“Good Times” by Bobbi Humphprey (1978)

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LordMyChefSundayMusic//Week XXIII-B//16September2018
Realizing Who Jesus Is

            We rejoice this Sunday that Super Typhoon Ompong is finally out of our country, hoping and praying that it would have not caused so much casualties and damages in areas it directly hit yesterday.  As we start the brand new week overcoming so many storms in life, here is American jazz artist Bobbi Humphrey’s “Good Times” from her 1978 album Freestyle to soothe your soul, supporting our Sunday reflection on realizing who Jesus is. It is only through His Cross can we truly realize and know who Jesus Christ is because it was there where He not only revealed Himself to us but also made us experience God’s immense love for us.  By suffering and dying on the Cross, Jesus did not remove but joined us in our pains and difficulties in life so that we may be one with Him in His glorious Resurrection.  In our relationships with others, it is only during hard times that we truly get to know who our friends are, who really love us because they are the ones willing to suffer with us and even suffer for us so we could have “good times” as Bobbi tells us in her lovely, jazzy song.  .

You and I have traveled life’s uncharted courses

We’ve been tossed around at many times on dark and stormy seas

But now the clouds are parting and the sun is shining through

It feels so good to know… you’re here with me,

 

To share the Good Times, that we waited for so long

I know the Good Times, will prove we weren’t wrong

To hold on to the dreams of how we knew it could be

We worked so hard at easin’ all the pain and misery

Until the Good Times had come ‘round for you and me

And now they’re here, now they’re here

 

I remember all the hard times when there wasn’t much to eat

And the longest coldest winter, when we didn’t have much heat

But we had all we needed with love enough to spare

Cause more than money we had what I knew would get us here

 

Bridge:   We fought and won each battle that we had to fight

Made it through the darkness when we couldn’t see the light

And deep inside I guess we always knew that we were right

To try and catch that star….’cause baby here we are. (Let’s share Good Times…. )

What to do with our losses?

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 14 September 2018

“If there is any word that summarizes well our pain, it is the word ‘loss.’  We have lost so much!  What to do with our losses?  That’s the first question that faces us.  This is how the journey starts.  The question is whether our losses lead to resentment or to gratitude.

Mourning our losses is the first step away from resentment and toward gratitude in our celebration of the Holy Eucharist.   The tears of our grief can soften our hardened hearts and open us to the possibility to say ‘thanks.'” (Fr. Henri J.M. Nouwen, “With Burning Hearts”, pp. 28, 32, 34)

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To Love Like Jesus

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday, 13 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 8:1-7,11-13///Luke 6:27-38

            O loving Father, today we pray for those who have hurt us, for those who have wounded us so deeply, those we have loved but turned against us.  Most especially, we pray for those who have hurt us who are now asking our forgiveness.  It is very difficult Lord but it can be done in your Son.

            “Knowledge inflates with pride, but love builds up.  If anyone supposes he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know.” (1Cor.8:1)

            When we use more of our minds, loving especially those who have hurt us becomes difficult, even impossible.  We could not get over the pain and the hurts that are so bad enough, worsened by the accompanying shame and embarrassment brought on us when we were disregarded as persons that in turn lead us to think of revenge, of getting even, of demanding “an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.”

           Thank for the grace, O God, of enabling us to enter into the very heart of Jesus Christ’s teaching which is to love like Him, to love radically that means “loving our enemies, doing good for them, lending without expecting returns and being merciful like you our Father.” (Lk.6: 35, 36)  Thank you for the grace, O God, of enabling us to get into the very person of your Son Jesus Christ who is so poor, so empty of Himself with enough space to host everyone inside His heart with nothing to keep except with everything to give within.  Amen.  St. John Chrysostom, pray for us! Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, St. Paul-Mt. Pico Retreat House, Baguio City, 17 July 2017.

When We Treat Others As Entity Than Family

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday, 11 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 6:1-11///Luke 6:12-19

            Merciful Father in heaven, we look up to you today praying for those people who have died in “9/11”.

            Until now we still feel the pain of how such a horrific event could happen on the first year of the new millennium.  More than 2000 years ago, you have sent us your Son Jesus Christ to bring us together as brothers and sisters, praying that we may all be one – “ut unum sint” (John 17:21). 

             Unfortunately, we would more often go on our own separate ways, refusing to see one another as a family but instead as an entity.  Like the Corinthians during the time of St. Paul, we could not resolve amicably our many issues and differences that end in tragedy.  St. Paul noted so well how we have forgotten our being sanctified by the Holy Spirit to abide with justice and respect in spite of our differences.

           Give us the grace, O God, to look more on Jesus Christ than with each other like the Apostles.  Give us that grace of seeing more of Jesus Christ like the Twelve so that in the process we may see our very selves being called not because we are qualified but out of your immense love for us.  Give us the grace to see our worth as a person amid our diversity in color and creed.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.  Photo from CBS.News.

Choose Good, Choose What Is Beautiful!

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday, 10 September 2018, Week XXIII, Year II
1 Corinthians 5:1-8///Luke 6:6-11

            God our Father, it is Monday again.  For most of us, it is the start of another week of work or studies or both.  For some of us like our retired parents and friends, it is another week of emptiness in their empty nests.  For the sick, it is another week of patient waiting.  Every Monday, some of us dread the many decisions and choices we have to make for this brand new week.

             Give us the grace amidst these Monday blues to think more of the good things in life.  Give us the grace to choose what is good no matter how difficult it may be.  Make us positive of the many good choices available for us despite the many darkness and problems that surround us in the family, in our relationships and in our work or school.

             Like St. Paul in the first reading today, let us not give in to immorality, that “old yeast” within us, “the yeast of malice and wickedness; but, let us celebrate this new week with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth found in Christ Jesus.” (1Cor.5:7-8)  Every day is your day, O Lord, a sabbath – a day of doing good, of saving lives, of healing wounds (Lk.6:9) through Jesus Christ.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, Betania-Tagaytay, 23 August 2017.

Opening to God

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXIII-B, 09 September 2018
Isaiah 35:4-7///James 2:1-5///Mark 7:31-37

            Whenever people come to me for counselling or spiritual direction, the first thing I ask them after listening to their story is“where is God in your experience?”  Most often, they pause, then nod their heads or look up, staring somewhere as they reflect on my question.  But when they get ready to answer my query, their faces would always glow with a sparkle in their eyes or smiles on their lips as if telling me “God has always been with me but I rarely noticed Him.”  A friend once wrote in his blog that “whenever we face difficult situations in life and there is that deafening silence, always remember that the same thing happens when there is an exam:  it is always silent but the teacher is always present.”  Today in our gospel, Jesus is reassuring us of the love of the Father, of His constant presence among us especially in the most trying times of our lives.  Jesus continues to reach out to us, always moving around, visiting us, staying with us.

            Again Jesus left the district of Tyre and went by way of Sidon to the Sea of Galilee, into the district of the Decapolis.  And people brought to him a deaf man who had a speech impediment and begged him to lay his hand on him. (Mk.7:31-32)

            There are two striking things about Christ’s healing this Sunday.  First is the location that happened in a pagan territory.  Mark rarely mentioned the place visited by Jesus unlike today when he specified the Lord going to the “district of Decapolis” or district of ten cities.  It was a region inhabited by pagans and foreigners considered outcasts by Jews who regarded themselves as the chosen people of God.  Jesus did not only reach out to His fellow Jews but even to their considered enemies like pagans and Samaritans.  In today’s gospel, Mark is telling us that Jesus also comes and stays with us in unfamiliar, foreign places and situations in life.  When we feel alienated and lost due to a failure or a defeat, when we feel alone and abandoned and hopeless because of so much pains and sufferings, these are our “Decapolis” where Jesus comes to heal and comfort us.

               The second striking thing about this healing is the manner how Jesus did it:  Jesus took him off by himself away from the crowd.  He put his finger into the man’s ears and, spitting, touched his tongue; then he looked up to heaven and groaned, and said to him, “Ephphata!” – that is, “Be opened!”  And immediately the man’s ears were opened, his speech impediment was removed, and he spoke plainly. (Mk.7:33-35) 

               Whenever Jesus comes to visit us and heal us, He would always separate us first from other people and even situations or locations to be totally with Him.  Here we find the value of “constant prayer” that remains very crucial in life even in this modern time  (Pope Francis, Gaudete et Exultate 147-157).  Likewise, Mark never bothered to tell us the name of that deaf mute because we are in fact that deaf mute too who live in our own worlds filled with so many thoughts and words of others and of ourselves except of God.  Jesus “took him off” from the crowd to teach us that important lesson of praying, of separating from the rest to create a sacred space for God in our daily lives where we experience Him personally and intimately – just the two of us, me and God – like our own experience with a friend or a spouse.

               Observe also how Jesus would usually heal by simply speaking.  With this pagan, Jesus not only “took him off” from the crowd but also had to touch his ears and spit to touch his tongue!  Imagine Jesus touching the deaf mute’s tongue with His own saliva, as if putting His personal seal to this unique healing!  Moreover, in this healing Jesus reminds us of the spiritual nature of His coming to us:  then he looked up to heaven and groaned, and said to him, “Ephphata!” – that is, “Be opened!”  And immediately the man’s ears were opened, his speech impediment was removed, and he spoke plainly.  What a beautiful image of the Son of God looking up to heaven, praying and making it known to all that this healing is the will of our loving and merciful Father.  Jesus came precisely to bring God closer to us and to bring us back to Him.  Of the four evangelists, only Mark would always report the Lord’s request not to tell anyone of a healing to stress the spiritual nature of His mission.  Jesus wants to be known as the Messiah, our Savior and not just like any miracle worker providing health and wealth.  Though it is true that there must be tangible signs of the salvation brought by Christ that we have to work for justice and peace in the society, we have to keep in mind also that effecting changes among peoples and the world are the works of God, not of humans.  We are mere sowers of the seeds but it is God who makes that seed to sprout and grow.

              The very word of Jesus to heal that deaf mute is what we also badly need these days, “Ephphata” or “Be opened!”  We need to be opened daily to cleanse our hearts of sins and selfishness.  Like the Pharisees and scribes last week, our faith and worship emanate more from our lips than from our hearts with all the troubles we are into right now as a nation and a Church.  To be opened to God is to keep God in our hearts through daily conversions, not being focused with outward appearances.  Openness to God is heeding the call of St. James in his letter to “show no partiality as you adhere to the faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ.”(Jms.2:1)  How sad that today the celebration of the Holy Mass has become more of a show, and worst, a propaganda tool in politics.  When the Mass is celebrated for political reasons, communion is shattered and destroyed because everybody – the priests and the congregation – are not looking up to heaven but looking down to people and to streets for their own solutions to a problem.  To open our hearts to God means we, especially us priests, must go away from the limelight and partisan politics, to be hidden from the crowd so that it is Christ who is experienced because only He changes peoples and nations.  Opening to God is allowing God to do His work in us and through us, always centered on Him and not to one’s self or anyone claiming to be a messiah.  May we open our hearts today to God so He would truly dwell in us.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, sunrise at the Dead Sea, 21 April 2017.

Value of Time

LordMyChef “TGIF” Quote, 17 August 2018:

“You must be ruthless with your time.  Learn to say no.  Having the courage to say no to the little things in life will give you the power to say yes to the big things… Ironically, people will respect you more when they see that you are a person who values his time.  They will realize that your time is precious and they will value it.”  Robin S. Sharma, “The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari”, page 166.

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Sacred Heart Novitiate (Novaliches), July 4-6, 2018.

Our Being of Forgetfulness

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II at the Sacred Heart Novitiate (Novaliches), July 4-6, 2018.
The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday, 17 August 2018, Week XIX, Year II
Ezekiel 16:59-63///Matthew 19:3-12

            Another question again, O Lord Jesus Christ from us:  “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” (Mt.19:3)

            Another question from us not seeking answers but justification for our own beliefs; another question not seeking the truth but a changing of order and rules.

           Sorry Lord for the many times when we clearly know the answers deep in our hearts yet we keep on pretending we are confused or simply could not get it.  Or, would not want to accept it at all because of the “hardness of our hearts.”  It has always been like that as you beautifully narrated to Ezekiel of your experience with Israel who was like a little girl you have cared for since birth, lavished with so many good things until you took her as your bride and then disregarded your covenant.

           A philosopher explained that we are all beings of forgetfulness that too often we lead inauthentic lives. Probably.  I don’t remember.

           But, one thing I always remember, O Lord, is that despite all our infidelities and hard-headedness, you have remained faithful, always reminding us to remember your love, your covenant.  Give us the grace to “re-member” you, to make you a member and part of our present lives again.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II,Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022 . 

 

“Lost Stars” (2013), OST “Begin Again”

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Music//Week XVIII-B//05August 2018
Meaningful Existence in Christ, the Bread of Life

             To fully appreciate this lovely song, try watching the movie “Begin Again” with your family and friends this Sunday.  Just stay home, be together to feel each other’s presence and find Christ among you.  In our Sunday reflection today, we said that “Sometimes, we feel we truly love God and those around us but when we examine our priorities in life, we do not really love that much because we fail and even refuse to care, recognize and look for the person. What we easily and often look for is the object, the things we can have to fill us, even bloat us.”  It is the same point of view of this song “Lost Stars” wherein we never stop searching for meaning in life, trying to lead others out of darkness to more fulfilment in life.  “Begin Again” shows us how true are the teachings of Jesus in the gospel today, that we must search and aspire for the higher things in life, not to be consigned with what the world offers that bloat our egos.  Life’s direction calls us to a continuous laboring in love, of always finding and giving meaning in our lives in God.  I have underlined some lyrics that are so related with the gospel today too.

Please don’t see just a girl caught up in dreams and fantasies
Please see me reaching out for someone I can’t see
Take my hand, let’s see where we wake up tomorrow
Best laid plans, sometimes are just a one night stand
I’ll be damned, Cupid’s demanding back his arrow
So let’s get drunk on our tears

And God, tell us the reason youth is wasted on the young
It’s hunting season and this lamb is on the run
We’re searching for meaning
But are we all lost stars?
Trying to light up the dark

Who are we? Just a speck of dust within the galaxy
Woe is me, if we’re not careful turns into reality

Don’t you dare let our best memories bring you sorrow
Yesterday I saw a lion kiss a deer
Turn the page, maybe we’ll find a brand new ending
Where we’re dancing in our tears…

*You may follow the lyrics on the music video.  Enjoy!