Opening to God

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Recipe, Week XXIII-B, 09 September 2018
Isaiah 35:4-7///James 2:1-5///Mark 7:31-37

            Whenever people come to me for counselling or spiritual direction, the first thing I ask them after listening to their story is“where is God in your experience?”  Most often, they pause, then nod their heads or look up, staring somewhere as they reflect on my question.  But when they get ready to answer my query, their faces would always glow with a sparkle in their eyes or smiles on their lips as if telling me “God has always been with me but I rarely noticed Him.”  A friend once wrote in his blog that “whenever we face difficult situations in life and there is that deafening silence, always remember that the same thing happens when there is an exam:  it is always silent but the teacher is always present.”  Today in our gospel, Jesus is reassuring us of the love of the Father, of His constant presence among us especially in the most trying times of our lives.  Jesus continues to reach out to us, always moving around, visiting us, staying with us.

            Again Jesus left the district of Tyre and went by way of Sidon to the Sea of Galilee, into the district of the Decapolis.  And people brought to him a deaf man who had a speech impediment and begged him to lay his hand on him. (Mk.7:31-32)

            There are two striking things about Christ’s healing this Sunday.  First is the location that happened in a pagan territory.  Mark rarely mentioned the place visited by Jesus unlike today when he specified the Lord going to the “district of Decapolis” or district of ten cities.  It was a region inhabited by pagans and foreigners considered outcasts by Jews who regarded themselves as the chosen people of God.  Jesus did not only reach out to His fellow Jews but even to their considered enemies like pagans and Samaritans.  In today’s gospel, Mark is telling us that Jesus also comes and stays with us in unfamiliar, foreign places and situations in life.  When we feel alienated and lost due to a failure or a defeat, when we feel alone and abandoned and hopeless because of so much pains and sufferings, these are our “Decapolis” where Jesus comes to heal and comfort us.

               The second striking thing about this healing is the manner how Jesus did it:  Jesus took him off by himself away from the crowd.  He put his finger into the man’s ears and, spitting, touched his tongue; then he looked up to heaven and groaned, and said to him, “Ephphata!” – that is, “Be opened!”  And immediately the man’s ears were opened, his speech impediment was removed, and he spoke plainly. (Mk.7:33-35) 

               Whenever Jesus comes to visit us and heal us, He would always separate us first from other people and even situations or locations to be totally with Him.  Here we find the value of “constant prayer” that remains very crucial in life even in this modern time  (Pope Francis, Gaudete et Exultate 147-157).  Likewise, Mark never bothered to tell us the name of that deaf mute because we are in fact that deaf mute too who live in our own worlds filled with so many thoughts and words of others and of ourselves except of God.  Jesus “took him off” from the crowd to teach us that important lesson of praying, of separating from the rest to create a sacred space for God in our daily lives where we experience Him personally and intimately – just the two of us, me and God – like our own experience with a friend or a spouse.

               Observe also how Jesus would usually heal by simply speaking.  With this pagan, Jesus not only “took him off” from the crowd but also had to touch his ears and spit to touch his tongue!  Imagine Jesus touching the deaf mute’s tongue with His own saliva, as if putting His personal seal to this unique healing!  Moreover, in this healing Jesus reminds us of the spiritual nature of His coming to us:  then he looked up to heaven and groaned, and said to him, “Ephphata!” – that is, “Be opened!”  And immediately the man’s ears were opened, his speech impediment was removed, and he spoke plainly.  What a beautiful image of the Son of God looking up to heaven, praying and making it known to all that this healing is the will of our loving and merciful Father.  Jesus came precisely to bring God closer to us and to bring us back to Him.  Of the four evangelists, only Mark would always report the Lord’s request not to tell anyone of a healing to stress the spiritual nature of His mission.  Jesus wants to be known as the Messiah, our Savior and not just like any miracle worker providing health and wealth.  Though it is true that there must be tangible signs of the salvation brought by Christ that we have to work for justice and peace in the society, we have to keep in mind also that effecting changes among peoples and the world are the works of God, not of humans.  We are mere sowers of the seeds but it is God who makes that seed to sprout and grow.

              The very word of Jesus to heal that deaf mute is what we also badly need these days, “Ephphata” or “Be opened!”  We need to be opened daily to cleanse our hearts of sins and selfishness.  Like the Pharisees and scribes last week, our faith and worship emanate more from our lips than from our hearts with all the troubles we are into right now as a nation and a Church.  To be opened to God is to keep God in our hearts through daily conversions, not being focused with outward appearances.  Openness to God is heeding the call of St. James in his letter to “show no partiality as you adhere to the faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ.”(Jms.2:1)  How sad that today the celebration of the Holy Mass has become more of a show, and worst, a propaganda tool in politics.  When the Mass is celebrated for political reasons, communion is shattered and destroyed because everybody – the priests and the congregation – are not looking up to heaven but looking down to people and to streets for their own solutions to a problem.  To open our hearts to God means we, especially us priests, must go away from the limelight and partisan politics, to be hidden from the crowd so that it is Christ who is experienced because only He changes peoples and nations.  Opening to God is allowing God to do His work in us and through us, always centered on Him and not to one’s self or anyone claiming to be a messiah.  May we open our hearts today to God so He would truly dwell in us.  Amen. Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ni San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

Photo by the author, sunrise at the Dead Sea, 21 April 2017.

Charisma – Inspiration – Loyalty!

LordMyChef”TGIF”Quote, 07 September 2018:

“Energy motivates but charisma inspires.  Energy is easy to see, easy to measure and easy to copy.  Charisma is hard to define, near impossible to measure and too elusive to copy.  Charisma has nothing to do with energy; it comes from a clarity of WHY.  It comes from absolute conviction in an ideal bigger than oneself.  Energy, in contrast, comes from a good night’s sleep or lots of caffeine.  Energy can excite.  But only charisma can inspire.  Charisma commands loyalty.  Energy does not.”  (Simon Sinek, “Start With Why”, page 134.)

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Photo by Fr. Nick F. Lalog II, Jerusalem, 19 April 2017.

 

Old Wine May Be Good, But New Spirits Got the Kicks

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Friday, 07 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1 Corinthians 4:1-5///Luke 5:33-39

            God our loving Father, another week of work and studies is coming to a close.  As we look forward to the weekend rest and recreation, may we not forget the many new things and new realizations we have learned and discovered this week about you.

            Let us accept the new meaning of fasting as well as the other new perspectives about you and your plans for us revealed in the coming of your Son Jesus Christ.  Let us not be fixated with traditions and rituals, even beliefs that have made us complacent in our relationship with you.  So many times in life we do not meet you in the present because we are always in the past, contented in holding on to that saying  “old wine is good” (Lk.5:39) that we miss trying new wines that have new and stronger “kicks” so to speak.
            Give us the grace like St. Paul of being a “servant of Christ and steward of the mysteries of God” (1Cor.4:1) by constantly examining our trustworthiness before you, cleansing and purifying our hearts for you alone.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria, Bulacan 3022.

The Inverse Proportionality of God’s Glory

The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Thursday, 06 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1Corinthians 3:18-23///Luke 5:1-11

            Your words, O God, today are a mystery, revealing the inverse proportionality of your glory!  As I think of the new day, I cannot help but smile that for us to be wise in this age as St. Paul reminds us in the first reading, we have to be fools, “For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in the eyes of God.”(1Cor.3:18-19)

            Like Simon Peter in the gospel, we have to be “shallow” by setting aside our expertise, our intelligence or brilliance as fishermen to obey instructions of Jesus the carpenter to “cast their nets into the deep”(Lk.5:4) to catch more fish.

            Whenever I look back in my life, I notice how often I felt empty when I tried to be more in control; but, when I surrendered myself to you in faith, that is when I felt fulfilled!  Give us the grace, O Lord, to heed the Apostle’s words, “Let no one deceive himself”(1Cor.3:18) because your ways and your glory are inversely proportional to ours.  When the world tells us to go up and rise, you tell us to go down to meet you.  When the world tells us to have more, you tell us to give and share to be filled by you.  And when the world tells us to be famous and popular, you tell us to be simple and hidden to discover true glory and majesty in you. Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,  Bulacan  3022.  Photo by the author taken last 23 February 2018 during our Stations of the Cross in a barrio.  See the warning against stealing or “dukot” with Christ below.

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Focusing On God Than With Self

The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Wednesday, 05 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1Corinthians 3:1-9///Luke 4:38-44

             We praise and thank you O God our heavenly Father in giving us today a modern saint who had lived in our midst, in our own time:  St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta.

             What is really joyful in celebrating her memorial today is the very fact you are real!  You exist, O God! because right among us in this modern time when everyone either discards you or disregards you, we have met and encountered – personally or on TV and media – a “living saint” whose focused was YOU among the poorest of the poor.  St. Mother Teresa had taught us in this modern time what St. Paul insisted to the Corinthians of his time that “we are God’s co-workers; we are God’s field, we are God’s building” (1Cor.3:9) and we have no any right to brag about our “spirituality” or “holiness”.

               True saints do not even know that they are holy because their only focus is YOU, in finding YOU among those living in the margins of the society.  Give us that same grace you have given St. Mother Teresa to imitate Jesus Christ to always go to the fringes to proclaim the Kingdom of God (Lk.4:44) in words and in deeds.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.  Photo from Google.
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Isang Tula sa Tabi

Minsan ako’y dumaing sa aking pananalangin
Mga hinaing kinikimkim, ibinulalas sa Panginoon natin.
Sabi ko sa Kanya, ako nama’y walang reklamo kung tutuusin
Nagtataka lang naman bakit ako’y maraming pasanin.
Banayad na umihip hanging malamig,
At ako’y tumingin kung saan ito galing.
Bigla itong tumigil nang aking hanapin,
Kaya’t muli ako’ng yumuko at nanalangin
Upang makinig sa maari Niyang sabihin.
Sa aking pananatili parang Kanyang sinasabi
“Madalas kasi Ako’y iyong sinasantabi, parang walang silbi.
Kung di ka pa magulpi, di ka pa tatabi para Ako’y makapagsabi
Na Ako’y lagi mong katabi, humahabi ng iyong balabal para sa gabi.”
“Oo nga po, Panginoon” aking nasabi.
Madalas ako’y walang pasintabi,
Palaging nangangati sa paggawa ng ayon sa sarili.
Kung di pa nga ako magulpi sa sobrang “busy”,
Hindi pa nga ako tatabi para Ikaw ay makatabi.
P. Nicanor F. Lalog II
Ika-04 ng Hulyo 2018, alas-10 ng umaga
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Speaking with Authority, Power of Words

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Tuesday, 04 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1Corinthians 2:10-16///Luke 4:31-37

            God our loving Father, you created everything merely by speaking.  Whatever you said happened.  In the beginning was the Word, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord who became flesh and dwelt among us.

             May your words, O God, dwell in our hearts.  May we recognize your Holy Spirit within us so that we may “understand the things you have freely given us to have the mind of Christ.” (1Cor.2:12,16)  Today in our world, words are multiplied over a million times daily but always end up empty of any meaning at all.  We long, O God, for your words that are fulfilled in our hearing.
             Give us the grace to always speak with authority like your Son Jesus Christ our Lord by speaking your words of love and mercy.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.  *Photo from Google Images.

Great People, Great Organization

LordMyChef “I-Like-Mondays” Quote, 03 September 2018:

“Great organizations become great because people inside the organization feel protected.  The strong sense of culture creates a sense of belonging and acts like a net.  People come to work knowing that their bosses, colleagues and the organization as a whole will look out for them.  This results in reciprocal behavior.”

(Simon Sinek, “Start With Why”, page 105.)

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Impressing People Does Not Impress God

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The Lord Is My Chef Breakfast Recipe-Prayer
Monday, 03 September 2018, Week XXII, Year II
1Corinthians 2:1-5///Luke 4:16-30
          God our almighty and loving Father, on this first working day of the week, we pray for the grace to be our true selves like St. Paul in the first reading.  Give us the courage to accept who we really are, to accept our weaknesses so that our faith may not rest on human wisdom but on your power, O God.
          Help us not to fall prey into the temptation of impressing people, of being filled with pride and ego, trying to be a messiah when we are simply vessels of your grace.  May we be like your Son our Lord Jesus Christ who is always empty of Himself but filled with the Holy Spirit that your words are fulfilled in hearing.
          Saints like Gregory the Great whose feast we celebrate today were able to fulfill great tasks not because of their own power and strengths but due to their humility before you.  Like the saints, let us simply do what is good, to do what is supposed to be done not for shameful profits or impressions from people around us.  Amen.Fr. Nicanor F. Lalog II, Parokya ng San Juan Apostol at Ebanghelista, Gov. F. Halili Ave., Bagbaguin, Sta. Maria,Bulacan 3022.
*Photo by the author taken at the St. Agnes Church in Jerusalem last April 2018.

“You’re In My Heart” by Rod Stewart (1977)

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The Lord Is My Chef Sunday Music//Week XXII-B//02September2018
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            Today’s gospel invites us to examine our hearts because as Jesus Christ told the people of His time and us today, “Nothing enters one from outside can defile that person; but the things that come out from within are what defile.  From within people, from their hearts, come evil thoughts, unchastity, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, licentiousness, envy, blasphemy, arrogance, folly.  All these evils come from within and they defile.” (Mk.7: 17,21-22) 

            There was only one song that I kept on hearing at the back of my mind while reflecting on the Lord’s teaching:  Rod Stewart’s “You’re In My Heart”.   I was in elementary school when this song came in 1977 that perfectly expressed my feelings with the only “crush” I had from Grade 1 to Grade 6.  Now that I am a priest and still very much in love – with Jesus Christ! – I still find this song very relevant, of how a love that is true and noble inside one’s heart could inspire anyone to change ways to become a better person!

I took all those habits of yours
That in the beginning were hard to accept
Your fashion sense, Beardsly prints
I put down to experience
The big bosomed lady with the Dutch accent
Who tried to change my point of view
Her ad lib lines were well rehearsed
But my heart cried out for you
Chorus:  You’re in my heart, you’re in my soul
You’ll be my breath should I grow old
You are my lover, you’re my best friend
You’re in my soul
My love for you is immeasurable
My respect for you immense
You’re ageless, timeless, lace and fineness
You’re beauty and elegance
You’re a rhapsody, a comedy
You’re a symphony and a play
You’re every love song ever written
But honey what do you see in me [Chorus:]
You’re an essay in glamour
Please pardon the grammar
But you’re every schoolboy’s dream
You’re Celtic, United, but baby I’ve decided
You’re the best team I’ve ever seen…