today and next Sunday, Mark tells us how Jesus entertained some questions from the crowd that are very relevant even to our own time, divorce and how to gain eternal life.  In both instances, Jesus would bring us all back to God the Father for the answers.

             The Pharisees approached Jesus and asked, “Is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?”  They were testing him.  He said to them in reply, “What did Moses command you?”  They replied, Moses permitted a husband to write a bill of divorce and dismiss her.”  But Jesus told them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts he wrote you this commandment.  But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.  For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.  So they are no longer two but one flesh.  Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate.” (Mk.10:2-9)

             There we have it from the Lord Himself, loud and clear.  Jesus wants us to go back to the very roots and cause of our relationships, God.  More than the fidelity of husband and wife to each other, our gospel is reminding us to always see God as the foundation of the ties that bind us together as persons and communities.  More than the law and human situation, Jesus went back farther to God as the ultimate root and origin of everything in this life in explaining divorce to the Pharisees.  This explains why our first reading is taken from Genesis where it is shown how the sages of Old Testament reflected on the realities of life:  that everything happened because God the Creator willed it so “in the beginning.”  We came into being because of God, “male and female he created them.”  Most of all, it is very clear that it is not man who caused God to create woman for she has always been a part of His plan because “it is not good for man to be alone.  I will make a suitable partner for him.” (Gen. 2:18)  It is also God who is the reason why we get attracted and desire to enter into communion with others most especially in getting married.  Our relationships in general and marriage in particular are a part of the grand design of God; we come together because of God.  And we can only recover our original unity in God through man and woman, “that is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one flesh.” (Gen.2:24)  Human relationships must be governed by God and not by humans.  We also find in these short passages the beautiful vision of marriage and sexuality that drives man and woman toward union, not the impulse of a carnal and uncontrollable blind instinct.

            So many things happen that mar and destroy our relationships.  People change, even those in our family, in our circle of friends, and most especially with spouses.  Without being simplistic about it, Jesus tells us that one reason for this is “the hardness of our hearts” when we are filled with ego, when we refuse to love.  That imagery by the Lord of hardened hearts is timely as we venerate tomorrow the relic of the incorrupt heart of St. Padre Pio at UST.  I am not surprised that St. Padre Pio’s heart has remained incorrupt with the holiness he had shown especially with the sick and the sinners that his heart must be so filled with love of God.  A heart without love is a dead heart, a heart of stone that is hard and selfish.  And this is why I am not also surprised at all when arrogant creatures like politicians caught on camera shamelessly demeaning people later complained of chest pains after going viral in social media.  They are like the Pharisees with hardened hearts.

 A good friend recently wrote in his blog a beautiful reflection about the South African term “Ubuntu” that is very appropriate for us today as we experience divisions due to politics (https://relativejoyforyou.wordpress.com/2018/10/05/ubuntu/).  Ubuntu is the belief that we are defined by our compassion and kindness towards others.  According to my friend, there can be many other ways of defining or describing “Ubuntu” which I believe also rests on God being the very root and foundation of our relationships.  I recalled his blog as I prayed on our gospel this Sunday, especially that part when “in the house the disciples questioned Jesus about this.” (Mk.10:10)  I wish to direct your attention more to that going back in the house where they were staying which is for me an imagery of Jesus bringing back the Twelve into the very heart of God to explain the evils men do to destroy our wonderful ties and relationships.  And for the second time in three weeks, Jesus again would call children to tell the Twelve that “the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.  Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.” (Mk.10:14-15)

                 Ubuntu is also a call to go back to our being children.  Two Sundays ago we reflected that the way we relate with children and women reflects our true relationship with God.  After explaining the nature of our relationships being rooted in God, Jesus “inside the house” again showed that the children embody the reality of our communion because only they can show true kindness and compassion, love and trust with one another.  Children have that unique gift of being “aware” of our single origin and unity in God.  By embracing children, Jesus is again inviting us to go back to the pristine image of holiness, of oneness with God and with others when we regard everyone as “brothers and sisters” in Christ. (Heb.2:11)  AMEN. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022

Photo by Fr. Nick f. Lalog II, Wailing Wall of Jerusalem, April 2017.